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Hard Talk About “Nice Guys”
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I’m a nice guy, genuine and ultimately loyal to my “people” and have got a great group of friends probably 50/50 male and female. Never had an issue meeting and developing relationships with quality women, the issue that was a pattern until I identified it was that I was never saw successful long term relationships as a child and didn’t have the conflict solving skills or extrinsic ability to see the situation from a 3rd person perspective. I’m enjoying the new challenge of building new skills to be the person I should be.
Decided I'm not willing to be a jerk to attract women.
I'll stay nice.. and single lol.
I say put out or get out and put out and then get out.
Bastards get the girls, this is a fact. That's why they are bastards. There is nothing to talk about it.
Never never never Help Women!!!!!!!!!
Caring less about others and valuing yourself is tough. If you go too far with it, you end up with Donald Trump. Not far enough and you are a doormat.
See I'm a GOOD guy I'm not a NICE guy… More men should follow suit
Some guys are just passive not manipulative like some grew up with majority female members in the home and/or had a domineering mother for example i had to really let go of that part of me
Advice like this IS the reason men are avoiding dating and women. Mentally……They're just too much trouble.
Wow.. I have been struggling with a relationship and lost of friend recently. I been really depressed and beating myself up. Then I came across this video and now truly see who I am, how I’ve been and what I’ve been doing. This is a huge eye opener. This video has done more for me in 10 mins than any therapy session has ever done. I now owe a lot of people an apology, including myself. Thank you for this wake up call. This is going to be life changing
This is an unsubscribe.
Now this is some dumb, offensive shit.
I must not be very nice, because most of this wasn't helpful
I have tried everything with the exception of being abusive. I am happy right now being single and have been for the last 5 years. I just have to worry about myself. I lost my wife and unborn baby due to a blood clot when she was pregnant. I have looked for the lady who wants to be with me for me. The last one believed that her friend was right about me cheating on her. I had some things of hers and took them back to her when she was at work. I know that is a low thing to do however I wanted her to hear me out and not be able to run away like she always done. I set her stuff down and said. I have never cheated on you and I have always loved you. The second I said that I turned around and walked away. It was the only time I had the last word.. About a year later I seen her in Walmart and she got skinny quick. I like my ladies to have some mass that makes them look healthy not meth addict thin.
There was this woman. I really liked her, we created a friendly relationship over time. But, as time was passing, I also developed feelings for her. We talked a lot and slowly I started to make my feelings clear to her. Unfortunately, it didn't work out, she just started to ignore me and at the end I made a choice to stop pursuing her. The thing is, I don't think she liked the way I was nice to her. As we talked, got to know each other, she was telling me about her ex husband, guys she used to date, or the ones that were currently pursuing her…as I listened to her, I realized she had a pattern of guys she was drawn too. And all of them were complete opposite of me. She liked them being direct, but also type of a bad boy that would try to force things with her. She was telling me how she rejected plenty of those advances.
Over time, I also realized that she wants a man that is at the same time a bad boy, but also a nice guy who treats her well. From my experience as a man, there aren't many guys like that. Those guys she was telling me about, they ended up being jerks, disrespectful, too aggressive, and eager. I found it frustrating that at the end of the day, she refused my advances because, apparently, I wasn't 'dangerous' enough for her.
Go figure…
Then you women ask why you are in toxic relationships and having the shit beaten out of you. The answer is – you are morons.
So women don't deserve nice guys, that's what you meant
😱 If this isn't the biggest load of🐴💩
And this is a therapist Men you all need to get your money back…. Saying that we're bottom feeders and we're victimizing women to get what we want no sometimes it's nice to just be nice…. 😅
That's like saying every time you open the door for a woman you're asking to have sex with you not every man every single time is thinking with his penis😅
I'm sorry. I have a difficult time taking advice from a single woman who shaves her head, thus showing that she does NOT know what a man wants.
Women sell sex to buy a relationship– Coach Adams
It's OK to be a nice guy. Just don't let people take advantage of you. If you see it? say something,
Women do not date nice guys because when they break up with them it is always harder than dumping a bad boy!
Always be a man but, always be nice! Do not listen to what she says!
I a man can be nice but have a edge I wasn’t good at talking to women but I was good at conversation and good at what subjects I could talk about with women and it would lead sex tension and then sex, And Remember in my situation good date’s doesn’t mean you will go balls deep in a woman, I my younger days I didn’t have to take woman on a date to be sexually active with a woman
One of my strong-suits was being "nice". Once I saw that I traded "nice" for being funny. That made a world of difference in getting into beautiful relationshipd with awesome woman.
Thanks Caitlin!
Thanks but no thanks I don't date I don't give a fuck and trust a word any woman says
I just avoid women I don’t hate women I gave up to much work I’m a 30 year old virgin male just to tired of trying and wasting time I have so much other things to do with my time life is really short I want to put my energy towards something I want to enjoy worth putting
Keep it toxic gentlemen
if a girl is telling me she wants me. and Im nice to her. but we havent went out once yet. what am I? I mean. I feel like a clown
I wont be a martyr anymore