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How to Deal with Jealousy and Insecurity in Relationships | Sex and Relationship Coach | Caitlin V
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This is pure gaslighting
If you ACTUALLY cared about your partner you WOULD NOT do anything that could possibly ruin your relationship or hurt your partner
People like you are incredibly narcissistic
Why do you believe getting over or past jealousy is a good thing.
Hey Caitlin I'm going to try to get over jealousy
I am trying to figure out why my boyfriend always talking to females when I am next to him or looking at women pics alot and then saves them on his phone
If your girlfriend/ wife, and they are talking/flirting with another guy, it calls into question “are they really truly trustworthy “? If they really “love “you then why are they talking to anyone else ? So if you knock the shit out of the person your girlfriend/wife is talking to then he deserves it, and you embarrass her, i then they both get what they deserve. For the guy learns she has someone, and he needs to go away; she learns that she screwed up by putting someone else in danger, and she has just put the relationship in jeopardy.
Yeaaah… So, my husband is Turkish… 👀🤷🏼♀️
So long as I am being treated with love and respect, I DO experience compersion. I don't think I was meant for monogamy, I just don't want to be abused. And religious idiots can't come up with ANYTHING other than, "YoU aRe BeInG aBuseD if they do ANYTHING with anyone!"
I'm perfectly fine on my own and don't NEED anyone. I'm just looking for a best friend and that WE can play with others from time to time because sex is just a fun activity and doesn't change how I feel about the girl I'm with. I don't want to hurt the partner I'm with, and if I'm being responsible with having fun with others and keeping the house running strong, I don't see it as a big deal. I'm not going out to find it and taking time away from those I love. It's more special occasions that come up where either we both go to an event together or being by myself and a chance to play with another responsible mature adult comes up. Find friends you can be naked with. It doesn't obligate anyone to have free reign with my girl or me. We choose and it's consensual.
If you choose monogamy, you do you. Im happy for you. Keep it to yourself. You don't understand.
Jealousy person in process .. 😅
Terrible video and understanding of the topic in my opinion of course.
She's starts off saying jealousy is not something you are born with but something taught then a minute later says some people are born with it 😂
I love your channel and your advice!! I’ve learned so much!! Thank you.
I hope this question is ok… how do we handle jealousy and insecurity in a threesome situation? Sorry to be so blunt… I’m struggling with this! I enjoy it but I have to pull myself together several times during… and some of that stuff creeps up on me from time to time, while sleeping 😏 in dream form!
i am an A EXTREMLY JEALOUS PERSON.. and i hate myself for it!
You are a Queen CaitlinV! Thank you! I love you!!
Catlin I too am going to recover from jelousy and no longer identify as an insecure person!
I think when a partner makes his or her someone special Insecure they FAIL as a partner, and that goes to show how little they think of that other one, it means they aren't serious about that relationship they are in, if you are with someone make sure you got your heart and yes on them, that they don't need to worry constantly be on guard and etc cuz you are there for them sadly many women and men don't know real Love now a days and are not committed enough to one another, after all Love is not just a feeling it's infinitely deeper and requires sacrifice, faithfulness and so much more but it requires 2 to be 1 or if it's just one pulling all the weight you'll brake down …. Is how I see it ) God bless you all
Great video. What I can’t grasp is why your partner would be so into or all over some other guy if she’s that in love with you. How/why would she be so intrigued by someone else?
Hey Caitlin,
Tanx for the perfect video, as always!
Will you plzzzz make a video about Retroactive Jealousy???
Thank you so much! I get into a panic attack. My partner is poly.
I need jealousy recovery ASAP
I'm very jealous! Or used to be! Now I employ the strategies I use to stay off drugs to stop me being jealous! I just overthink everything!
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What if the girl wants you to be jealous?
So how did it work out with your flirty slutty significant other who girls would fawn all over? Did he end up shearing on you and break your heart. We’re your instincts accurate? Did you he fark you and your feelings by farking someone else right in their…feelings?
I believe igree with you
to me ,jealousy is like a green snake , a long ass snake that is wrapped around your stomach and neck, you feel like the snake is pressing real hard on the stomach and telling you some shit that you try to ignore.
It is a real problem and many hundreds of thousands of people suffer from this. It's called Retro Active Jealousy. There is a cure, and it has to be dealt with on a daily basis….but facing it, takes time and determination.
Been a jealous person for years and always thought it was my fault I couldn't stop feeling that way, but just recently I discovered that there is a phycological condition known as Borderline personality disorder ( BPD ) . People who have this have an extreme fear of abondonment, which leads to the jealousy and anger,.
Thank you
Don't deal with it, move on !!!
For me there are 2 distinct types of jealousy, jealousy over something you think would happen or jealousy over something that has happened. The former most likely driven by self confidence / anxiety / past experience (fear of being hurt) and the latter based squarely on trust post an event (fear of being hurt again). Either way it’s a mind fuck emotion and one that will consume all if not addressed.
If you are in the unfortunate situation where you have been betrayed, the person who is suffering really needs to look hard at their ability to genuinely and unconditionally trust their partner again. Lots of couples mange to move past such a betrayal and can retain a healthy relationship, but, there shouldn’t be any guilt if the struggling party can’t. There is no point in continuing the suffering, It will end up destroying everything so just admit an unacceptable boundary has been crossed and move on.
If on the other hand the jealousy is based on the fear of being hurt and what may happen, that also needs to be checked and talked about openly. Worse case the behaviour could turn to possessiveness and controlling, both very dangerous.
On both cases, it all boils down to unconditional trust and 2 people’s ability to communicate about it 🙂
Edit: post number 69 👌👍🤣😛
If you watch The Donan sharpe. He'd certainly say your wife or girlfriend dancing with another man.. Is an instant No no! You simply don't allow that sort of behavoir
Hi Caitlin, unfortunately I am a jealous person and I do not like it at all
Caitlin you are amazing!🦄 You have helped me sooo much I watch basically everyday. My wife and I are on our journey thanks to you!!! Love you!
Yeah, that's one common issues since ages ago. I love your tips, classic but very helpful.
If you did ask her if she thought having sex with the biker and she said Yes, how are you supposed to feel and deal with it?
Jealousy exists, the notion that it doesn't is plain foolish, a person taking their own selfishness and creating an excuse for it by denying the feelings of others.
Really good video, valuable tools for dealing with it.
Often people (of both sexes and all orientations) treat others badly and then act jealously towards them – that's bad behaviour – treat people well, and set out expectation that they should treat you with respect. We all sometimes need to ask ourselves if we're placing an unfair balance of expectation and demand.
I love you 2 , thank you
Thank you! Perfect timing for me. You're the best!!!
Caitlin, I too would recover from jealousy.