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How to Tell if You’ve Lost Respect from your Wife
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If she doesn't have sex with you she definitely doesn't respect you.
Sounds like narcissism
I don’t see the app for the high performance men thing
Hi Caitlyn….thanks for this video. Lots of love and respect from Mumbai, India. We have also been made to belive that its not about how much you love women (genuinely) but how they feel about you at any given moment. This also applies to men who have a strong masculine core but still lose respect from their women because they don't feel loved. Could you please clarify/explain this bit further?
Help im happy married I want sex but my wife doesn't want sex anymore but I love her what can I do, she also has a broke back from accident years ago
Absolutely 💘 this! Thank you
The w03man you describe won’t let her man take any of these steps.
Just leave
1-7 hit the nail on the head. It is what it is, and I dont care for her anymore.
Subtitles plz
First part of video is on point. The second part is not specific to relationships. The real answer to get respect is to leave her.
Yeah….this is garbage. On the surface it seems logical. But it falls apart when you break it down.
All humans deserve unconditional love and baseline respect.
Should I not respect children if they don't have these things?
No, because all humans deserve respect.
When someone is disrespectful, it's often sign of someone's own lack of self love and self respect, not your own.
A benevolent king will always treat even the most broken and impoverished subject with love and respect.
Then why can't a woman?
This "she won't respect you" is a sign of a much deeper societal problem: female entitlement and lack to self respect.
There is a very real underlying subconscious message here that women are not responsible for how they treat men. If they act disrespectful, then it the man's fault. He caused her to ignore/not include him in decisions, hold contempt, etc.
BULL CRAP! You're an adult. You know better. Quit making excuses and start acting like a respectful human being. But wait. You're a woman? Oh, my bad. You get pass because if you do it, it must be your man's fault.
I can't tell you how many women I've seen play this ridiculous game of blaming a man but if the shoe was on the other foot, a man is expected to stay by a women's side and support her even when things are tough .
You playing the game of double standards and calling it truth, isn't just hypocritical, it's delusional.
And the more this nonsense gets spewed around, the more delusional women and society as a whole gets.
A man would be crucified for treating a woman for any reason the way woman are described as treating a man earlier in the video.
People would say they were toxic and abusive, and that woman should leave them.
But when women does this, it's in reaction to a man's lack of deserving or earning respect.
Newsflash: I seen countless men do most of these things on this list an still get no respect because it's in the eye of the beholder. And if a woman doesn't want to respect a man, she will. And she can do it simply by seeing someone else as better than their man (or imagining someone out there is better).
But study the work of David Schnarch and differentiatjon and it becomes quite clear the issue isn't men.
These moments are inevitable. And they are designed to help both partners grow up .
But that can't happen if women have this entitled /contemptuous attitude towards the man they're with.
There is a reason it's considered the deadliest quality to end a marriage by John Gottman's research. Because once someone turns to contempt, there's hardly any going back. The game is decided:
"I am better than you and you are lesser than me"
That's called self righteous pride or bigotry.
When in human history has that not ended in complete disaster?
Pride is poison for any relationship. And blaming your partner for your own contempt is like blaming someone for making you racist.
Someone else's negative behavior or insufficiency doesn't excuse you for your own poor actions of choices.
And that's what this video promotes:. Men are the problem. And it's their fault for not fixing everything.
Someone might step in and say "This isn't true. That's not what was being said here".
So a woman's bad, unloving, contemptuous, dishonest and disrespectful behavior wasn't promoted as being caused by a man?
And until he makes certain changes, he's deserving of all of this behavior from his partner, almost like he was asking for it?
No. I don't buy it. Some thing feels really off about this entire argument.
Gotta have that tegurdy!
i cant belive that you got that mach less views just becuse of a defrent topic 🙁
The last straw is when I'm under-appreciated
Thank you for making awesome helpful YouTube videos keep the good work
Woman dont respect anymore. Most woman dont know how to earn respect. They seem to think it's just magically given. All men know you earn that from other men. Men dont just give other men respect. Woman dont look at respect the same way as men.
How can you show love to someone that doesn't respect you. Surely you have to respect eachother first.
She doesnt respect me. Only a few years until our children are grown. Then I can finally look for happiness for myself.
I love it .
A super amazing video just what I needed.
men can also lose respect for women
Maybe her opinion is irrelevant; and the relationship is trash.
To be honest a lot of women today display narcissistic tendencies. They have no self accountability. A lot of women lose respect for their spouses over ridiculous things or the respect was never really there. Every last one of my female friends and family members are disrespectful to their spouses either to their faces or behind their backs, but the second these very same women feel they’ve been disrespected in some form, they make a show of it. I feel women without a doubt women tend to be more disrespectful in relationships than men…
Have you a husband? He must have the perfect life.
The vanity of humanity….tap into it….make 🤑
Born with it or not. Cannot be learned.
I love your outfit and your necklace Caitlin. You are doing a great service to men and we appreciate you. You're amazing. Keep up the great work
My male role models are Edward Carter, and Vito Bertoldo. They are two METAL OF HONOR Winers.
Yes, pitch in. This is OUR home and your partner is not your mother. Someone who refuses to do their part or continues through life without bothering to learn basic skills such as laundry and cooking looks like a child.
It is so damn amazing, how by the book my brake down of marriage was… points 1 to 7 all checked.
Moving out today, divorcing in 3 weeks…
Live in reboot mode… the weight is gone, many challanges ahead, but this should have ended a long time ago.
While your 10 points might work to some, there are women who actually hinder you at implementing the points mentioned, just to keep you down.
Keep clear of those.
Tip #11. When all else fails, throw it in her A.
%100 yes, looking back at a failed marriage i can clearily see she never respected me.
What would Alpha do
This is an amazing video Caitlin!
The 7 signs you listed are indicating the wife is a narcissist. If that's the case its probability time to move on.
THIS IS KEYYYYYYYY, So glad you took the time to do this video Caitlin, if you wife doesn't respect you, your relationship can only go ONE way ↘️
Loved this video, hopefully we can create one similar in the future and add to the conversation 💯
I'm not disrespected by her.
I never had a wife.
I'm disrespected by my life.
And just believe me,
the feeling is totally mutual.
Thank you Caitlin. Been in a deep valley at work and home for several months. This could not have been better timed.
Are you breathing? Yes? Yes.
Thank you for this video Caitlin! This really helped me understand what I need to do. My wife and I have been on the verge of getting divorce because we just don’t connect anymore. And this really helped me to realize what I need to work on with myself if I don’t want her to leave and respect and love me as she once use to. So thank you again you’re always a life saver without needing to really try. So thank you I love you Caitlin V!!! ❤️❤️