Caitlin V., MPH, Resident Sexologist at Royal, is a sex and relationship coach who helps people gain confidence, satisfaction, and deep transformation both inside and outside the bedroom.Visit for more full content www.caitlinvneal.com
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Are You Thrusting The Right Way?
Last longer in bed, have more sex in your relationship, become an amazing lover. Watch Caitlin V as she shares sex tips, relationship advice, and personal insights here on YouTube.
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YES! watching how I blasted all over the "place" in less than a month was shocking, I used what I talked about the other day, and although it actually took about 5 weeks for my volume to double, I just go'ogled Jan Venstaker's Shooting Ropes and her reaction has been priceless!
They like grinding on your thighs.
This is why bottoming out is so amazing when she grinds! That deep grind when it rubs my frenulum and glans keeps me hard and constantly grinding back for more
Excellent advice. Thank you! 🌅
I wanna be thrusting too
After watching this video with my wife and using these techniques with her, she is very very happy.
These are fantastic tips. Do you ever offer similar advice for women? Like, how they should move or thrust, etc.? Squeeze. Milk. Where can they learn how to be givers as well as receivers?
Thank you for these sexy move’s .😄
The cat and cow potion.and the swirl .believe it I never tried on my beautiful wife. Now I have something new to try on her. Now I have to get her in the mood .
Nothing wrong with my pelvic thrust.
Hi Caitlin, I’ve tried to reach out to in the comments section of your YouTube videos with the hopes to salvage my sex life with my wife; however, I haven’t received a response from you, another sex therapist, nor other viewers/listeners.
Our sex life is almost non-existent at this time.
Maybe if you don’t/can’t provide feedback, then a lady or a gentleman from your audience may help???
Background: we’re in our early 40s with 2 kids, ages 7 and 9. The kids have been going to school daily through covid; she’s an accountant, and I work for a major pharmaceutical company in chemistry R&D.
I was laid off 2 years ago from a position I had for 14 years and my wife does earn more money than I do.
My wife’s a bit on the heavy side, about 5’4 , around 175, with a big booty (I love the way she looks and feels and I OFTEN tell her so in and out of the bedroom).
I’m 5’11, I believe good looking, broad shoulders, and weigh around 190-195 (too much fast food). HOWEVER, I’M ONLY PACKING 4 inches with no girth…
We have sex about 10x per year; however, I give her oral every 2 weeks…
The ONLY TIME I’M able to help my wife orgasm is when I give her oral sex.
She has a clitoral orgasm about 90% of the time through oral. Sometimes my head/mouth gets tired and we use a vibrating egg to get her off when I can’t finish her off with my tongue.
Every few months she gets on top of me, and is able to have an orgasm rubbing herself off against me.
I’m 99% confident that my wife doesn’t fake these orgasms because I’ve only seen her orgasm these two ways, ONE time when I bought her a dildo and she squirted using it, and on MULTIPLE occasions when I’ve worn a penis sleeve that made my penis 9” long and over 5” thick.
My wife has gone wild when she’s had vaginal orgasms, and when she has a clitoral orgasm she gets very wet, blushes, and then is very sensitive to the touch down there.
I told her when wearing the penis sleeve I couldn’t feel anything at all, including her wetness and there’s no pleasure for me, SO she refuses to allow me to wear a penis sleeve for her pleasure anymore…
When we have sex it can ONLY BE missionary or her on top. HOWEVER, she just lays motionless during missionary, quiet as can be, and the ONLY THING she ever says, “PLEASE JUST GO”.
When we have missionary sex my wife OFTEN checks to make sure I’m still inside of her… She has said that I’ve slipped out, but I have been ALL THE WAY INSIDE of her!!!
How do I position myself to enter her from behind if she’s heavier and I’m smaller?
All of the “sex experts” say this is the position for deep penetration and many orgasm!!!!
However, I CANNOT penetrate my wife from behind- it won’t stay in/doesn’t connect….
Contrary to what many say, size does matter to a big extent!
My wife used to ask me to talk dirty in bed and she used to talk dirty in bed. Now it it’s just like I’m using her body to get off once every 8-10 weeks and I feel crappy.
I know she’s not having an affair and I’ve asked her if everything is “okay” with her female anatomy.
Thanks!!
Nope. Nope. Nope. This just hurts 🔄🚫 😣 How can you say that EVERY woman on earth likes that? That's just not true! Everybody likes a different thing…! 🙄
Grinding doesn't let me feel anything other than bending my shaft.
And if this doesn't get your girl to loosen up and let go…..try tequila.🤪
This was very informative. I hope I remember this once I finally have a lady. 😂😂😂😂
(00:32…) Ahahaha, it's adorable how you always refer to your male audience with edifying courage – giving words as "you red hot blooded male", ahahah, given that you do know that society since kindergarten has been doing exactly the opposite to us males, so that a lot of males that watch your videos struggle with low self esteem but you try to repair to that with your confidence giving words and your positivity, how sweet and sensitive of you XD
Most men already know this. We know porn is nonsense. I just wish porn showed women enjoying themselves as thats more of a turn on anyway.
By the way not all women want that grind around either, women are all different. so best check by whispering if its ok, don't ask too many questions though because some will think you are too clinical. (basically women are all different)
Fantastic!!! Tuning to my partner makes things better for everyone! A constant and consistent message. Love you, Caitlin!
It blows my mind this has to be explained to ppl smh
I tend to go like… WHAM (in) but then I pull back out very slowly
Yesssssss!!! Grinding is optimal. I LOVE IT!!! DRIVES ME WILD!!! 😲😵💫🤤😱😝😝🥰🥰
Are hips supposed to move in a circle up and down like "wax on, wax off" or front and back like SpongeBob's" bring it around town?"
Love your videos 🥰……. you’re making me a demigod 💪
Can you make a video on how to get her more involved. And make more of an effort to make it know that she is aroused?
Well it can be nice if she actually does some work instead of me doing all the work. In my whole relationship iv been doing all the work.
Me driving. Starts doing circles with my hips. But as a sexual women I’ve been doing hip circles sitting and standing forever. It’s just sexy to me to see anyones hips.
Can you personally teach me how to thrust. I need about a weeks worth of lessons.
Not sure if it's related but I remember hearing about researching finding that the sexiest dance styles involve less of flailing arms and more of gyrating the pelvic region. Like swaying or moving in a circular motion.
I rarely get the chance she always insists upon being on top and grinds me into the floor
Jeez maybe I'm a goof..maybe make a video on hair
I don't just thrust in and out I stir the honey pot xxx
Chris
Well some women have been brainwashed into thinking they're not beautiful and sexy. And when you tell these women these things they get upset because they don't think it's true. It breaks my heart so I really don't know what to say to these type of women.
What does a person with back issues do to loosen up? I can barely walk around most days and bending is very painful.
One of the simplest but classic discription in decent way
Girl on top is my kryptonite, so I usually save tht position for last 🤷🤦🥴! Lol 😁
Yes indeed my lady! This has been my routine for years!
Thanks for helping us dudes
I suffer from delayed ejaculation, so lasting isn't our issue. It allows me to learn how to make her eyes roll back and go apeshit O. We also enjoy her on top, doing what she wants likes. I get some cardio rest, and my wife is so sexy, that I get great visuals.
I grew up in the Valley… I have always known that porn sex is usually not very good sex. Its meant for the visual, not the real. We have learned each others buttons and likes. We communicate what we like, what might be fun to try, and what are no nos. Our sexual performance is definitely one area we match up well, and are very satisfied with.
You're such a Giver Caitlin. Thank You for Your Generosity.
O no 🥺 @Caitlin she doesn't like girl on top
love you Caitlin, you are real!!!!
The “Boner Tip” oops, I meant to say the “Bonus Tip” was really great. 😊 I saw you laughing😂 💪🏾🙌🏾
Men get a hard on , Women get a wide on . Got it, more grinding
I have to say I have learned a lot about having sex from you (not personally of course) and my GF love it 🙂 FYI she has a hair cut like you but its three different colors
Okay good time to leaning