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Thank you everyone for your support. More of us must speak up against injustice. I'm not perfect, but I am TRYING. One thing I want to clarify is that I said I am racist, and what I should have added is I am WORKING to be ANTIRACIST. It's not enough to acknowledge my own racism, my own prejudices, I have to work every day to unravel them.
Sorry being REAL late to this party. Curious as to what were the results regarding your sponsors and such? By the by, kudos for actually giving an HONEST reaction & commentary without the usual "hat in hand" or authoritative attitude one gets from some of the professional (doctors, lawyers, teachers, researchers, etc.) on this subject.
i am a 69 year old black man, and i know that you are beautiful from what i see and what you say
Fun facts the Egyptian Empire rule the world for 3,000 years more than any other Empire in history and guess what there where Black 🖤.
Lol I don't give a damn what people say or think about me it's going to take more than just black lives matter to fixed this problem lol we will get there!!!
I believe that people have the right to believe what they wanna believe you don't owe anyone nothing just be you please.
Thank you so much, ive been a fan for awhile. This just confirmed my thoughts about you. Keep up the great work!!
I don't judge someone based on the color of their skin, I judge them on their character and how they dress.
Thank you
Blm movement a mf joke now lol thank god
I would be very appreciative and honored to have a 1 on 1 session with you, LIVE.
And a very beautiful American. A good gender I might. Damn, I. Need to catch a live feed.
Wow I really love how. You explain!!!!!!! U kicked ass, Great words, from great thoughts!
Thank you for your perspective!
Lets see your shelves of books on this subject🙄
4 races 4 elements
White/european Fire element
Yellow/chinese air element
Americas/brown earth element
African/ black water element
These elements are all important when it comes to sex and many other things , 😉 there are no pure races by the way these days.
It's disgusting.
Damn. Having viewed your content before can’t say I’m surprised by the intellectual power at display here. You’re fucking awesome. Faith in humanity restored a bit, thank you.
The term Racism should never have been redefined.
It's causing a lot of problems in understanding.
BLM is a marxist hate group funded by the democrat party to cause violence when it suits them. Only the uninformed and easily manipulated support them.
From the Urban Dictionary
Virtue signaling describes a behavior of an individual openly seeking attention and external validation by ostentatiously pronouncing (generally through the use of social media) themselves to the world as someone possessing high moral values for a trivial decision made or action taken.
Quite a brave effort!!
Unfortunately, it is a very complex matter, that is bound to rake up bad experiences in people. But, I think that more we talk with each other, the more we would understand and overcome this huge hurdle.
Catlin may not see/read this as this video is 7 months old.
Great video, Caitlin! Thank you for giving of yourself and having the courage to take on this subject. I admire you.
Thank you for doing this. So much to talk about! I come to this from so many angles. I’m an educator outside Philadelphia and have worked in a very privileged place, as well as a very difficult place. I haven’t finished the video yet – have to go into work – but the discussion of triggers is really on point. People are triggered because they think they are giving up power. Instead of helping raise the circumstance of others, they get upset about “others” getting what they have. I’ve been studying this for like 18 years now. And it never gets less upsetting! I appreciate your candor and will finish the video after work. It’s killing me not to do so now and I really could defend watching it for research reasons! But I do have a lot to do today… thanks so much, again!
Catlin I am new to YouTube my husband makes comments all the time. To your channel even. Catlin the black men in this country should have a right to sex with white women. Even married white women. And yes I have been with 3 black men myself. I'm blonde headed blue eyes. and my first interracial was only 9 months ago when we decided it was the right thing to do.
Caitlin I love woman who think and have a set of HUGE brass ones. DON'T STOP TALKING ! 😉
Dont judge a man by the colour of his skin but judge them by their character.
Why is the color of black and brown skin scary and intimidating to caucasians? What makes the color so bad? I respect you for admitting that you are racist. All caucasians are racist and here’s why. If you ever partake in a racist joke or comment from a co-worker, friend or family member and you did not say it wasn’t right, you’re a racist. If you have black and brown friends with an S and you only invite one of those black and brown friends to your home for a party and they are the only one, you’re a racist. Black and Brown people is and have always been the most forgiving group of people in the world but yet made out to be something that we are not. Just like Caucasians you have bad and good, rich and poor, educated and non-educated. So explain why is the color of skin so frightening and intimidating to Caucasians. Thank you for being you and not hiding behind your privilege and racist up bringing.
Black people are not raised to be racist we are raised to respect all people and to help them when we can. If you don’t have a home or place to lay your head or food to eat. We are the ones who to take you in for Shelter and food and a piece of mind until you can get it together. So why is the color of our skin so bad?
I still follow. Hope to see a reply to my comment I made earlier
The injustice is that people don't know how to follow orders after they break the law I'm a white male that's been beat up by white sherriff's deputies and black deputies and had a gun put to my head there's a lot of white men getting shot or beaten up by law enforcement they just don't make the news cause it's not politically correct right now and would make black lives matter not seem so important in the news and kamala Harris's project would fade out and our white history wouldn't be torn down so badly black lives matter is a politically motivated i grew up in the same streets and have a 6th grade education and I was alone and homeless at 14 years old and I never sold dope or a female for money I did drugs meth and marijuana acid hash but I work my whole life if I had to lie to get a job but I can't now I went to apply for a cashier's job and it was given to someone that they had to teach them how to run a register and all because they spoke two languages Spanish i should not have to learn another language at age 58 years old to get a job I've been doing since I was 17 years old
Telling people they’re oppressed is what’s the problem. It’s a class issue not a race issue. Bringing it up and using it as an excuse is the problem. You as well as your audience need to keep reassessing your view. It is a person to person issue not systemic.
The thing is, everyone grew up with assumptions passed down from what they were taught. It doesn't matter what race you are. That in itself does not make you racist. When you become an adult, what you teach your children, or what you do as an individual in your own life contributes to that. You are not born into it by race. Racism itself, does exist, but it also depends on where you are in this nation, or where you are in the world. No one should deny that. However, stereotypes are not always true. I live in Georgia. You would think we are just a bunch of hicks who are racist, and while that may be true for a very small minority, it is not true as a whole. Where I am from you will see most everybody hold the door open for you no matter what your race is, or even pull over on the side of the road to help you out when you have car problems. At the very least you'll get a warm greeting from most of us! I've even seen black and white dudes in thr same truck flying a rebel flag! I mean, things aren't always as they seem!
The thing about this issue is that politicians love to manipulate people with it. As long as you keep an open mind, and don't let the poison of political gain get to you, you'll be fine. I believe that black lives matter. I'm not so sure of the movement because of the founders motives!
Anyway, if anyone has judged you over what you have said, they are just being a hypocrit! They are not firmly rooted in the belief of free speech as much as they think they are. However, I think you are being entirely too hard on yourself. I think you are brave, and bold! I think you were given a great heart, but like all people that have a great heart, comes a great curse. You feel too much. Stay strong, and keep being you!
All that aside, thanks for channel. My wife, and I appreciate it! I have full control over my body now, and have been upping my game to put it mildly! 😁😆🤴
Wtf……I'm not white and this is stupid.
Racism isn't just white against black. It's any race against any race, even their own. Every race has dealt with their share. Every race has dealt with slavery. Some still do. I agree with the comment that we all need to stop playing the game! Because the media keeps stoking that fire! The Art of War teaches to divide and concur and that's what the media and the government is doing. If we band together, we can take this country back from the crooked politics, crooked insurance companies, crooked media even the crooked government and the unfair tax system. Thanks for reading my rant, I'm sure I just made it on to some watch list.
I was with you until you said you believe in our system of justice. It looks nice on paper ,I know. I am speaking of the Constitution. However, Reality is a far cry from what is written.
This makes you all the more beautiful, given your emphatic consideration for the disenfranchised. Considerate and loving.
I subscribed to your channel more than anything because of this video. Thank you for this.
Well done, Caitlin. Great work! Much Request to You!
We're best Taylor her boyfriend shot at the police they don't know who's in there they were turn fire didn't hit him but hit her unfortunately what are the police supposed to do when they're being fired upon not return fire
To God we are all spiritual beings. AMEN
Thank you for your talking about this. Yes, I am Caucasian (I am not white like a paper to be printed on) and have had a good life, that at times I had to fight for and search for different outcomes. I do not apologize for being born Caucasian nor for any actions that my ancestors may or may not have done, that is their issue to be resolved through karma and their own processes.. I work to treat each person as a person and it doesn't matter what race each person maybe. I find each person to be approachable and loving if they are given the opportunity and compassion.
Watching this video is making me cry big heavy tears
I'm very soft and weak and being mixed white and black and being physically disabled and a domestic violence victim of my own family is a lot and being mixed with what I had to go through racism of white people and black people cause I'm the cardinal sin of being a product of both and that both races aren't supposed to love each other and lay down in bed and create a biracial product as myself. What I had to go through from both races have challenged my self respect and dignity and I try to persevere through it all. Nobody can walk a mile in my shoes of what I had to go through. In my 41 years in this earth all the hate I had to go through from people was horrible and despicable and being physically disabled has made it worse and left me mentally broken
Hasn't anyone else noticed that some of the most racist people you ever meet with big double standards based on race are trying to "fight racism"?
The racism that I was taught and grew up enabling & agreeing with is racial guilt or white guilt.
I think that is probably the most common for white people based simply on my observations.
There is some old fashioned racism too, but i dont see as much, and mainly from bogans.
I actually really regret when I have behaved like that or enabled or pandered to people being racist in a racial guilt way esp when it was with bullying or emotional manipulation or coercion.
I wish i could see them and apolgise for the bad lessons i encouraged as i see the destrictive effects around me.
BLM as an organization is also Marxist, anti family & as a movement has gone into a lot more than race & policing.
Of their three founding events, two of them (Trayvon Martin & Michael Brown) they had the story totally wrong proven by hard evidence (ask me, I know it prettt well, very well in Trayvon's case).
ONE of those three was were the Cop was in the wrong, though i don't know if it had anything to do with race.
The data on this DOESN'T fit the narrative that you are more likely to be shot by Police is you are black. BLM simply rely on statistical illiteracy & missing info to make their case with the stats they give on their website.
I don't ever believe in "lying or bullying for a good cause'. And that is often what I see the Racist Anti-Racist kind of ppl do.
I don't think Caitlin V would be one of them, just someone – in my current view provably mistakenly – thinking they are doing good.
But I say one must always challenge those with actual bullying behaviour to discern that, whether old fashioned or "cool & woke".
MLK had it right & ethical, Al Sharpton did not.
Your Life Matters
Hi. My storry… I was born in a country were racism was inexistent. My shock was when i go outside my country i encounter more racism from non white people. And still i am not racist even i have stuff rubed or i was not respected. Butt… It bother me when non white people tell " you white people " what means racism. If someone want to not encounter racism must not be racist in first place.
Hey,
I appreciate you and need to say something.
Where you are from and what do, don’t play a big enough part to distract you from your sense of right wrong. You thought not making a statement would be wrong , you chose the right thing to do. Keep making good choices.✌🏾😎