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I got kicked out of a Sex Dungeon βπ
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i went to 3 different sex dungeons before and even was with girlfriends but its frustrating how politics work there way into these places and what i mean is how they have different rules for "guys" and "girls" but they still insist that you respect peoples pronouns and that there are more then 2 genders like wtf? this is a double standard.we got along great with everyone and mingled a bit i being respectful and polite even got to shake of my rusty arm by whipping a few girls but i felt very unwelcome based solely on my looks and gender.maybe its different in other cities but ive come to find out that the bdsm community is very heavily gatekept by one side of the politicly ilse.
you were cordially invited…
What happened to your How to eat Pu$$y video??
Fortunate to be invited to a dungeon? That doesnt even compute… Sometimes I think this women is a Satanist
I feel like thats really shitty that you were asked to leave just for hosting an open conversation. That seems very backwards to the generally open atmosphere ive encountered at dungeons. Usually everyones friendly and outgoing and expressing themselves in all different manners. Sounds like maybe someone was jealous of the attention you were getting? If anything they should have just given you a warning. Their loss either way.
How does one start a sex dungeon or play party?
I'm serious.
getting hotter everyday cat β€
Corigly?
Sounds like there are more rules than in Life.
Totally unexpected, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest in Mario's Thunderous Erections, it's so much simpler and potent now!
I must admit you are the best!!
Caitlin, you threw out the comment "when I was working on my doctorate"….really! That is amazing.. did you get the doctorate?..β¦.I already think you exceptional!
Kicked out for too much talking π
Great Video Caitlin,
Great advice, Respect, communication and clarification are top of the list.
Respect for everyone including yourself.
Communicate as clearly as possible.
Clarify if needed.
Networking is great in the right environment.
With respect
Gold
NICE Top, Thanks Caitlin V, You Look Yummy, I mean Good, Excellent ! ! !
Caitlin V is the absolute definition of Drip, the content is always amazing but her style is truly part of why her videos are great, always looking amazing and relevant to the videos topic too somehow π
Ok I'm about to ask a dumb question I guess BUT… Whenever I see shows /videos about BDSM "rules", it seems to always focus on what single men shouldn't do, does the same go for single women or different. I know nothing of these clubs but a lot of these rules seem "strange" maybe. Don't mean to offend, I'm just curious
Sounds very restricted to upper class groups. Probably older people aswell. I donβt know any woman in her 20βs would consider a sex dungeon.
Such strange places, but yes, so important to do your research, those running them are open about and welcome polite enquiries.
Abuse of consent is utterly beyond the pale, the guy who marked you committed assault rather than playing.
Almost all dungeons have Red and Safeword as universal safewords.
I'd say the space owner who turfed you out was being a bit of a douche, but his space, his rules, you did right respecting that.
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Where do I find a safe place near me ?
Do you have classes for men?
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Wow! WOW! I'm free to get out of this sex dungeon, if I was brave and strong for being a hero holds out again, lose the last life of a final boss, I could win it all too soon, so did I kill a racist transgender woman, by using a toy pistol π«, and it sniped it, mission complete!!!!!!
Pretty good stuff, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest in Mario's Thunderous Erections, it's so much simpler and potent now!
How does one recover their sexuality from a long addiction to pornography? Iβve been addicted to pornography and adult imagery for 18 and have just gotten to the point where Iβm ready to walk away from it. Iβm married and I have trouble achieving climax while being intimate with my wife. She has no trouble getting off, and she loves having sex. But I have trouble getting there. Do you have any advice?
Cat brings the knowledge, im so sick of getting kicked out of sex dungeons, like what am i doing wrong π
Excellent advice…now I just need to find a dungeon πππ
A sexpert getting kicked out of a sexually themed "boudoir"?πWHAT? I thought that would be right up your alley CaitlinππAlthough you are a talker π€π€
Thanks for those "event" pointers
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1). Rule of the feet, these are spaces where people explore transgressive or taboo subject matter try not to yuk someones yum; going into these spaces implies consent to exposure to weird or uncomfortable things if kink, fetish, or B.D.S.M are present just expect it, something bothers you focus on another scene or go to common space. And certainly do not make fun of or talk bad about that couple. Even veterans get uncomfortable but its how it's expressed or dealt with that makes the difference.
2). Try not to engage with people immediately after a scene, generally there is a bit of a coming down period and aftercare where people are just re orientating themselves and enjoying the endorphin rush give space and let them be the ones to start socially engaging.
3). Scenes have right of way, be mindful where you stand,or walk because your asking to get struck if you enter someplace your not supposed to and wont get much sympathy.
4). Before agreeing to play ask questions, make sure you understand what it is you are getting yourself into and if you are new there is the elevated risk. Experienced people know the toys, can communicate their pain threshold, can tell you if they mark easy or not. It's easy to mis judge if these are unknown or not well communicated. Informed consent is good but if the person does not know they may not ask volunteer relevant info
5) Respect the space, and others.
6) If you do not know others comfort levels and risks profiles utilize the higher standard of consent.
7) human error and mistakes happen, its not always malicious
great now to find one in my area
so many great points. I am guilty of breaking several of these tips and oh how I regret my poor decisions. Live and learn but better to learn first and then not goof it up. Love you Caitlin!
She talked to much darn
Your work Caitlin is amazing to many people, cos you're the queen in a nice dress, nobody's equal. To be specific your work will live and remain like a hieroglyphic. You have a certain special that takes much practice we learn from you, cos apparently we lack this. So in turn as I sit down and learn, I listen close what you say is for our own concern, you tell us how things are properly done, as we turn your ideas into….action.
Despite what life throws at you, you have time for good things. Keep it up
This may be off topic for this video, but I did want your thoughts on the hate that is thrown at cuckolds or hot wifing. It's interesting to me that people feel so strongly about a mans choice to allow his wife to have another man. More and more I am aware of the mainstream hate towards men who allow this. Adam22 is the latest victim.
Great advice Caitlin. Hopefully one day I can experience such a fun place! Your videos are very helpful and insightful for my sexual experiences. Plus, I love that black leather top you have on today. Omg, so hot. You look terrific. Have a great day!
You look amazing β€
The reason that you got kicked out is so funny.π
Wait… you need to wear CLOTHES in a sex dungeon?
At first, I read that as "Licked"…..
Thank you Caitlin. RESPECT all folks, do research, ask questions before going, ask questions when you arrive, cleanliness, consent, a little humility. We are all there to enjoy ourselves. Thank you for the spot on advice Caitlin
How long until you finish your doctorate? Good luck
I had a similar experience. Except it was a magic the gathering convention. And I punched a guy.
I have a few questions, "How does one get a membership to one? Where do you go to get one and do you have to bring a partner along with you, or can you just go by your self?
The funniest thing about the local BDSM dungeon, is that I often end up just chatting with other nerds about D&D. lol