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How to Spot Toxic Femininity
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F#*k is this
Love how you communicate
I think feminism is toxic femininity
You are a dream come true. Shame on anyone has ever undervalued you. You know I feel about you
Wow did credibility just disappear in these moments ?? 🤔🤔🤔
I don't think anyone would get a paper on this through peer review, let alone any basic academic standard. Sorry Caitlin, this is not even close. As others have suggested, consider redoing this video with some of the feedback given in mind.
I mean this feels like a cop-out, which in itself is toxic feminist trait. Toxic Femininity is feeling like you have to shave your arm pitties? Feeling like you need to be skinny or pretty? Idk, maybe I was expecting a deeper conversation here.
You REALLY missed the mark on this one. Toxic femininity is misandry. It's saying men are trash, complaining about the boys you raised, it's taking advantage of being a woman in physically assaulting a man and being confident that even though she committed the assault if a guy hits her back or tries to defend himself he's getting arrested. Women create chaos then cry and escape all accountability. They talk about the wage gap though it doesn't exist, the soccer and basketball teams talk about equal pay when they are franchises that lose money and to 15 year olds.
Toxic femininity is saying you're modern and want equality but still expect me to pay for everything. Toxic femininity is believe all women including the ones falsely accusing men of crimes they didn't commit, sexual assault or during a divorce lie and say the father was a molester and then when it's proven the woman lied she doesn't get any jail time or committing paternity fraud and not being arrested and women celebrating that or getting men's money or cheating on a guy saying he probably deserved it. That's toxic femininity and the fact you can't even see those privileges shows you're part of the problem. Toxic femininity is a woman committing sexual acts that if the roles were reversed would get men landing in prison and women get a slap on the wrist. Predatorial women masquerading as teachers sleeping with teen agers and not being held accountable and then suing the boy who was a minor for child support. The level of privilege is staggering. Toxic femininity is cheating on your husband then divorcing him because you got caught and taking half his assets that she didn't help earn.
Note to self:
Don't click on a video by a sex coach, and expect advice like a life coach.
Wow. She missed this one by a lightyear.
Lmao just stick to sex talk your better at that relationships dynamics are not your cup of tea 😂304’s smh
Is this 304 mentally damage, toxic fem or mas is a made up quote
She would just be a masculine female
Her acting extra docile does not make her toxic. People words have meaning do not give them your own cause of your feelings. Stupidity is very contagious in 2023 smh
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Some of the comments here, despite their inability to understand what Patriarchy means, and their inverse approach to commenting by being toxic themselves, touch on important issues. I suspect however that some of those issues may have to do with basic human narcissism (if it is ever basic), and something that is shared by both (toxic) men and women. Maybe do a video on narcissism??
Eh, I agree that these behaviors or set of behaviors are less than appealing. I don’t agree that toxic femininity or masculinity exist. Truthfully it’s just bad behavior regardless of gender. Using made up terms just allows an individual to remove their lien responsibility for these behaviors.
You can use my comment as the dislike button. 👍
Toxic femininity is way worse than described in this video. The lies and manipulation used just to get a man hooked is bad enough, then the cheating and micromanaging and emasculation. Then using sex as a weapon for absolute control in the relationship is another. My last relationship i was treated like garbage. I bought healthy food and was ridiculed for it, invented something that i can market for bulk sales and was treated with absolute disrespect. Every time i tried to teach her 2 teenage boys something (they wanted to learn) she just gave me the third degree over it. Then trying to act masculine and trying to get physically aggressive towards me. Eventually i had enough and just corrected her every time she was wrong and when she escalated things i just told her to grow up and sometimes i raised my voice. I had a lot to be angry about, I’m sentimental so when my US Army basic training platoon photo i had framed was shattered because she had a tantrum over my smoking i just had enough. After i moved back to my state she illegally cashed one of my checks. The women i end up in relationships with are either control freaks or cheaters. Plenty of toxic femininity all over the dating world and it has absolutely nothing to do with conforming to a ‘patriarchy’. Blatant lack of respect is what happens when we live in a society filled with narcissism and lack of basic intelligence. The problem is people want to get into relationships with people that they don’t fit with, pretend to be someone they aren’t and then demand their partner change everything to accommodate for them.
I believe you are partially correct about being ourselves but all of us have areas we need to improve. We all need to understand on both sides for men and women that if we want a certain type of partner there will be expectations. For instance a traditionally male individual will probably want a more traditional female, and be uninterested in the modern female characteristics. Many examples out there but i think a real discussion needs to be had that no matter what anyone decides there will always be consequences that are good, bad and indifferent
Hmm. Conforming to social norms, gender roles, beauty standards etc is not inherently toxic. Toxicity is being hurtful to others (consciously or not) while taking no responsibility for your actions and how you're impacting people. It can be rooted in haywire norms, or personal traumas, or learned behavior (think parents), etc.
I thought we would focus on the ones stemming from feminine cultural norms, especially in the 21st century. But I guess we're still talking about women's epic struggle to break out of the kitchen 🥱
I really like this channel and ill stay subscribed but this video was a fumble on several fronts.
Wow her definition of toxic feminity is wrong since decades. Subbed and unsubbed within one minute. Nothing to learn here.
Like many other have commented, this is what I call being completely f-n wrong about toxic femininity.
Toxic femininity, like T-masculinity, is when a female use stereotypical negative female behaviour to hurt other people, meaning abuse directed from a female to another person, male or female doesn't matter. If you just "live up to" the stereotypes by being silent, passive or whatever, you're just being stereotypical.
If I were you Caitlin, I would appologize for this video to all the men and women who are victims of abuse caused by toxic femininity!
Lmao I love how toxic masculine is blamed on men and “patriarchy.” But then toxic femininity is also blamed on masculinity and “patriarchy.” Almost like women are never toxic and it’s always everyone else’s fault 😂😂
Keep this shit about sex. Ranting your political views is going to kill your viewership. I honestly am turned off the channel now but I am going to give it a second shot.
Molding…i dont fit with molding ive lost everyone that wanted to care about me cause ive demanded uncensored authenticity and honesty i can tolerate this societies mold version patriarchy whatever its called – i just want truth and acceptance i want harmony and poetry and nothing less whatsoever then that
i cant handle people because of the Schisms that create for themselves
and i can never learn enough (i read self empowerment books of practical instruction 24/7)
and so have hate for any circumstance that takes me from learning new things my worst petpeeve is having to engage in emotional turmoil when im constantly working on myself questioning myself and reflecting on myself endlessly having to re traumatize myself emotional infrastructure because some idiot believes its healthy to argu in a relationship
i have no values set by society at all but i am highly traumatized and would love to indulge being in the company of a woman who wares her heart on her sleeve and her soul on her mouth
As a Women, I'm really disappointed with the contents of this Video. This did not even scratch the surface of our Toxic selves. And I fully agree with the Boys/Men here feeling the same way here. Please address the real issues and stop portraying us Females just as some Cute creatures. We can be really Toxic in the real means which you haven't even discussed here and I'm sure you know that too Caitlin! Hope you correct your mistakes here!
With Love ❤
Men like soft kind women. No one wants a combative partner. Someone who is nice and happy to see you when you get home. I don't see why that is offensive to some women. You treat a man like a King and you will get treated like a Queen.
This is not what toxic feminity is. Toxic feminity is basically typical feminine forms of abuse like blackmailing, manipulating, shaming, destroying a man's reputation with lies, considering a man only for his money, …
edit: oh nvm, looks like the dislike button is back, not that I intend to use use it, but not having the option is never a good thing
You. Linda!!!!!