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Is it good to be a lone wolf?
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This is a valuable topic, I'm glad that you at least attempted to address it. I'm a loner, I do want companionship and friends, however, why bother? I have nothing to offer, I'm a looser, a genuine failure, so I just honestly respect that people are better without me and I do my best to be kind and stay out of their way.
Hard not to be a lone wolf when people, especially women, push you away.
I'm just severely antisocial. Have been since high school. So I stay away from people,and relationships. I guess I figure until I can lose my baggage from previous relationships I shouldn't get into a new one. No point in making two people insecure, and miserable. I'd hate to be responsible for ruining someone that was perfectly fine before we met. I just can't seem to get past my pessimism. Sucks. Ok get on with the sarcastic posts. I was just venting.😎
Introverts don’t exist because parents raise their young?
After my 11 year relationship with my high-school sweetheart, Ive lived the lone wolf ever since.
Im 37 now and 7 years removed from that relationship and have not had a GF since.
I benefited GREATLY and was able to focus on myself, like really focus, and be selfish in a godd way.
Physically, mentally and professionally, Ive seen linear progression on all fronts.
But the Lone Wolf has to be aware of when it becomes detrimental.
I find myself now wanting someone in my life, yet worried it might disrupt what I have going for me now..that took almost a decade to get achieve.
Love to you Caitlin 🥰you are very right about everything you talk about in this! I am very loner but love to entertain make people happy ! Heartily welcome on many music platforms such as Spotify and more! "Nämnsbo hits"❤✨️
This is a facepalm video. Also, we aren't wolves. We're homo sapiens sapiens. Dissecting why men (and to a lesser extent women) self-isolate is a deep sociological and biological topic that requires PhD levels of nuance to grasp, and increasingly a level of "wrong-think" that ivory pillars of intellectualism will not allow. Just saying "go make a friend you'll thank me later" is patronizing.
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Lol…
“Better to be alone then surrounded by people how make you feel alone in their company”
Music way too loud
MGTOW
I am the real Invisible Man. I'm a lone wolf for sure. I have been single since 1999. It's really difficult, to find good people to make friends with. Women around me, are always rude. When I ask for help, people just say ask someone else, as they are to busy. I have given up on people, just like they have given up on me. Facebook? Well let's just say, nearly every woman I tried chatting with, tried scamming me out of money. The suffering just keeps going on, and just to much to talk about. I don't go to bars, I don't do illegal drugs, I am unique in my own way, as I don't follow what everyone else is into etc etc.. That's why I just don't fit in anywhere. I am just tired of trying.
if men really wanted friends im sure they would go get them – when they want cars, money or sex they often go make it happen dont they?
Its really funny how everyone is in the trend of determining whats best for everyone else, i fucking hate most if not all people
I'm ok with being by myself but here's my thing, sometimes I feel overwhelmed and over stimulated. So I hide away for a little while and come out again when I've reset if you will.
I am a bit of a loner. But really I'm like most people who are exhausted by the end of their work week. I work in a supermarket for 48 hours a week so am surrounded by humanity. A lot of people, like someone else has already said, fall into the associate or acquaintance category.
Hate to say it but mobile phones and social media has pushed people apart while making the world smaller through instant connectivity.
Land on earth what planet are you from I want to know about you
An Eagle goes solo always
I am a true lone wolf, I always hated teams, lol. I only deal with people at work, and when buying things, only because I have to. However, on my own time, I am generally alone, but not lonely.
I do not have problems talking to people, I just do not let them into my circle of trust, because if I do, they will disrupt my life, and screw me one way or another. Am I bitter or just experienced?😅
Very informative, I tried what I told you about and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest in Greyzar Drinbo's PE Solution and now she just can't have enough
Yeah, interesting you gave me a good laugh go totally blind and society or lone Wolf you no matter what you do it’s just a very, very empty life
i am lonely wolf (or tiger if you prefer). but i would like to "socialize" with you definitely 🙂 but i still prefer going my own way with awareness, passion and dedication. i don't need any chaotic mess in my life. and btw i read some research about longevity and life expectancy. people with highest life expectancy were singles. than married people. who did very poor were divorced people so. i can say that it is rather for man not for woman. so i understand your reasoning. but you see it just from the point of extroverted woman (or i can say you are biased). and you are very extroverted i would say 🙂 if i would guess i would bet on gemini. and women in this zodiac sign are like ticking bombs packed into sack of fleas…
Becomingg friends in just a month is not possible, even if you see someone every day. You barely know someone after a month. To develop friendship it would take years.
Ok Caitlin.. how about this one. I have been divorced for almost 5 years, was married for 23 years, had to move to a place where I don't know anyone and there are few if any places or groups here to meet people that aren't 30 min or more away. The biggest "drawback" is that I am a true night owl and have been for more than 30 years. (up at about 2 0r 3pm and asleep at about 2 or 3am everyday) That makes it even more difficult to meet friends let alone find dating options and relationships with women. That is my natural circadian rhythm. Suggestions? I am not a lone wolf by choice but more by circumstances.
I have some questions I would like answers to. These are quite personal, have medical intervention issues also. I wouldn't mind sharing but in all honesty would discuss prior to posting on a public forum.
Is it possible to get a response from Caitlin?
Im fat and unfuckeable so… no girs. no job, few friends and the girl contact I have is like I feel they have pitty for me, even my crush
Nonsense – the lone operator, has agility to take advantage of opportunities. Some pack animals cannot go anywhere alone.
So, how does a loser like me get a woman to reply to a text message?
Relationships? Bah! Who needs them? 😅😭 I'm not crying, you're crying!
i agree there are unhealthy levels of alone-ness, and that. alot of it is wrapped up in masculinity and the myth of "rugged individualism" – but i just want to add that some autistic/adhd folks like myself can get by on less social interaction than most ppl, even at levels below the "recommended" amount
I’m 49 and a loner for life. Love every minute of the day.
That's too bad We are never get together.
Btw…there’s no such thing as “Non-binary.”
But there are introverts who need to be solo in order to recharge. And quality of friend is more important than quantity. 6 friends are too many. Those are acquaintances.
Oh, no! Catlin is encouraging guys to go full (Ted Kazinski)
I am no longer a 'Loaner', but often am alone. Fate is Funny.
Um wolves will leave a pack to start there own pack by them selfs.