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How online dating trends impact men (the 90-10 rule)
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It is true. I got 350 swipes in 48 hours, and over a thousand after one month. I put a few good photos and used chat cpt to curve out the perfect profile.
I posted myself on two different apps for two weeks before I deleted both apps. Apparently I was in that 10%. I had four dates on the two back to back weekends. Fortunately lightening struck and I’m with the first date monogamously; she’s definitely my Beautiful Venus. I’m a recent widower, and she’s been a widow for two years. We have THAT, and much more in common than I did with any of the others. Maybe it was pure luck, but I feel like I did such a great job accurately presenting myself, that everyone one of them felt they already knew me according to all four of them. All of my photos were a combination of me in action doing my hobbies (rodeo, triathlon, & cycling). Also it helps to be a published writer as the written expression is my forte. I hadn’t been on a date in over 37 years, so I can’t claim Romeo Status. In my case, I reeked of pure honestly & accuracy. Each date wanted to go out a second time. Every single one of them commented that my profile was if anything, an under representation of me. Maybe it was just luck?
total bs, she has no idea because she never experienced not being wanted. she doesn't seem to like facts and statistics. but still enjoy her other topics.
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The study u talk of has a 1% profile of a man and a no pic no info except short and fat women’s profile, both fake just for a look into the numbers. The girl that wouldn’t be able to get a single drink bought for her at a bar hat hundred X more likes and messages of what the 1% man recieved.
Caitlin many people are approaching average women, but also if you mean to say that obese is the new average, I'll just marry outside of the country.
men should just go to sex workers and not worry about online dating
This manifestation trop is comical. You talk about bios and most women don't even write anything. And I'm curious to see what the bump was after your consultation because I guarantee you if he was swiping everything he'd still only get a few nibbles. On dating apps most women are the most lazy when it comes to filling out a profile and don't even stop to read it if they are not immediately physically attracted with the first photo they're swiping off to the next. Why? Because they have hundreds of suitors and who cares if the guy banging all the chicks is good or happy. e's banging all the chicks and hogging them so it's a moot point! 🙂 And the fact you say you don't know and how can 90/10 rule be bullshit even if it's true? You contradict yourself. If it's true it's a reality that has to be dealt with. Whether with a smile or frustration it's still the reality.
Become one of the 10% or die trying, either way you will better than you are now
"Let me tell you something that will make you feel better right off the top: even if those 10% of guys are matching with 90% of women, they're probably only showing interest in the top ten percent of women …"
Sure, but if the other 90% of women absolutely refuse to give a second glance at the other 90% of men, you're still stuck with very bad odds as a man. I appreciate the advice you give here, putting your best foot forward is important when appearances are all the other person has to go on. But I really don't think online dating should be a man's primary way of finding a partner. It's easier to make a connection when you're trying to sell the girl on who you are and not on how cool your profile is.
Dr. Caitlin. I am a fan of your work. Can you do a video about people with Autism have hard time dating? Also, in sex as well. I have been looking for videos of that because I am austitic.
I don't even bother with women anymore. It's better for a man to go his own way and just forget about these leeches…
Duck…If you're homeless, just buy a house. How many hoops does a trained man have to jump through just to get simple human communication?How much more money does he need to spend to become a real man?There's nothing wrong with your client Jesse.It's not about him, it's about the world around him.Everything you say is an outdated lie that pickup artists told 15 years ago.Even your facial expression shows that you're lying…and you know you're lying..but hey money talks, right?
Duh, it’s the Pareto principal amplified by the ease of these apps. Of course manipulation of the datasets is always a factor in success on these sites and in general. Appearing interesting and engaging is attractive.
Of course it helps if you are actually interesting and have an active lifestyle.
I rather just avoid women altogether. The juice is Not worth the squeeze.
Sorry caitlin but real women are not in social media, neither in dating apps
Dating apps are a waste of time and money. I have no kids and all I ask is to matched with women with NO kids! All my matches have 2 to 5 kids lol.
U can’t trust the internet
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i consider myself a pretty hot dude with a good skill set and a great dick. but i do love perusing women who are only "average" the hot ones actually turn me off and send up red flags of high maintenance.
Although i can see your point, let's be real here. Online wouldn't work for guys below the height of 5'11.💯💯💯
How do I actually work with you personally? I want to meet you and have you help me with a lot of things lol. Let me know! Email me?!…
i got ignored for 4 years, never got any msgs back. ghosted immediately. 4 years. Lost 30 lb and had 5 dates schduled in 2 weeks. had multiple sexual encounters in the month after updating my photos.
Caitlin, I love your videos! My partner and I have both benefitted greatly from your advice! Do you know of any sex/intimacy/relationship coaches like you but for women? My partner has asked about that, and I have not had any luck finding anything. Thanks again!