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5 Reason Why Women Watch Porn
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I can say with 100% certainty that my wife is not watching porn. Back in the day we'd watch together on a very rare occasion and she really wasn't into it. She doesn't really care if I watch it by myself but it's not her thing. She's pretty conservative that way.
Iβm retired in my 60βs and my wife and I watch porn and she has become an orgasm machine.
You got me at total pervert lol
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Females visiting porn sites ONCE a month proves that women arenβt really consuming porn.
Women know they donβt need porn. If they want to get laid, they have hundreds of guys in their match list on Tinder or Snapchat.
If women resort to masturbation, itβs only because their schedules are overloaded and donβt have all the time required to lasso a man.
Men resort to porn because itβs much more cost effective than trying to go out on a date. One date is $100-$150 and thereβs no guarantee heβs gonna get anywhere, maybe a second date. If it takes three dates before the woman will sleep with him, then heβs looking at $300.
So many guys will just fap for nothing.
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In a different video I remember hearing you say guys shouldnβt watch porn, but here youβre saying itβs okay for women? Am I understanding this correctly?
What goes in America doesnβt go anywhere
A big impact, statistically, is that it increases the % of women who like facials, in fact it about doubles it.
caitlin you look like 2017 Katy perry
We were once told that women had to be forced into porn or prostitution but the internet has shown us that women CHOOSE that lifestyle of their own free will in their BILLIONS. So who cares if they watch porn if I can basically see any woman type I desire doing anything I fantasize about for free.
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My wife never watched porn.. She said it turns her off sex..
I despise the pretending in porn. It is impossible to find porn that is not disgustingly cynical. People dot fuck like that with that speed. Second worst are the implants. Third: from asshole to the mouth. Yak!
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13 million isn't even a quater
My concern with women watching porn is for the most part, guys are waaaay above average i .. so are women then conditioned to expect .normal guys. to be above average.. scary shit.. asking for a friend..
this is blasphemy according to Twitter. "sex is cringe. women should not be objectifying themselves regardless of what they want, because they dont know whats best for them. they need to be treated like children forever. you dont wanna be seen as a weirdo predator for suggesting that women enjoy sexual stuff too, do you?"
the fundamental religious sex negativity is just a mental disorder at this point
its not just porn watching the women are socialized to feel bad about, even just normal casual masturbation is something they're thought is wrong and shameful for them, even more than men are socialized against it, which is part of why they dont do it as often as men. though the ease and certainly of sexual availability for women (they can get sex far more easily than men) also has a large psychological effect. if they believe they can get sex anytime they want, pretty much, their desire to seek it out and fetishize it is radically reduced. its like how living on the beach reduces your interest in going to the beach, because you live there. ofcourse, this isnt universal, its just an averages thing.
i believe this is also why abstinence only education has the opposite effect of its intended goal, making young people, or really anyone before menopausal age, more likely to engage in risky sexual behavior due to both repression, taboo and lacking education leading to a greater interest in and obsession with sex and increased likelihood of doing it incorrectly or dangerously because they just dont know any better, because they were not responsibly informed.
sex negativity, and most of the things born from it, are atleast somewhat toxic, or even outright dangerous, for society, for both men and women, especially with the evidence supporting the idea that more sexually liberated countries tend to have lower rates of sexual issue and sex related crimes.
its wild how the west generally, but America specifically, is basically positively obsessed with violence, but so negatively obsessed with sexuality, and they have some of the highest rates of violent criminal behavior and sexual criminal behavior of any developed nation. its almost like sexual stuff is generally fine and maybe violence is the stuff we should be toning down, huh? such a backwards country..
its weird how much porn gets shit on for being creepy. even some men, like MGTOW types, are against it for the idea that its "creepy" or whatever to watch porn because its supposedly like voyeurism without consent. thats like saying that going to a strip club is the same as peeping on on someone in the dressing room because at some point you're going to see one of the strippers while they arent facing you, which is a perfectly good comparison, but its super dumb, because their opinion is super dumb. if porn actors record it voluntarily, knowing its going to be posted on the internet, then they consented. otherwise we might aswell ban all image uploading of real people since its basically the same thing, whether is sexual or not.
the idea of porn being about discovery in a positive sense does not exist in the mind of twitter users. its all bad, no exceptions, and mentioning the fact that some younger people view it, regardless of their reaction to it, make them lose their minds and demand that all porn be banned immediately and anyone who advocates for it be investigated or some crazy shit. maybe people should just do a better job monitoring and curating what kids do on the internet instead? like, just in general? because sexual stuff isnt the only stuff that can potentially harm young kid son the internet? the government shouldnt be the only parents, they're not the best option for that. but then again if parents are really so bad at the most important job, maybe theres just no hope for the future of humanity..
wait, porn preferences arent a perfect reflection of our IRL desires? have i been tricked by the far left into believing that fantasy is reality? it cant be. ofcourse if you watch porn with men who have 10 inch members in it, using literally all their strength to absolutely ruin their sex partner, you clearly must want that to happen to you, right? fantasy is never just fantasy, its just reality that you havent acted on yet massive fucking eye roll
i dont think many people want women to enjoy sex, or anything related to it. there are alot of people unironically suggesting that women should be largely sexless in basically every way. not desiring sex for anything other than procreation, not dressing provocatively or even in just a generally feminine way, not looking at porn, etc. and its not even just a conservative thing, many leftists express basically the same exact sentiment, sometimes even for the same reasons. im almost certain the horseshoe theory is true atleast to some degree.
porn improving women's self image? i can feel far left twitter seething already.
idk about more right-leaning types, but im fine with there being plenty of porn with diverse body types, and diverse everything really. skin colors, personalities, fetishes, anything legal basically. though i dont think literally all porn need to check every diversity box to be acceptable. there should porn with all sorts of people in in, but there should also be porn with only white people in it, only black people in it, only Indians or Japanese or whatever. only women in it, only men in it, only trans people etc skinny people, larger people, overweight people, every size. even people with disabilities that still allow them to consent properly. maximum diversity shouldnt be the only acceptable option, sometimes its fine for it to be "homogenized", but in a way thats overall equal, or atleast as equal as it can reasonably get.
but with that should come good filtering options so people can choose what they want to search for, especially people who might have some trauma related to certain groups, like SA victims who dont want to see men in sexual situations, or women, or whatever the case may be. various options and good, user-dictated curation should be heavily prioritized when it comes to any media, not just porn.
the unrealistic and toxic expectations we develop in our mind when we watch literally any media involving even slightly realistic humans, is an issue, but the solution is not to be all media involving unrealistic expectations from humans who are seemingly effortlessly masters of a craft or are in peak condition in whatever way that might mean. what we should do instead is be regularly mindful of what we watch and how we feel when we watch it, maybe watching stuff that doesnt involve so many basically perfect characters. when it comes to porn, watching more "amateur" porn with people who atleast act like they're not acting, ironically, or who are literally not acting, or atleast dont have the experience to fake it as well as seasoned porn starts can. this can give people a sense that these people are not gods of sex and that they, the view, doesnt need to be perfect to be acceptable.
that doesnt mean that "perfect" actors fucking perfectly should be completely banned from the world, it just means we should be mindful of how this type of media is effecting us, regulate ourselves when it comes to watching it, and try to mentally cleanse our minds with more flawed performances of recorded sex when we feel that these professional actors are making us non-actors feel like worthless plebeians.
theres no reason websites cant curate amateur porn to make sure its legal and created/uploaded with consent from those involved. it might be a bit more difficult, but then that just means they have to take more time before allowing it on their site, or just never allowing specific images/videos on their site if it doesnt qualify, just like any media like this should be to make sure its legal to begin with. if it were that no amateur porn could be proven to be legal and consensual, then fine, disallow it. but i dont think thats the case in reality.
idk how i feel about the idea of the "or-gaze-m". i dont think anyone should be given that much power.
more opnmindedness makes you more open to porn, and it feed into itself? this is, im pretty sure, literally the supposed "porn addiction spiral" that so many political extremists rant about. hearing it be talked about in a positive light is.. disorienting. in a good way.
ya know, seing all these points laid out, pun intended, all at once, makes me think of it in the context of how society has pretty much done everything imaginable to control women's sexuality and self-image in a way that, as much as its annoying to suggest, massively benefits men, who are the ones most likely to benefit form this hyper repression and control over how women can feel about and view their own bodies and sexual interests. the easier ti is for women to feel sexual desires, engage with their sexuality physically and enjoy it without shame, the less control than men can exert over their minds in this way, which makes it somewhat harder to essentially use them in sexual ways, because they are more informed, epxeriences and wary of everything related to female sexuality. as they say, knowledge will set you free, and what is the purpose of shackling women's sexuality other than to serve the interests of, primarily, controlling men? (plenty of men arent controlling in this way, im specifically calling out men who are like this. just because some radical feminists literally hate all men regardless of context, doent mean that i have to excuse every single man's toxic behavior just because i dont agree with the hateallmen hashtag. theres a middle ground there somewhere, and thats where i sit)
1:12 the subtitler translated "men in sex" to "men, insects". hmmm
one thing never before seen was he raising her with his feet under her armpits and lowering her down and up and down and…doubt it is practical, but was entertaining. Thank you for your insight doctor.
What's very interesting, that I heard in a documentry on this subject, was that Women don't object to the hard core stuff, but they like lead in stories, rather than just to see people fucking, also in today's World, there are many ex performer, female Directors (& some that didnt come from an adult back ground themselves) when asked what the difference in approach to making these films was between Male & female Directors, one woman said the sex was less violent more subtle, but it was ALL hard core stuff even when a story was involved in the end of course.
of course this is the big misconception that only men look at porn, the porn these days is designed to cater to women, and to cuck out and disparage all men. YAYYYYY PROGRESS!!!!!
MEN CAN DO ANYTHING AND BE CALLED PERVERTS, WHILE WOMEN CAN DO ANYTHING AND NOT BE CALLED PERVERTS…
HURRAY US WOMEN ARE GETTING MORE AND MORE DEGENERATE! AMAZINGLY EMPOWERED COW FOIDS!!
The concept of "sexual consent" means that all participants involved must freely and willingly agree to engage in sexual activity.ππππππ
Watching porn can it lead to cheating
Your mission is absurd in the current order of things. You'd be better off speaking on getting babies made – not even MORE mindless hedonism.
Many pornographic video clips are of low quality and lack the realism, education and experience required to have sex. They are closer to animal instinct than human instinct. I wish they would be removed. Therefore, for myself, I abstain from watching pornography. The best thing that instinct calls for is when sexual thoughts and fantasies begin in my mind. I practice normal sexual relations with a woman who is suitable for her.
What's the other 1/3
How is once a month "a lot of porn"?
It can also be a form of therapy
Porn fries your brain (frontal cortex) and your dopamine supply. It's deeply embedded in western society and one of the reasons behind its current state of decay and degeneracy. doesnt matter if man or woman, the best move for you was to raise awareness on the true impact of this nasty and harmful addiction rather than to celebrate it.
You can call me a pornaholic but fisting and scissoring blow me away to this day !
What a brilliant postβ¦β¦so refreshing outlook. As a male, always wondered if my wife viewed porn, seemingly not, guess I need to introduce her to gentle porn
it's nothing like reaching the peak together!!!