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Do THIS to be DOMINANT in BED (BDSM Story Time)
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The bits at the end are called falls. Good call on variated use of a whip – the handle and falls can be used for caressing, teasing, and threat as well as impact.
Absolutely – the number one rule of dominance is that dominance equals responsibility. There's a hierarchy of needs and desires, it goes like this:
1) Submissive needs
2) Dominant needs
3) Dominant desires
4) Submissive desires
Far from only women enjoy submission, far from only men enjoy dominance or find it attractive.
Psychologically dominance and submission disarms the negative forces resisting or interrupting arousal and pleasure. Praise, physical constraints, the expectation of pain, teasing, consensual denial of control and autonomy. For some submissives the threat of a whip (even one which actually feels nice) helps them get over their resistance to being able to cum, get an erection or become sexually receptive, for others 'good girl' (or boy) in a low deep whisper does the same. If society says 'you shouldn't' but the latex clad Dominatrix, or stubbly broad shouldered Dom ties you up and strokes your skin with the tip of a wicked looking cane then the body and mind can re-evaluate their priorities pretty fast (even though saying "safeword" will get you untied and given a cuddle.
Having my wrists restrained as we approach orgasm is absolute HEAVEN for me especially with deep rear entry or reverse cowgirl. Old neckties work well too!
Stupid annoying with those peeping sounds. Funny zero…
Sigh, how to make a video long, unnecessarily long. You can skip the first 4 minutes without missing anything.
What are some creative things to do?
That's, um, quite the thumbnail.
Todays new word by Caitlin V.: " Douche Canoe".
i want to know the words she was saying that got bleeped out
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Not so helpful when she turns dominant and wants to be the lead.
Stop bleeping the dirty talk! Lol thanks so much for this vid. Def something I need help with
Cat o nine tails?
I really liked the part about a person planning things out, sounds more intentional and prepared. At first I thought people just winged it. But now planning things out sounds most logical. Thanks. 🙂
i'm sorry there was a lot in that video I didn't quite get, can u redo the vid without the bleeps?
Hey Caitlin, your shirt is torn…
But what about the "Tyrones"?!??!?
right, we're taking away our need for cis females to take responsibility for their own orgasms. wow, what a rationalization
I am dominant, never submissive
Caitlin we have been subscribers for years and have a question and hoping u can help us
How do u find a good don or sub?
Sorry to ask but we’re just now c getting into bdsm
Thank you for all the help you’ve given is over the years! We’ll never forget it. Elk u taught me how to swallow and not be embarrassed to masturbate in front in front of my partner . He loves it and I love to watch (and hear)him come’
Thank you, Mfchael and Brookline
And Ty for helping us have motte ivtense or dams than er had even before we got mar got married and that’s really sayinng something beliobelir me
7)3! Last night he old me to take over the domikabce. Is this a moral thing?
J did it and loved every minote!
I think Michaesgrtting there. He’s becoming more n more domoinate in bed.
yAY
Me flipping the genders because I’m very quickly realizing that I’m a dominant female and I am trying to learn more with the very limited resources I have.
I’m just trying to get laid what is this 😭
Gonna make a vid, don’t bleep out words, we’re all grown here
Haha if skittles made women have orgasms, then taste the rainbow biotch
Yeah clearing a rowdy bar alone doing security IS WAY easier.😅😓
I try to toping my dominate, It didn't quite work, bad instructions.
You got some rlly strong logicall point, im gonna subscribe 👍👍
Are you pyrocynical
I want to say as a transgender woman that dominant people are not only men dominating women. Most men I hook up with want me to dominate them. Just food for thought.
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Sometimes it sucks being named Chad. I literally have to introduce myself by saying “hi my name is Chad, but I’m not A Chad”
No thanks
Crazy people
WTF is a "Chad" ?
OMG I love what you are wearing! 😍