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Is your Sex Life Transactional?
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Even worse is, when you work all day and then you get nothing.
LOVE and RESPECT, read it
Most people (usually men) pay for sex. It may not be transactional, but we pay for it. I've never dated someone where we had sex and I didn't buy them dinner or a movie ticket or something. Sex costs money. Everyone I've had sex with I had to pay for something with money before we fucked.
Do you know any woman in a relation who did not use sex as manipulative tool to get what she wanted?
that's just how sex works for the vast majority of people. like you would never have sex for me for free, you know that. even if you theoretically wanted to give free sex to every man, you couldn't, so eventually you'd create a system where a man MUST give you something for it.
Very good information. Sad to think this happens so much in relationships!!!😢
Dearest your the bestest
For long I wondered, what will I do if my future wife, withholds herself?
Ofcourse I can't persuade/coerce her, at that point, it's not worth it.
But then I realised, supply and demand, she can only restrain if I seek, and if I don't? What's there to limit?
Self control is the way. There is no point in finding someone with equal level of libido, or someone submissive to your requests, because people change with time.
Only you, you and I, gotta keep our desires in control, and in that way, none can truly control us, else we are just animals, and they get caged so easy.
This comment is not just about sex.
Walk away!
You ain't whistl'in Dixie! I personally witnessed a relationship end when the woman wanted something and was putting off sex with her long standing boyfriend until she got it …. and it was just a stupid argument that didn't include any material things or accepting friends or going to a family function. A shame, because they were a great couple otherwise.
If the kitchen is closed….there are other places to eat….
We are all a bit old for games….
I have a question, I've never had sex because of E.D. and I am allergic to the E.D. meds, what are my options?
Sex gets boring very very quickly. Maybe we fell (generally) into monogamy by mistake? But it may take a long, long time for evolution and/or culture to annul this aspect 😢
That's why you always say no when a girl even starts hinting at that.
The trouble is, the 'price' for sex increases over time. So, typically men, give up on their sex lives with their significant other and cheat; if you look at it transactionally, it's like shopping around for cheaper quote on the same deal. One of my dating rules is, "No games around sex." You'd be amazed how many women can't handle it.
Been this way since the beginning of time. Sorry to burst that bubble
If that is someone’s kink then great for them.
Do parents demand for Mother's Day Gifts and good report cards before they express care or approval?Lovers (sexual partner's) do not withhold sex for demands. Simple communication seeking harmony and health for happy teammates will keep life productive….. with loved & united hearts…. and super hero sex. LoL
I'd say times, instances, circumstances, situations, and conversations of (Physical, Intellectual, and/or Spiritual) Intimacy are only as soaked and imbued in/with Love as there is Consensuality Existing and Present between Partners.
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When sex has a value placed on it, it severely cheapens it.
Try unemployed when married. Over time the other person will dump you. Employed and married and are helping around the house your in
If you lay the pipe good they will constantly want it then you hold the power and its so funny when you say no to sex for whatever reason then they say when you want it your not getting it but they don't say no because they want it bad lol
❤ ⚖ I was raised by a misandrist who taught my many sisters that Men are a Mean$ to an end, as a Male it was an eye opener.
Women have a price, Men have standards <~~ My attempt to humorize
I'll take the "professional relationship" over the personal relationship any day. It's just far more practical and cost effective.
❤⚖ My wife was incredibly mad when she found out I have been visiting prostitutes for sex
I said “Well you can hardly blame me, it’s not like I was getting any from you!
She yelled, “But I didn’t know you were willing to pay for it!
You trade sex for babies and STDs. Everyone knows that.