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Can Men be Manipulated by Sex?
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Fuuuuuuuuuck you for saying to go first. We always go first, we always give up last. I've never seen a man withhold "love and affection" unless he hadn't tried for ages to cater to his woman in a futile attempt at inspiring reciprocity
I do wish you would stop defending woman being abusive. Also you make the assumption that leaving is coercion and not a fact. They probably mean it.
Women shouldn't use sex as a weapon because it doesn't work. Women care about sex more than men do so you are just hurting yourself.
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I have learned to live without sex. Got tired of it being used as a tool of manipulation and control.
ouch. pain.
You: horny af, clothes down…
She: starts dressing up and decides to leave home…
Best way to deal with this sex manipulation scene??
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Leonardo de Vinci’s greatest work was not the Mona Lisa. He also said getting married is like putting your hand in a bag of snakes.
Holy shit I thought I was the only one that was going through this.
This video kinda opened my eyes that we all have feeling and desires that should be given and being a 16 y/o guy and not really dating, it’s stressful to see all of these pretty girls but not getting any attention.. might sound a little one sided but tbh if I had a switch that I could just turn off I would bc it be so painful..
My wife does this now. At first I thought she had no sex drive then she started making me pay her (literally either by her getting her nails done or buying her alcohol or just an actual dollar amount) I didn’t want to cheat on her and I needed sex so I did.. long story short I stopped paying and I’ve never been more miserable. If I could afford 4 child supports I’d be gone.
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Yes, a year ago this video was posted and I'm watching it for the first time. Had I known my wife was going to be like this I would not have gotten married to her. Caitlin you have made some great talking points that I hope everyone caught but the big one is "communication". If my wife was mad at me for something I did/didn't do or said it should have been communicated to me through conversation instead of withholding sex. It's been 10 months of no sex, no hugs, and barely a henpeck for a kiss. I confronted her 2 weeks ago and it was something I said 9 1/2 months ago. To top it off she blames me for not communicating with her. Go figure that. No matter I'm working on it but I'm afraid that she will find another excuse not to have sex by saying now it's something else. I love you video's and they are spot on so please keep bringing us great topics for all of us to enjoy. You the best!
Now I know all their dirty tactics. I knew what was going to happen next be it happdns. I remember due to previous course i n wider horizons that they were going to keep apart. But i did it anyway due 2 uncovering a huge spy ring . That's how I knew previou s course youth action was bs
Benefit of getting older as a man: As your sex drive wanes over time, your wife can no longer use sex as a weapon.
What’s worrying about men who coerce their partners for sex is that they’re no longer seeing their partner as an person. Also how can you even be in a sexual mental space after the rejection. It sounds a lot more like dominance and control. Like winning to protect the ego is what matters most
As men we're hardwired to want sex all the time. Women know this and will try to use sex as a manipulation tactic to get compliance.
When you want a woman and she knows what you crave sexually, it takes extreme self discipline and emotional ctrl not to lose frame.
I'm at constant war with myself because my will power/stubbornness and my sex drive are both equally strong. 🤣
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Idk but, now think women don't really attracted to men sexually,,, they always as it a weapon,,, it's such a turn off,,,
Want to freak a woman you're dating or in a relationship out? Stop having sex randomly out of the blue, and don't initiate or ask for it … for a week+. She'll think you're 100% cheating, and be 10,000% interested in you now. I found this out entirely accidentally.
Your really awesome. People don't put a second thought to this. I appreciate it.
(Tfs) In a matter of speaking I'm in a relationship with one woman we have to kits of a son and a daughter my girlfriend has told me countless times that me and women can not be friends. I think other wise. My girlfriend is told me countless times that the reason why she can't give sex the way she wants to is because of her body she has a strange thing where you can't finger you can't rub Or it hurts and you can't do anything at that time. Sometimes we go 15 days sometimes it's a month the long it is being is 3 months and she will tell me that she just can't do it but yet she expects me to dual my manly duties like take out the trash go to work put gas in her car things go with the list goes on and on and on she is not working she has lupus because of the pandemic and she's told me before the reason why she couldn't do it more is because she was balancing her job and the kids and then come home and do housework. Well here's the thing the truth of the matter is she doesn't really do a lot of housework because the house is a mess I could show pictures if you want me to She doesn't work so that doesn't fit the criteria either all she does is stay-at-home sleep eat and menaced the kids when she doesn't feel like it she locked them in a Room with a gate and she plays her games. My girlfriend asked me to get a bigger house because she doesn't like well we stay now she's not on the lease were not married we have to key it's like I said before she's asking for me to put a promised to marry ring on her finger and how she likes it how she wants it and a price didn't matter. But the problem did I get out of all with this is I can't get it and you know what it is when I wanted. But at any given time she can just grab my hand and run to the bedroom and say Hey let's go how is it easy for her but it's difficult for me and I know how you say it Hey give her love give her affection I've done that countless times and I'm always the aggressor. I find her in a kitchen I'm rubbing on her and kissing or her a massage and her back I'm doing every little thing I can in any part of the house but yet it doesn't lead to anything and it just goes on rewarded I give her the things that she needs and the things that she wants are do extra things and its goes unnoticed. We've had countless communications where I tell her what I need and what Relations means to me. She tells me that relations are important to her but she doesn't think about it all the time. It's get really serious on my part where yes I am going to back off a her by showing her affection when I need to get my fix I go into the bathroom and I used toys dildos massagers anal play to get myself off. If something doesn't change it I mean with communication and with the fact that I'm only having Relations with one Person then the next step is not having Relations with her and someone else will get it that's the bottom line if you don't want to do what's expected to you but you expect me to do was expected for man to do not only are you sexes but you're not fear. Not only does she use sex as a weapon. She also uses the kids as a weapon as well.
Sex has become a dog treat. Good vid. Years and damage done far too late, but still good vid.
Wow! I want that present for my next birthday, my wife!
Married 29 years and wife uses after first getting pregnant. We have so little sex I know the dates and times she got pregnant. No joke. Don’t leave because two special needs children I take care of and no way get custody court already gave financial control of one to mother.
FTS I’m going thru it right now. Going on 2 months at this point
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I loved my late wife, but the last several years were little to no sex. After I while, I gave up even asking. It never mattered how much or how little I did, or how much I expressed love and affection. Still carry the emotional scars.
FTS!!! Love you, Caitlin!
Women can only choose the men, who first choose them.
FTS!!!! Awesome topic and well done especially for including both sides. Going to keep in mind so I don’t weaponize my needs and wants in my relationship.
Women use sex or her looks to manipulate while men use money, status and smooth words. Basically what the serpent used on eve in the garden of Eden.
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I just found you. Those eyes! <3
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FTS and weapon. Current.
If they are not giveing it you but they are to someone els
My ex withheld sex from me so I withheld conversations from her, she gave in first!…. but we broke up… looking back that was one of the worst things I ever did.
i think we (men) withhold intimacy and kindness IF we don't get the sex we want.
0:22 my love video :X
I agree with the monogamy monopoly condition you mentioned. I am in it. I love my partner and all I wish is that I can be sexually intimate with her and only her. But I don't get that from her. And if I dont get it from her I feel the next best option is to get it from another person. But for me it's a consolation prize and not actually something I want. But I feel my partner is not okay with it and that promotes us not having sex even further
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Yep, suffered from that for 10 years. Never again, I will divorce first. No one deserves that kind of loyalty.
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My wife has left me and when we got back together she would tell how great the sex was and it was the best she ever had and it destroyed me