Caitlin V., MPH, Resident Sexologist at Royal, is a sex and relationship coach who helps people gain confidence, satisfaction, and deep transformation both inside and outside the bedroom.Visit for more full content www.caitlinvneal.com
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How to know you’re bad in bed (& how to get better)
Last longer in bed, have more sex in your relationship, become an amazing lover. Watch Caitlin V as she shares sex tips, relationship advice, and personal insights here on YouTube.
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44 Comments
I'm not a bad lover, but I know I have work to do. Thanks Caitlin!
So how to get confidence if you are bad in bed…
You should have more subscribers, your a very high vibration… Changed my perspective and educated me…
See I knew crying during sex was a good thing
Does sex coaching include having sex? I would be interested!
10. Maybe, not always.
9. Maybe, not always.
8. Maybe, not always.
7. Maybe, not always.
6. Yes, absolutely. Cannot be emphasized enough.
5. Maybe, not always.
4. Seems like hyperbole, but ok.
3. Maybe, not always.
2. Maybe, not always.
1. Maybe, not always.
Love this video and how a women can help shed the truth . However This video is prime reason why men are better with option or have no care to commit . Sex for men is a 1-2 process while for women it’s like going to back to highschool /college all over again, the most frustrating part is women are the bad lovers cause they fail to communicate what they like/dislike , but men get the blame for doing a bad job while thinking they are doing fantastic cause their spouse is misleading and lying the entire time . 😂
Laughing during sex… works & is important during foreplay and aftercare, but when it gets really hot & nasty i don't want it.
What makes it difficult for guys is women often have a ton of shame about sex so they just flat out refuse to talk about it. If women communicated about it things could be really good. Instead guys have to figure it out from other women on YouTube.
Making a woman come repeatedly is not unique to dudes, nor are they born with the knowledge of it. All that skill comes from women, who are the best teachers. Each one feels differently, and probably doesn't like what you tried on a previous woman. You always adjust to each individual woman to learn every trick of the trade. Drop the ego and have your tongue take notes. Great video! 👍
Oh I like you🎉
lol I came here thinking I would feel bad and aside from acknowledging Ive been a little stale lately, everything else doesnt relate to me! Im feeling better after the video hahaha. Time to get more creative.
May be true … the man may suck but the woman can be a deadweight
Painfully 3:12 is probably true. She would avoid perceived bad sex
This is great for increasing my anxiety with sex.
You don't have a horse d. That's all it takes
A key point in almost every point Caitlyn made, is communication. Quick question. Which one of your videos focusses on communication only, and how do I get my wife of 30 years to communicate her needs to me. I have been initiating for 30 years and at the point where I don’t even enjoy sex anymore. Yes I have asked her to initiate in the past. Happens once or twice then nothing. Do I have to be completely blunt about my current feelings and all of a sudden she’s the “victim” I’m convinced that the majority of women will not even watch any videos on how to communicate with a man. I guess I have initiate for sex, and initiate for communication and just deal with the fallout that I’m a bad person for suggesting such a cray thing. Thank you for letting me vent.
Yep, except that when you try all the ways to improve and they still don't want to change. At all. Ever.
All this said by a girl with no wedding ring. She can’t be good in the bed.
So 2 questions…. What if almost half of the listed tips may be true and number 10 is by far not the issue! Would sending this video to her be a big mistake or help?
Stop thinking porn is real life.
It is 07:32 hrs, 12 December 2023. I haven't watched the video yet, but I will. I wonder what Caitlin will say about communication… MTF
Hmmmm, I guess I'm laying premium high grade pipe since my gf is begging me for sex…. but to much of anything gets boring, so I'm the one with the headache, I split with this wanna be porn star in Feb!! :)! Some ladies crave sex just as much as the dirty dogs men can be, so don't let anyone make you think women are on the prudish side, they're not, if you're lady doesn't want to share, perhaps something is wrong with the relationship? Take a close look & take the necessary action.
Sorry but some women are boring and expect you to do all the work. There's more than just opening your legs ladies
My wife never has, never does initiate anything involving sex, talking, foreplay, physical! Never!
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teach me all please.
Waoh ! That's tough to watch
I haven't had xxx in years , she has it all the time .
God could not fully satisfy your partner.
What nobody is realizing and nobody ever mentions in these videos ALL WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT there is times i perform great because me and a woman have natural good sex chemistry.. Other times me and a woman dobt have so great a sex chemistry so i dont perform as well. Yea experience is one thing, comminicating with your persons sexual needs is another. But the biggest factor of it all is natural sexual chemistry thats the main deciding factor 💯💯
This is all so incredibly useful. Thank you, Caitlin.
I’m very bad at it 😢
Unfortunately a lot of women are bad lovers too. The problem for men or women is usually the same: ego or entitlement (or laziness).
Production value has really taken a step up in your vids! Love it, looks super good 🙂
Thank you so much for this video on this topic. It has opened my eyes and helped me realize a lot of hard truths. 6 out of the 10 points hit me square between the eyes.
The “using her body to masturbate” line was brilliant and perfectly true. Ouch.
My wife has no sex drive, and now I know why.
I have felt, for a very long time, that she was only having sex with me out of obligation. Performing her wifely duties. And this now backs up that point.
I've had a few lovers who couldn't make me finnish. It goes both ways
Men have to do more than lay on their back and stare at the ceiling like women. 🤷
I wish I knew a girlfriend like Caitlin V who is so very knowledgeable on this subject!
Based on this list I have no reason to be confident in my performance and I now can confirm that I've never made a woman orgasm and I probably never will
There are married women out there never had there p…sy sucked and never had an orgasm before…ssd buy very true
Guy here. Mediocre at best but at least I know it
Sex is not only a you thing. The quality of sex is sometimes partner dependent, whether it is him or her.
Girls don’t need men, they can take giant premium pipe & motor vibration
yea my wife does all this and always has from day 1 , now her anxiety and depression are so bad she hates sex period .