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Mine never admits when she’s wrong and refuses to change because if she doesn’t admit anything… there’s no reason for her to change. My partner is so disconnected from me Facebook no longer even shows my posts on her page. Her male “friend’s” stuff gets her instant attention. She also has all her family believing I’m a monster…. I went 20+ years without sex….. I guess that makes me the under fucked. She literally took laxatives in order to avoid sex on the one day a week we agreed to have intimacy. I’m at the point of looking outside… sadly I’ve even told her….. I’m I nuts for even trying anymore?
The last one is the one that attracts predatory and narcissistic men and players. They are the men who feed of that situation and will say the right things to attract the woman into an affair and do so easily, because that excitement is exactly what she is looking for. The same applies to the no 3. Men who work away or are always "at the office" this is you we are talking about. Always sleep in the bed at home wherever possible, or someone else will.
Ouch!
Because a woman began her relationship with me by cheating on a person who did love her, and rather immediately communicated her fears of the different, though domestic lifestyle occurring with me,
I segued into activities that periodically – for a week to 6-8 weeks separated.
I did so in response to her cheating while i was dedicating life to making a better home, that is, working more than is healthy.
This vid was and eye-opener to recognition that in response to her attempted cheating, i lost deep romantic and physical attraction to her, only rising thereafter through long absences.
Man, we were NOT matched, as i still could never using cheating to gain love, romance, or even ejaculation.
Crossing severL of the described categories, is the woman who was sexually abused in childhood.
Having an extremely distraught relationship, with a serial cheater, and having actually been told by her of the foster parent from age 5 to 9, i first realized she was doing so when told by women with whom we worked.
Additionally, they openly took us aside and told her in front of me, that she should not be doing that.
Naive, i overlooked the seriousness of that pointed conversation.
However, vast research extending over 70 or more years has showed that therapy so long and extensive is so absolutely necessary, that few ever do it or change.
You can now look up the vast literature on this without being a university student or faculty member.
The continued cheating was so devastating to me, that my own trust – the natural affiliative welcoming of others into one's heart – seems to be destroyed.
Nevertheless i understood the early destruction occuring to a child whose entire brain development has been distorted. This is a very physical neural, synaptic, cognitive/emotional disruption, just as all implicit cultural mores, instilled by authority figures upon infants through pubertal onset, are.
Women who had experienced this form of rape, the worst because the trauma occurred during development, making them more deeply associative with terror, and existential threat, than we can imagine.
No capacity for complete emotional trust remains. Any repatterning requires decades of assisted work.
There is much more to be said about the phenomenon of adult males "turning out" young girls for prostitution. While it is a criminal profession, this seduction and rape, and the normalization of imposition of Dark Triad or Tetrad, cognitions and behaviors by adult males and females for an industry and profit, which includes the discordant signaling of "protection" and abuse, has ben common in some cultures.
Yet those women, whose lives have been misdirected by psychopaths, retain to varying degres, our natural impulse for monogamous love, and commitment. Many, in fact, just feel implicitly caught, and develop if late, this desire for intimacy, which the abused children of whom i spoke, CANNOT.
Our natural cognitive and behavioral range, then, is HARMED, injured, rather than "expanded" in some.
Again, there is much, much more. I've had long intimate talks with lesbians, from the women who shelter there due tk trauma, gang rape, to those who are actually neurologically genetically and early epigenetically shaped so.
A comment cannot be extensive enough even to afford basic insights.
One interesting behavioral issue is that females tend more than males to seek satisfying long-term relationships for fulfillment.
Yet a rather high proportion of males do not do so due to acculturations (VERY like a cognitive rape or "turning out" to which they mistakenly adhere in significant part because of either retaining friendships withothers so damaged, or the terrible deper inculcation of the greater psychopathology occurring in early instilled beliefs about what it is to be male.
This ventures into evolutionary genetics, with adaptations to their cultural "habitats" over generations. We are social niche-seeking animals and when different balances of niches occur, brains develop differently.
Hormone production, differential cellular receptors, and some other related variables, occur through our sensing of our environments and opportunities for that fulfillment in life.
None of what i've indicated or maintain is voodoo or hocus-pocus. These adaptations, neural, hormonal receptors, cognitions, are ALL physical, existing at molecular production to threat cognition scales.
The 5 types of women that will cheat are the 5 types of women !
All these folks and they were all justified because of what they got between their legs.
CNM = Blatant Selfishness.
F³³k that, if it cheats on you once.. shame on it…never give It 🤡.. the chance to do it to you again, and give it the children and the f³³king house, then quit your job, and get a life.
Dude…ette.. there are only 5 types..😶 They'll all do it, given which way the wind blows.
I am 66 years old, I have had the pleasure of a lot of women (extreme sports man, racing motorcycles etc.) and the ability to talk and problem solve. I have never once in my life cheated EVER, but the mother of my children did more than once. Other women over the years have to, all they had to do was say goodbye and I would have and have excepted that without serious consequences. I am not Alfa (need everyone to look up to me) not beta (just except the situation) I’m sigma (there is a cost to crossing me) also a loyalty for those I consider close. Those that have cheated (in love or business) have paid the price no matter how long it took or the cost. Say goodbye or start a war, their CHOICE.
Easy to spot, if they have a W or O or M or A or N in their stated gender. Believe me, I've been on both sides of the cheating game.
The way she tries to justify cheating by blaming men
Do an episode on Y Do married women cheat plz ❤❤❤
The more I watch her videos, the more certain I am that her advice should be be avoided with a grain of salt. So much of it is blaming men. I thought maybe it was just because of the one video i watched with her on someone else's channel, but as more and mor videos add up, and this confirms it.
Tell a men rhat he has to pit up with someone cheating and not only that, but that its HIS fault? And this is some people's Therapist? Holy shit!
This is an easy one. If they’d date me, they’d cheat. Seriously. Every! Single! One!😂😂☠️
I even found one that was WAY different from the type I’d go for. Driven, smart as hell, out doorsy, been cheated on before and knows how fucked up it is and has a MASSIVE hatred for cheaters. She said she was falling so hard for me that she was afraid I’d hurt her like her ex husband. So she sabotaged us for her ex high school sweat heart. Made up stories about how she felt I wasn’t into the relationship. Even tho I was kind, faithful and took care of her like no one else had before. They’ve all cheated on me. Pretty sure, at this point, that either it’s me, or all women cheat. Probably just me. Kept her around. Already got the abusive parent issues, ex hubby a pedo issues and her finally getting her ex h.s.-“the one that got away”- out of her system. Why would I want to go find someone new just to go through it all again? Which I’m pretty sure would abso-fuggin-lutely happen.
There's a ton of excuses for bad behaviour in this intro, and no, people don't change at their core, they're pretending to be someone more socially acceptable to cover their tracks.
Hard boundaries for those who have been judged as an unworthy character, not forgiveness, as it opens the door to be taken advantage of again.
Cheating and Narcissism go hand in hand, and NOBODY can rehabilitate the Narcissist.
You lost me in the first 2 minutes…
I cheat when my partner has cheated first. After that I'm done. No respect left. I've had sex with 6 guys from Ashley Madison in last 8 months. I pattern is revenge sex. It's the only thing that helps me heal from betrayal.
"Nobody is trapped by their past or their behavior."
WELL… I've been intensely studying NARCISSISM for the last 2 years, and I'm not sure I can agree with that. After 4 years of working as a CHHA for a PAIR of control-freak narcissists, my own personal experience is that no matter how much effort you put in, no matter how much intense SELF-CONTROL you exert, these kind of people are not only bad news, they are DANGEROUS to be around. Sad… but, as far as I can tell, TRUE.
Oh yeah– and there's this line that is extremely true: "Every accusation is a confession." So often, when someone is accusing you of things you never even dreamed of…. they're probably talking about THEMSELVES.
Nope
This "expert" is wrong
Absaphucinlutly wrong
There is one and only ONE type of woman who cheats
Her type is "opportunity"
There are only two things in this world and ONLY two that separates a faithful women from a cheater
#1 meeting a BB/Chad
#2 opportunity to cheat with BB/Chad
That is literally it.
If 99% of married woman meet "that guy" and interact with him to any length they literally absolutely literally can not stop themselves from cheating with him only way it won't happen is if he wont allow it otherwise once she meets him odds are 100% she will cheat
It is simply not in a woman's nature to be loyal and if she has no loyalty she can NOT remain Faithful and with todays divorce laws greatly rewarding and incentivising woman to divorce and face little to zero conciquenses for cheating…..
Well you do the math
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Cheating is ALWAYS the cheaters fault. If she (or he) is unfulfilled they should end it, not cheat.
The BS she spouts here is called victim blaming. Just end the freaking relationship before seeking fulfillment somewhere else, it's not rocket science.
That's like all the different types of women. I don't know any that don't fall into these categories.
Can it be possible that all 6 can be in one person?
The 5 types that will cheat: Small, medium, large, xl, & xxl
They ALL cheat
Women should never be trusted completely, they have been deceptive manipulators since their inception. Its just their nature, DO NOT take them serious.
Is trauma common with the witholder?