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How to Break a Dry Spell 💦
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My dry spell is slightly longer than Brian's. Testicular cancer and some other issues derailed things.
But that’s some people that understand if they don’t have any concept of having responsibility to children that they bring in this world
I don’t like all these loveless sexist marriages are always depicted on the husband not being able to please his wife or whatever something bad about the husband but you gotta understand that there’s a lot of marriages when you have kids that’s the only reason why you’re in the marriage because there’s already stuff that’s went on that it should’ve been over a long time ago
You see I think this is perfect. This is what your true job is your true audience. If you can make guys that aren’t going to get any become that Simp husband. Can you are actually really doing society a favor you’re creating that type of guy that fits you feminist women just don’t try to target real guys and make them less than them. They are themselves.. yeah, you got some good tips but not good behavioral tips I don’t think.
I'm in the same situation. At some point I gave up and put all my energy into my career. I achieved everything I wanted. It's not that I'm afraid of women or don't get in touch with them. But there has never been one who sees me as a potential partner. I'm just the good friend.
Sometimes the counselor needs a counselor. Sometimes the therapist needs a therapist and sometimes an expert in their field is at a loss for words and doesn't have the answers.
The shock you seem to have at the thought of a 41 year old virgin shows that you are not well versed on the subject, 41 is pretty young in comparison to the men I know including myself who are all over the age of 50 and virgins not by choice. You have no idea of just how many men are virgins and over the age of 50. The fact of the matter is that mating in humans is not much different than other species. In the wild some male animals never get the chance at a sexual encounter due to the competition. In modern humans It has very little to do with a mans self confidence or being in very good physical shape. Women are always more attracted to the man with the most symmetrical face. Not muscles or confidence or even height. The man with the most symmetrical face will win every time. I've seen men with horrible body's who get just about any girl they want because their face is prefect, Another thought to keep in mind is this. Women are not desperate and will not settle for a guy just because he has lots of confidence and a good body. The human female brain is far more complex than that,
So would you consider 3 years a dry spell
This is awesome. Thanks, Caitlin. 💙 Who the hell disliked this?!
You just had to use the name Brian 😂 I’m on a dry spell but not 20 years! Just a few months for me but this video helped!! Thank you!!
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Caitlin I'm a 32 year old man I desperately want to have sex with a woman I am attracted too! The only women that want to with me are girls I am not attracted too. Bearing in mind I have my standards and I would prefer a woman similar to me, looks and attributes. What should I do to achieve me goal?
I just get from the first few words to being told right away that we can't be more than friends but if I spoil her enough she might change her mind but I've figured that one out and I'm tired of being used. But I am currently head over heels for my best friend. We lived together and shared a bed as best friends for 3 years then we started a relationship and she was mad at herself that she made me wait 3 years to have sex with her and we were on and off for about 2 years but there was a lot of bad drugs that she was using so after the last time that she left I called her in on a warrant paid for her attorney and got her the help to get her on track. She said she hated me for about 5 months till she learned that I saved her life and did what no one else could do. We weren't friends for 8 months during this period but not a day went by that she wasn't on my mind. Well after 8 years she called me and she needed financial help and after exploring all ideas and coming up empty I had my attorney draw up a contract for the title loan that I got on my car and it said that she was solely responsible for the payment and she wasn't to move out of the apartment till the loan was paid off. She signed it and she told me everything that I wanted to hear and I was on cloud 9 but she wanted to take a year to get her life on track but we were going to live together for that period of time and continue to get closer and closer well that lasted about 2 months till this guy in NA convinced her otherwise and offered to let her live for free at his parents house and he could get her out of her lease by staging a break in but he didn't know about the contract with me or even knew that I was in her life. So they staged a break in and made up this story but since he was on parole and passed curfew he got out of dealing with the cops the night they did this, I was at work so she called me and I dropped everything and went back cuz I believed her story over the phone then she wanted me to call the cops when I got there and I made her do it and then she left and knew that she would be caught in a lie by the cops so she had to go do something more important with a different friend and I sat there for over an hour waiting for her to come back to do the report but she sat down the street till the cops left so thats how I knew it was a lie then a few weeks go by and she tells me that she got out of her lease and she's moving out and I reminded her of her contract that she signed that was notarized and she said where she lived didn't mean she wasn't going to be able to pay for it but she also did have a vehicle at the time and she got off past his curfew so she was forced to quit and after I had to make one of the payments my self my attorney left a message for her and him to call her back and she let them know she had 30 days to pay the full balance off or she would be getting sued the total amount owed was 7500$ and he went and got a loan and paid it off. Well it's been 5 years almost and she has reached out to me and they got married and she is miserable since she has a new job, she works 5 8 hour days, and then she goes home and she's not allowed to talk about her day cuz she sounds as if she's complaining and just doesn't want to work cuz he doesn't know how to listen, she's not allowed to have any of her old friends from before they met, she's only allowed to be friends with his friends wives, she's not allowed to make friends at her job, she has to be home before the sun goes down, she's not allowed to be on any medication and has to get her birth control removed cuz he changed his mind and he doesn't want her on any meds so he got rid of her anxiety meds, depression, meds, and nerve pain meds and she has rods in her back thst are too short but meds aren't allowed, he says she can take benadryl for everything and that's all. And she has always been dead set that once she was married she didn't want to go through a divorce like her parents did, but they don't have any kids yet and they are only a year into the marriage and it's already this unhealthy, adding kids will make it worse, they have been together for 4 years and they still live at his parents house and in this economy they would waste so much trying to buy a house plus they have 0$ saved for a cuz he thought he would be able to get a 400k loan with zero down payment with a 700 credit score with no rentals under his credit line and only making 60k a year. She told me all this and I laughed and she was like well at least he makes really great money and I make more than triple that so I just pulled up my bank account and showed her the money out total for 6 months in my account was at 100k and she was like dam thats crazy. We should have stuck with our plans and I agreed. But what really sucks is that I'm still madly in love with her since she's my first and only love and I know I would take her back in a heart beat probably only to get heart broken all over again. But she molded me and she's the reason why other chicks want nothing to do with me cuz she used to treat me so bad when we were together and it's like things are engraved in my head to do certain things or to respond a certain way to things and it's caused me so many problems and she has been trying to make up for it cuz she witnessed it and she said she felt horrible for ruining my life pretty much. And yet I'm still hoping they'll get a divorce so I can go back to who molded me to be like this
How long it took him from first meeting until "he slept with multiple women"? This info I am missing in the video.
That awesome hairstyle tho ❤
Tandem!!! Wld luv2 with you!!!! Love!!!!
I'm 38 almost 39 never have sex with a woman although meet many woman and kiss touch boobs touch pussy … it like the movie 40 year old and still vigin i'm 5'11 and i'm pretty strong i think if i wasn''t watch porn or hentai i will raped a girl long time ago already . Anyway most girls now have 3 digit sex count these time with chad an tyronne leaving the rest of us alone …
What about dry spells that are more due to other reasons, like trauma, illness, or not trying. Sometimes it's not about fear of rejection, it's about not feeling the time is right for a relationship or a casual fling. My last was over 12 years ago and since then I've experienced a life altering illness. How does one even try to relate to someone new about something like that?
Yeah, haven't had sex in almost 7 years now. Women just do not want me, at all. Doesn't matter what I do, how much I make, work, work out, whatever. Women just don't like men anymore. It's over.
I'm in the same situation at least this guy got laid
Do you suggest finding sex relations with exotic dancers?