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Are you a Grower or Shower?
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31 Comments
31 Comments
Grower. Kinda wishing I was a shower. You say it doesn’t matter, all of my partners and female friends say different. While I’m a good lover, the one thing my partners have said is they wish I was longer and thicker. Not sure there’s a natural way to fix it?
I am a grower. I am happy cus I had to scare a lot of girls who see guys as sex toys away. The last woman whom I had fun with, never had fun with a grower before. She was surprised and she couldn't explain how something short could almost double in length. She had a fun experience.She was happy that by turning his guy on, she could see how the P transformed rapidly from something seemingly small into something useable and very hard. It was as if she had a new super power. The fact that she can hide the P from the eyes of other women without them knowing the true size, is a form of accomplishment. Some women want privacy. They don't want a P that advertises it self automatically. Some women may be fascinated by the first time impressions that a shower gives. Some women are fast to test out a shower based on the bases that they think bigger size is better. They are curious to see if bigger automatically translates to better. These type of women may want something more public, something to boast about to their friends. Women who have fun with large showers may free more confident as they boast of taking in something larger than average.
An ex-girlfriend almost took a scientific interest when she found out I was a grower (first one she was ever with). I swear she practically made me a home body nudist so she could catch me flaccid and then get me aroused to watch. No complaints from me (save for occasional fatigue), but I drew the line when she wanted to video tape it. 😊
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I’m a shower I’m a grower I’m a midnight toker
Grower, if you start talking about it, it'll turn shower rather quickly , +5 maxing 8 . I like this, women love it. I have a couple of friends that are 12+ and women love them for awhile and then it turns hateful . I would have thought that'd be cool but I'm thankful God put me together just the way I am. I see all these healthy , nice looking women going for breast implants. That is so messed up.
It may be a bit easier to be a grower when it comes to "parking".
My husband is way over 15 inches, closer to 19 plus inches average soft. and way thicker than a 3-liter Coak bottle, just soft, so you can imagine how big that would be when it wakes up. I guess he is a grower because when it wakes up its like OMG it's 3 times bigger. I love it.
I'm in the grower category. I had a girlfriend use to call my penis, Mr wrinkly because of the extra skin. Fun facts. Thanks for information!
I'm a grower
Grower here. Flaccid length 4-8cm (like you said, varies wildly, depending) and girth 10cm. Erect length 16.5cm and girth 14.5cm. Growing up (pun intended), I sure wish I'd been a shower. Especially IN the shower.
Grower
Grower!
A definite grower here. When flaccid mine can get as small as 5cm or 2'' , up to 21cm or 8'' when fully erect. Kind of amazing actually 😄
There are actually 2 types of growers…. a common grower and an extreme grower. Most men are common growers. For example, growing from 3.5 to 5.5" is a common grower, but going from 3.5 to 7.5" is an extreme grower.
Growers can grow harder and it looks totally like something from the moon.
I have the best of both worlds yeah think about that
Grower flacid 5 inches but grows to 7 inches.
I am a grower 😉
2.9 in / 7.5 cm flaccid
6.1 in / 15.5 cm erect 😅
Shower here mine is 6 flaccid and 7.5 erect
grower, 2" flaccid and 7" erect. Always nice to surprise them.
please please please, stop saying penis so much, sounds dorky. say = member, junk, kickstand, willie, 3rd leg, etc. seriously, nobody says penis in real life.
Hahaha my boss (Mrs) calls it the Hulk coz when not at attention it’s temperature variant but nothing to brag about- and then “it gets angry…..” and looks like someone bolted a mag-lite over Bruce Banner. 😂 I’ve never given it much thought as when in use, it keeps both parties smiling.
To be honest, being a grower is way more convenient. You carry a Derringer in your holster that turns into a Desert Eagle when you draw it.
How a penis changes when it becomes erect (or grows flaccid) interacts in complex ways with the presence of obsence of foreskin. Circumcised men have less skin to grow into and so grow less on average. I know of no good discussion of these points.
Im a grower. Flaccid im only 3-4 inches and ive had partners pretty much laugh at me. Until i get hard and they see my 8 inches and thick member not laughing anymore. 😊😊
Definitely a Grower I always wanted to know why and what for thanks for the great info 🙏🏾🖤
Definitely a grower without question. I would’ve had the same guess as u
I'm a grower. I have about 2 inches in the relaxed and about 6.5 inches in the erection
Hello Caitlin, it was good to hear this from you, thank you.. Here I want to share something personal with you related to the same, since childhood, I had some foreskin issue (difficult to pull it back, the hole was not big enough), which used to create problem while urinating (pressure), I shared the same to my elder brother very late in 2011, went to Doctor with him, was adviced by Dr. For surgery to remove the forskin to create ease while urinating, surgey happened successfully.. But due to this childhood issue I think my penis could not grow enough especially in flaccid state, in erect state it is normal usually.. Since late teenage, I have ulcerative colitis, later ibs, thyroid, liver issues, high b12 deficiency, stomach swelling was found which affect my whole digestive system very much from stomach to anus region (very restricted diet has been adviced), this issue affects the bladder also (sometimes frequent urination, doesn't happen properly) because of this whole health issues, my penis size has been fluctuating a lot from very small to normal or big in flaccid state.. I have also noticed that my penis size in erect state has also been affected, the size has decreased a little bit, clearly visible, not getting erected or pumped fully (gets hard, not soft), i experience numbness very frequently in my hand, feet & other body areas a lot, which feels very odd, not normal (improper blood flow, i believe, which affects the penis size as well i believe), have you ever encountered such patient, I have never shared this to anyone so far, kindly response.. ✍️ 🥰
Grower here👋🏽 flaccid it’s a baby worm erect I’m 6.7 inches!😎