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How to Become a High Value Man
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Lol! I graduated. 😅
That quote: "… to be your charming, authentic-self". I think that the discovery of who your authentic-self is, that's the key to happiness. No need to have anyone else to complete you. You are your own better half.
I have object to the stereotype of men crushing beer cans against their forehead.
HA! She mentionned third eye blind! I will love this woman FOEVA!!!!
Maturity
Great advice and you simplified how the little things are more important to being a man.
Definitely thought morals would be on here, but apparently not…
I agree with this, although I think Orion's idea of fundamental masculinity as having clear values and having the willingness to make sacrifices for those values is a better definition of that. This beer can monster truck business is 'performative masculinity' and is kind of arbitrary between cultures. You might get some short-term laughs for your lumberjack shirt or because you open carry in Idaho, but women are not attracted to that. I guess I would personally add that since women are more vulnerable to emotional pain but less vulnerable to physical pain, manliness includes the willingness to step up and endure emotional pain, or take on tasks that require emotional numbing. This could be dirty jobs, killing things, giving people bad news, firing people, escalating disputes in public, saying no to homeless people, arguing with salespeople, saying when you're in a group that a certain plan has gone wrong and now you all need to adopt a new plan, and sometimes just pushing through a tough time and doing what needs to be done without complaining, even though you could complain, even though there's plenty to complain about. If a woman knows you can do this, she will feel safe and secure with you. You want that. If you won't do this, and the woman has to, especially if she fancies herself sweet and non-confrontational, she may do it because it has to be done, but she will hate it, and she will soon hate you.
Mojo really seems about the absence of baggage that most men have about sex and relationships, and their stubbornness and limiting beliefs. Lots of men won't even buy a vibrator because they think it's competing with them, or some similar nonsense. It is the ability to play, and experience joy from play, in and out of sex.
Money and muscles I think I would functionally combine Caitlin's points on. Because women absolutely need you to be someone who can keep the wolves at bay; keep entropy from destroying your bodies and keep the economy from enslaving or impoverishing you both stuck in some horrible job/routine/arrangement. And yeah obviously you need to have the money to raise a kid if she's thinking she's gonna have a kid with you. But the caveat is important. A lot of guys become obsessed with their physique and turn into narcissus in the gym. A lot of guys become obsessed with their work and will just try to buy or delegate away anything other than their job that requires time and effort, because so much of their personality is their job. If the guy becomes obsessive about either of these things, it can get to a point of diminishing returns where, for example, he won't spend time with his wife and kids because he's trying to get 9 million dollars instead of 4 million dollars to impress his coworkers or his dead father or simply because he doesn't really know how to do anything else but work or think that it's ever worth it. There's no room for a woman in the mind of such a man.
I can believe all of those things Caitlin. Except the last one, I came in with that already and maximize that over time! Lol I had to work on those for years during my marriage and the marriage usually gets better and better! Even women on the outside wants a piece of you! 🤣🤣
So be a stereotypical gym rat with money. Got it.
Those random times would also be good for getting a BJ if random times of flowers. Hate to say the money status that i have ran into has been wrong to what she says. To have money and look as having a ton with a great attitude gave me lot's of play between my ex to my current wife.
So, alot of women will be with a responsible man, but, will end up cheating on him with a bad boy type. And or. Keeping the good guy that is relatively successful in the friend zone.
I am a high value man I am unique I am not like any other man out there yet I am still rejected by others something bad happened to me in 2014 I am not going anywhere, I have always had muscles ever since I was a young man below the age of thirteen, I am a natural born leader!!
Give me ‘Morals’ over ‘Money’ anyday….
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It's lucky she is cute and funny because most her advice is long winded and to be honest it's advice from a woman's perspective which is typically trash. Lol most the stuff said is opposite to red pill advice
Thanks for the advice!
With the money point, you mentioned a man good with money has a modest job at 401k. Is it reasonable to expect that much? I understand that with some time and effort you can make over 100K, but even if 401k is not jeff Bezos level that's still too much for 'average' dudes to meet this amount. You have a really great point about guys having a great relationship with their finances and they definitely need to make a good amount of money. But is 401k the standard we should be setting here? Cuz approx 1% of men would be making this kind of money. But if that's the standard to be a 'high value' male then since it's a guide to become a high value male I guess that works.
Pretty easy here. Focus only on yourself and what your future is. Everyday make yourself better. Better financially, physically, mentally, and spiritually. Don't loose focus chasing women and trying to play their mental gymnastics.
How to become a high value man – be born pretty. If you are below average you will be treated like the lowest of the low, destroying any motivation you might have to improve yourself. If you are pretty and feeling good every day then it is easy to work on yourself.
TL;DR get facial surgery and get fit. Pu55y will follow.
The best you can do is get a woman with as few partners as possible. Women’s heads get progressively worse the more d!k they take
Don't take advice from women. The ones on dating apps had more than 10+ partners, you will not be able to satisfy them. They grew up thinking they are Disney Princesses. Just go for the 18 year olds and meet older women at a bar, not on an app. If you're 7/10 and lower you're not getting anything on those apps anyways.
Try giving women advice about this stuff instead of manipulating guys!
Sexless marriage for over ten years and after she moved into another bedroom I bought a life like sex doll
So everything to do with being a male high value is what women judgment on
But yet who spends more money women or men
But women are old sex in relationships for men
And what kind of QUALITY are the modern women going to put on the table ???
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Great ascent sweet smile honey looks a dream your eyes says more then your lips your words, approach hmmm attract more pleasant touching words can write more. Your 4M true research. 💘💖
YouTube needed this
Hahahaa. A woman telling how to be a Man in a Man's world😂 wtf
It takes two to make desirable, high value partners. Not just the "man" in the relationship.
I think Jeff Bezos problem was he attracted one woman too many.
For men it’s always “change this, fix that, work on it” while women are pretty much deemed “perfect as is”.
I want to work on myself and improve (and I already have greatly) but it gets frustrating when you have to deal with women that don’t even try and still have to compete for their attention.
Real shit most women nowadays just assume they’re goddesses and won’t even contemplate working on themselves while demanding some Chad to just fall out the sky for them.
Women need improvement too but y’all ain’t ready to have that conversation yet💀
You forgot "Massive Member" 😆