Caitlin V., MPH, Resident Sexologist at Royal, is a sex and relationship coach who helps people gain confidence, satisfaction, and deep transformation both inside and outside the bedroom.Visit for more full content www.caitlinvneal.com
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How to Be the Man Every Woman Wants
Last longer in bed, have more sex in your relationship, become an amazing lover. Watch Caitlin V as she shares sex tips, relationship advice, and personal insights here on YouTube.
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Side note: your clothes complement your bedroom 😂
Best advice ever 4:44 all the way till the end
High Value Chicky. Smart.
Thank you for all your advice I love watching your channel you are so beautiful and sexy
I just watched your video about Feminism, and I got to say after you said being a man today is hard, as a guy with a disability I just have to say “You think” because I was raised half-assed correctly
Never heard if an energy boundary. That sounds super healthy
Girl with foul language..!! 200 percent boundary..
I have all of my attractives
My boundaries are, no women trying to get me to get them pregnant just to take me to family Court to take my children from me. Already been there and its hell.
I mean, I think this is a good stuff, but if you’re not attractive in other ways, you’ll still be alone, just alone with boundaries.
If you erase those boundaries, at least you might occasionally get laid.
Back in my dating days, I had very few boundaries because I had very few dates. I didn’t feel like I could afford to be particularly stringent.
You are so fun!
What is essential to the high-value woman is the desirability of the high-value man/ She can discern that he is hot stuff and he's got the right stuff/ There is no egotism in her choices/ All or Nothing Attitude/
My boundary in dating is pretty simple when it comes to things like dating apps because you have to assume as a man that there are women on dating apps just there for validation or for other reasons not related to dating, so a simple and clear guideline for yourself is a must. Basically, in the initial stage, I treat my interactions with women on dating apps like a game of emotional and conversational tennis. I will ask them a question based on their profile which seeks to emotionally engage them and that makes it clear that I took the time to read their profile. If they choose to respond to that initial question by lobbing a response over the net I will ask them a second question to try to get to know them even better and build a sense of trust between us. If they do not respond to my efforts at this stage, I assume they are not interested and will move on. By the third question, I will suggest a time for meeting up. If they do not respond at any point and simply ghost me after I have offered to meet them in person, I shrug my shoulders and move on to the next woman. I don't play games so won't accept someone playing games with me. If a woman just wants validation from the apps that's cool and she has the right to do that. Indeed, if she does not write anything on her profile or doesn't respond to my initial question then I assume she has no interest in dating so must move on because she's not there to date.
I also automatically block any woman who has disabled messaging or I've previously contacted on the app so I don't click on her profile in the future. As a man, I must read and contact hundreds of women to get one date this is the state of the game for men everywhere so this is why I have this policy. My advice to women watching this video is to fill in their dating profile properly and respond to the messages if you are interested in the guy who contacts you. With the MeToo movement and the general impact of the pandemic, my guess is most men are not interested in playing games. So, if you are interested don't be coy. You will lose many good men if you are coy. I would also suggest women should block any man who just sends a Hi or Hey sexy message and who does not live within a reasonable distance from where they live. Do you really want to have a relationship with a man who lives hours away from you, especially after you've had a long day at work and need emotional support and who can't be bothered to enter into your emotional world?
She already does…I already am
One of my boundaries is I decide who my friends are. I have a lot of platonic female friends and I have no patience for jealousy.
Excellent video; spot on.
What’s with the TACOS 😳😳😳😳😳
3:am tacos😳😳when was that a thing??
I set a no sex boundary with this lady that ive spent last 4 weekends with due to me working out of town and being dumped,we have been friends for a few years and now i want to retract the boundary. Plus she set kinda same boundaries but we have the best times flirt like crazy. Ive been as clear as i can be i think ,she has not been so clear. My major worry is age deference 19 years. And she has lollipop feet! Tore up i am!
I have trouble keeping boundaries in my 12 relationship. How do I stick to my bondries
Ha, 1963 guy with missing teeth thanks. Yes, what say is true.
What do you mean by former professional sex and relationship counselor DM me on Instagram I follow you there.
I have a foot an leg fetish.. If a female does not keep her toes painted at all thats ok.. Its gotta be either all the way on or all the way off. Half assed women do not take care of their feet, or the conch in my eyes.
I've always been the type of man that wants to possess you but don't want you to be my possession… This has worked against me in my last long term relationship that was supposed to be my last relationship. By the end I would still be around her for the kid but we wouldn't have sex and had already found out she was cheating which she somehow believed I was just being paranoid. Truth is I loved that girl like my own and was around for her but in the end she left me, moved away, and didn't even have "the balls" to break up with me or tell me I wasn't coming along… I know she wondered why I didn't scream or get angry with her but the truth was I don't fight for anyone that has killed my love for them when I did so much for her… Fast forward to my life now, I cut everyone out of my life including most of my family after discovering how the hurtful things she thought I never would find out. Trying to work on myself and start from square one again but I don't have any expectations to finding love again considering I'm 39 and starting my life completely over… Not to mention the thought of self deleting…
Caitlin, what do you think of a woman who doesn't want you to cum in her mouth and swallow your love juice? I think I should kick her to the curb, do you agree? On the internet giving sex advice I would assume you swallow. Am I correct. Do you enjoy feeling the warm juice shooting into your mouth and down your throat? Do most women enjoy letting their man cum in their mouth or only do it because their man loves it?
She is an Opioid addict. And will not get help. She is caught up in 30 years of taking opioids 6 family members are all opioid addicts. I can not be involved in an addiction this will not work in a relationship. Not healthy for me. I must stay away from this sick person. Covert Narsacistic with a jezebel personality. Later.
Alcohol and sex are a big NO for me
Wow! Thank You for this information. This validates recent decisions I needed to make in my life.
The bigger problem is really how to get rid of women after you discover that they have no skills or enthusiasm.
Thirsty
Yes, treat them like shit and they will love you. Women are strange beings.
Nothing news worthy hear
Make money
Treat her as an option to begin with, not a need.
Be your own person, dont depend on another
Handle your shit.
Say "no" and stick to it.
The baundary: I'm not a choice so don't compare and feel like you can choose me among others
I go to play in the garage to get away, not for her to follow and smother
Fucking great thank you! <3
Out of the blue amma say this.
You need to paint your hair black and play cosplay of Caitlin from League of Legends. Perfect match, am tellin’ ya’ll
My boundaries include:
(1.) Rudeness;
(2.) Acting out of a bad disposition;
(3.) (Habitually) arguing/ initiating conflicts;
(4.) Disregarding my time and space
I tried to make my wife want me but in a sexless roommate marriage for over ten years
I matched with a woman on Bumble that I find very attractive in looks and personality. After about fifteen minutes of clever banter, she started to leave me one-word answers and then soon after didn't respond to me at all. I would like to give her a "boundary" response but not sure what to say. Anyone out there with any suggestions is appreciated in advance!
I have been married to a great woman for 28 years, She still try's not to curse in front of me. Women and them using foul language is a major turn off.