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5 Reasons She’s Not having Orgasms (And what to do about it 😉)
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You should go on dr drew after dark
Hi Caitlin. Great video on this. You mentioned that the only factor for why many straight women aren't having orgasms is the men. I used to think this, but after further study, it's actually not the men. It's the women who identify as straight, who are not actually straight, which the studies missed. Before the clitoris can function properly, sexuality comes first. Sexuality is the core engine behind being able to achieve orgasm, and solves all of the problems you listed. This is the cause of the difference between the Straight woman who easily has orgasms with men, and the "Straight" woman who don't.
If men were really the problem, it would mean that the straight women who are easily having orgasms with men, are just getting lucky always meeting the right men who know what they're doing and makes them feel safe. Which is improbable. Very interesting topic.
The problem with sex ed is that t they're teaching teens. If you tell teens something is really fun they're going to run out and do it ASAP.
Your channel is so great and safe
Caitlin, you are awesome! Love your positive energy and your empathy for your viewers/ followers! You are a true inspiration. Thanks for sharing your knowledge, experiences, advice, tips & tricks! I’m asolutely grateful!
"time"
There's an episode of "Unhappily Ever After" where Jack Malloy looks at his watch and says to himself, "Twenty minutes before the game starts. Think I'll go upstairs and give the wife a thrill." NOT good! 🤣
I don’t want to perform anymore. I want to play 🥳
We live in a world where we don't speak for ourselves, we speak in generalizations! So our actions, say; because I'm a "Woman/Man" I can speak for the rest of my gender. When what's accurate, is we can only speak for ourselves!
Me realizing Caitlin had a vibrater around her neck in her videos this whole time : 👁️👄👁️
I'm glad you focus on man and women sex
Any information or points on having sex with a bigger women and or eating her kitty? Thanks in advance!
In the US more than 75% of men experience pain during sex… due to circumcision. When men complain about this they are told to suck it up. There definitely is no health emergency about it
You saved my marriage 😀 keep up the good work Caitlin!
I think it should be a matter of pride for a man. The satisfaction of a job well done.
You are so smart an so sweet, baby! I adore you. 🥰🥰🥰
Thank you again. You are awesome!
The goddess herself Has dropped the vid whenever i needed…
Always emphasize to
your audience that… It's ALL about the journey to the destination…
You my dear…are a 💎 among stones 😘!!!
CAN ANYONE IN THE COMMENTS PLEASE HELP ME ANSWER THIS FOR ME 🙏🏽🙏🏽
1) WHAT IS YOUR THOUGHTS ON RIBBED AND DOTTED CONDOMS BEING USED ON FOR SEX DO THEY MAKE YOU ORGASM OR IS THE SEX GREAT ??
2)ALSO HAS ANY WOMAN USED WHATS KNOWN AS "PUSSY PUMPS" ARE THEY WORTH THE PURCHASE TO USE IN FOREPLAY?????
HELP PLEASE
Okay so I have a legit concern and question that I want to ask because I can't really find an answer for it online.
Anybody that might know anything about this please feel free to respond. So here's the thing.
When I have sex with my girlfriend I can feel something hard inside of her vagina and feels like maybe some kind of a hard protrusion or flap or something and it causes pain for me obviously when I hit it and it causes pain and discomfort for her too and we have to find the right angle to avoid it. I'm very average size length so I'm not too big and I'm not small and I've had enough sexual partners to say that I've never experienced this before and she seems kind of surprised by it too. Does anybody know what the heck I am feeling inside of her when we are having intercourse?
Could it be like her pubic bone or something to do with the cervix Maybe?
3:20 Yeah baby…eat that apple! 🤣
Pls no men ever in these videos tho…use lesbians instead!!!
👧👩🦰👩👱♀️'yeah use us instead!!!!
And no pegging videos ever… It took humanity a million years to get to this point we don't want to change that!
You are amazing!
Empower your woman, comfort her, love her, emotionally, physically and always listen. Bathe in the erotic stories she likes, share yours, create new ones together. Communication is always the key.
Carlin, Invite me on as a guest. (virtual) Experience to validate and add to… ur so dead-on. Let’s talk. Scooter
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Ik one reason. Her partner has a small weiner 😊😋
Love love love this. Right on.
After this video I started thinking that self-satisfaction is way more efficient and preferable. Women became too complicated for a such primitive natural action.
And you are blaming men?
To Caitlin:
I would like to see a man use his bare tongue to lick a woman’s bare hands. I would like to see a man use his bare mouth to suck on woman’s bare hands. Also the young woman must be topless and oily as this is happening. The young woman must have natural breasts, she must a have natural face, and she must have a natural body. I would like the man to be topless. I like hand worship fetish porn like this. Can Goldie Blair do porn fetish like this. Can you read this?
Thank you
I’ve been disappointing women since 1983. Nothing new here
Awesome vid Caitlin.
When l get another partner, her and l will be watching this b4 we do that.
I love taking my time and getting to that stage where she just wants it, and right now…..❤
It’s not the destination, it’s the journey.
Unfortunately, my wonderful, beautiful wife has never experienced an orgasm with me in our 20 years together. It sucks for both of us (and not in a good way). ADD, combined with antidepressants, post-menopausal, results in no arousal. We’ve tried everything: bioidentical hormones, sex therapists, different meds, toys, salves. It’s a sad state of affairs in our bedroom. 😢
I’d be immensely sad if my SO wasn’t having orgasms but what would hurt and horrify me even more is if she couldn’t, wouldn’t or didn’t feel like she could openly discuss this with me as her SO. It’s important for both sides to enjoy the sex or intimacy (I hope Catlin makes videos on how intimacy doesn’t equate to sex or a physical encounter. Some of the most rewarding times are cuddling, doing activities together and so on. Non-sexual things). Being open and transparent about what you’re in, what works etc is so fundamental to the trust in a relationship. I view it as a challenge more than anything. If she’s not orgasming, what could be done differently? Maybe she already knows? Maybe she needs an exploratory session where we work out what works and what clearly doesn’t. What’s more of a blow to the ego? Burying a problem under the sand and not doing anything about it and facing it head on? Or taking a challenge (her not climaxing), facing it head on and eventually overcoming it?