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10 Sex Mistakes You Learned from Porn
Last longer in bed, have more sex in your relationship, become an amazing lover. Watch Caitlin V as she shares sex tips, relationship advice, and personal insights here on YouTube.
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😂 ok. My wife is the one who wants the faster, harder thrusting because that is her favorite way.
Why do men think the longer they take by pounding you like a jack hammer the better it is? False. Even when I ask them to perform oral sex a certain way. They don't listen. I get bored and frustrated. I just want them to finish so I can leave. I find that I'm fantasizing about my boyfriend when I'm with someone else. Weird right? My bf is the best at oral sex, but it took time for him to learn what I like. Having sex with men I hardly know is a waste of time.
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ACTUALLY, PORN NOW, SO FAR AS I CAN SEE, DOES HAVE A LOT OF DIFFERENCE IN RACES, BODY TYPES, AGES AND SO FORTH. BUT IT TENDS TO FEED YOU. MORE AND MORE OF WHAT YOU LOOK for and click on, just like social media does.
Nothing lasts as long in real life as it does in porn. They can make a thirty-second act of intercourse seem like half an hour by just rerunning the same clip on a loop over an hour.
A woman who can only stand to do deep throat for a coupler of minutes can, likewise, be made to look like she can just do it and do it and do it.
A lot of porn has become more and more cruelty driven. Some things are not supposed to feel good, they are acts of sadism. But if it is where you get your first sex education, you may not know that.
Anal sex, which needs more foreplay than any other kind for everybody but the most experienced recipients, is just done as if it were nothing. Gag fking, which most women hate, is depicted as normal. Worse, chocking is depicted as normal. I used to be involved in the organized BDSM community, and there was one guy who was both a BDSM educator and a paramedic, told people over and over that chocking people simply is not safe. Evan in this community, where some people routinely swung suspended from meat hooks embedded in their flesh, word was that it is not safe to cut off somebodies' oxygen supply, But in porn, they do it for extended periods of time. They will gag fk a woman for a long time while pinching her nose shut with one hand and holding her throat with the other, while she turns purple. Turning purple can't be faked. She is at risk of dying. Don't try this at home. They should not be even trying it in the studio.
It can be hard to tell if a woman is making noises and weird faces out of pleasure or pain. They used to cut out scenes where women started crying, but now they don't, because it has become the feature, not the bug.
Meanwhile, women think that men just show up for sex with hard ons. They don't know that there was a "fluffer" working on his erection before the camera even started rolling and the main actress stepped in.
Learning how to do sex well from porn is like learning how to pilot a spacecraft from watching Star Treck. You can't. And if you try, somebody is likely to get hurt.
Fast thrusting prevents a woman from having a orgasm. Multiple tasking with your hands is a must.
11..most btches that "squirt" in orgasm, are pissing! NOT squirting from orgasm….talk about fake
She told me it felt so good 😊yup I do my thang
Recently started doing this and she ain't lying 😂 the orgasm is so out of this world 🎉 didn't realize it could be so good 🥵
As one who has grown insecure with the size of my penis, I was told by a lover once that what I don't have in penis I can make up for in tongue and touch
Another difference is spontaneously having sex with people you just meet. It often isn’t quite safe, and you don’t really know if you can trust the person. Both with the threat of STIs, pregnancy or psychological baggage.
People in polyamorous relationships tend not to stray outside of thier group. They have built a trust within each person when if one sleeps outside the group they might be kicked out.
Those long scenes that happen in porn are not continuous. The actors take breaks between positions both to calm down so that they can last that long but also to receive direction and to make sure the scenes work. Remember it is acting.
Surely, women – as a whole – don't like to be gagged by a penis going down their throats. I remember when I first saw 'gagging' in porn, I didn't like it at all. But now, most porn do 'gagging'… I have gotten used to watching it, but I wouldn't want to emulate it. It is horrid. I have seen one scene whereby the woman in question is regurgitating all over the guy's balls. I don't know who can find such scenes a turn on. Each to his / her own. 💋💋💋💋
This definitely Caitlin at her sexiest
Glad i found you, love all the videos. Will recommend you to my friends!
One thing I do wanna point out is the whole average thing look in general not always but in general average in the black community might be different to other races outside. I'm a size 13 in foot to me that's average in my community but to someone else not so much I see? Another thing too is like I mention about the average thing some people might need more lube than others. Just saying….and lastly when it comes to body types in the black community there are thousands of them we have so much diversity in our black genes so this idea that you need to fit this mold is crazy to me. I guess that's what people get by trying to be white and conform to them.
Thank you for all of the information that I have received from watching your page
8 to 9😊
Never do an!al and stick it into the vag immediately after. Big no no, guys!
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We love you thanks for all your hard work
you're way more attractive up close by the camera!
Excellent advice and so true👌
Your awesome
HA!!! A bag of orgasams ma lady!!!
Yes, ALL media is a distortion of reality, even porn. Oh, porn has its place, mainly as inspiration, but definitely not as a role model that's impossible to be like.
Size of a mans dong is a misnomer, a large dong needs too much blood and pressure to get hard so a normal size will achieve a stronger erection.
Well that might be true for some guys but when you got a cock the size of a soda can & fill your wifes virgin tight pussy so much that it feels like I'm sticking it in a garden hose
I'm not a woman so I can't confirm that these are true or just based on my experience. But 4 mistakes (as in false fantasies) I learned from porn are 1) women are ready to have sex at any time, with pretty much anyone. 2) women are comfortable with nudity and their bodies. 3) women with "perfect" bodies are "funner" in bed. 4) people spend a lot of their time having sex.
Lasting a long time inside her doesn't make a difference. A small percentage of women achieve orgasm by PIV so staying in there is just going to bore the hell out of her.
,,,so women don't give signs of pleasure,,, they expect a guy to be a great mind reader. Might as well be f@#£#@£g an object.
1. THRUSTING IS WHAT GETS WOMEN OFF.
2. ALL WOMEN MOAN A LOT.
3.I'TS YOUR JOB TO GET HER OFF.
4. ANAL SEX IS EFFORTLESS.
5. NO ONE NEEDS LUBE.
6. SEX IS FOR SEXY PEOPLE.
7. YOU DON'T WANT TO USE YOUR HANDS.
8. HARDER IS ALWAYS BETTER.
9. THINKING THAT EVERYONE HAS A BIG DICK.
10. POSITIONS WITH THE BEST VISUAL ALSO PRODUCE THE BEST FEELINGS.
LISTEN TO ALL CONTENT FOR MORE DETAILS. THANK YOU CUTE CAITLIN 😘 ❤️ ✌️ 🇵🇷 👋
Hi Catlin, I'm Brian from New Zealand. I think you are the best 👌 your voice is as sexy as listening to the best singers!
Most of the things you're talking about I know and understand as a confident, compassionate and caring NZ bloke.
If you ever come to the South Island, I'd travel to come and shake your hand, you can have you're security around you, snipper on the roof, haha 😄. I home my beautiful New Zealand never gets like that.
Sweetness, what I wanted to ask why you never, or not that I've seen, use any props ? Especially when it comes to showing where the Palvic Floor, Prostate and so much more are located. Surely most men are down with the clitorus and G Spot are but, just as a suggestion, when it comes to things like the PC muscle you could have a small diagram come up beside you, don't ever let it take away from your beautiful features.
Luv you lots,
Brian
Basically what yall need to remember…porn stars are paid to act that way…it aint how it is in life…same with bdsm…theres alot of self proclaimed doms out there whos only training was the videos…this results in a negitive experience for the sub and may kill their desire to go further ..and may even turn them off to sex completely..and that ruins it for them and future partners…so get proper instructions like here and have some real fun
Fantastic advice. When I was in my early 20s, I dated a woman in her early 40s and she taught me a ton. One thing she told me that it isn't my job to get her off. I need to recognize the rhythms, take my time, and let her get herself off.
What you forgot: I don't think most women like to be choked by a dick. That guy fucks their throat making them gag, but you see that all the time in porn.
The porn I've seen has lube being used. Also you see all body types in porn.
Thank you for the video. Very informative. I definitely separate porn and real life in a lot of ways. When it comes to normal porn obviously, I like women that are both younger than me, like 20s for example and older than me all the way up to 60s. However in real life, I only naturally want to be with (in any sort of way) women as young as one year older than me all the way up to early 50s max. Porn is just for looks and I'm not trying to sound degrading, but when it comes to companionship, love, sex, emotional affection, serious sexual attraction, and partnership, I only desire older women but not super older. Random but this video made me think of this truth. Aside from just imagery and show, I never took porn seriously one bit 😆
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killer. also paCE AT WHICH SEX HAPPENS. IN PORN is happens quickly. Not so ion r eal life.
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Despite that I' am aware of this, I found it informative.
#3. Men are not responsible for women’s orgasms. It’s a collaborative effort. She has to want it, to be into it, and to work for it herself.
All of that is true, but if she does not experience orgasm, chances are he will be blamed for it. And because men are goal oriented, if she doesn’t get off, he’s more likely to suffer feelings of inadequacy over it. And if she tends to talk with her friends, he’ll possibly wind up with a reputation he can’t easily lose.
please add background music its getting boring