Caitlin V., MPH, Resident Sexologist at Royal, is a sex and relationship coach who helps people gain confidence, satisfaction, and deep transformation both inside and outside the bedroom.Visit for more full content www.caitlinvneal.com
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Make Her Work for It (tease & anticipation) 💦
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That's not what she said
This is the worst video you have ever made. I won hundred percent disagree with everything you said here! Sex is not a game, it is for intimacy. If she’s wanting it and you’re denying her that effects her self esteem! She will likely internalize it and feel like she did something wrong or wasn’t good enough.
You should really take this video down, it is harmful to relationships.
The next video will be women want an aggresive and dominant lover. Someone who just throws them on the bed and goes at it.
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I think a lot of people don't quite understand, Caitlin.
Love it! Thanks!!!
I am so glad that I am in the dynamic with someone that doesn't operate that way. Thank God for that. Shit if every time I had to pro love exercise to get her to exercise the hunger for me to her full potential. That would be so exhausing and unnecessary. Both of us follow our instincts and drive with no hesistation full throttle game on business none of that tease to please tomorrow or the day after🤦🤦🤦 just to keep them interested. Not all relationships function the same way and I for one would not survive with a partner whose natural incline operated within such parameters to unlesh her full potential as described in this video. Damn that would suck for my type BIG TIME. Hell to the NO!
That's just silly.
Variable intermittent reinforcement schedules…. casinos… relationships… You bring a great deal of psychology to your platform that most people will never appreciate… Thank you
I'm still making hay with those Yanni massages! So thanks for that one.
I can't make her work for it, I have to beg for it. Lol
Nailed it! I have to laugh, & think about what Richard Pryor said in a stand up comedy. I think it pertains to this. He said in his stand up "Her: You gonna get da pussy as long as you don't say something stupid & fuq it up" LMAO. Everything you said hit it on the head. I think guys may work to a certain point to FINALLY get her there, & scared she is going to somehow slip away. LOL Keep doing you. Hey what do you say to a person who cums too quick when he is having sex, & can NEVER go during a B.J.? Frustrated A.F. Love your Show. T.I.A.
Are you seriously giving advice how to manipulate and control woman??? Seriously??? Since when is it OK to use manipulation to get what you want from a woman? Where's your advice to simply get her drunk or stoned??? Wow….
i dont like this technic
but i like you Caitlin
You might get some more in the next video.
So basically, Simps or White Knights are a plague.
It's easy in the beginning maybe the first 2 years…. The same play goes for everything in a relationship… But when the first child arrives then it's game over and life starts getting darker and darker 😂 and even the best lover men suddenly are insecure
Love it
Guessing Game of dishonesty. Why can’t we both just be honest!?✌🏻❤️
Thanks!
Romantic psychology is so exhausting.
I use this strategy all the time. It really does feel like the ultimate cheat code. Especially during my younger sexual years when I'd last anywhere from 48 seconds to hours… yet usually on the shorter end of my stick. It took way too long to learn these lessons, but hey boys, we made it.
On the first, second, third date it may be some sly but vanilla innuendos. After a bit of dating you can pick up the pace. Throw some deeper heat into playing with them. Describe your desires while moving around their body and only grazing up and close to their erogenous zones. Dont touch where you want to, yet. Now, after multiple years of dancing, you two know each other inside and out. You both have all the tools and you may even throw them a sext with astep by step guide on what you'd like to do to them.
No matter where you are on the scale above, the only two rules are:
1) ask for consent (yes, their are spicy ways that won't ruin the mood)
2) Move in baby steps (anytime you and Helga are paddling uncharted waters, or cheeks, take the smallest progressions)
It doesn't matter if you've been together 1 day, 9 months, or 24 years. If you're pulling out something new, that either you or she hasn't experienced yet, you take the smallest next step. Check and make sure all arms, legs and extra attachments are still on, and enjoying the roller coaster. then take the next one. And the next. Etc. you'll be at the climax before you know it. And she'll (hopefully) have fallen off the side route and climaxed too many times to count.
As my Granpapi used to say, "Jerry you little shit, always remember: when it starts getting hot and heavy, you make sure the slots are primed and ready. You'd really rather not be left explaining how you "thought" the lights were on and the jackpot "was" in your hand when you jammed the machine with a single bill. Now where's your Gramms, I'd like to see who's hips will give out first this time."
For the one person that read this far… thank you. I'm actually a Tibetan Monk and have never had Penetrative Intercourse. I'm saving myself past marriage. Only the grim reaper can reap this bone. 🙏🦴
Over here in the real world, no. Women rarely work for anything. Especially sex. That's usually the reward they offer so that they don't have to work.
I never gamble. I never play games.
Amazing video! I actually waited and denied so long that I passed away of natural causes. My partner THO…. well let's just say they got built up so much that they medically defined spontaneous combustion.
I still miss them to this day.
Actually posted this on one of your videos from 2 years ago, but decided to copy and paste it here, because I want you, and others to see it.
Just found your channel and LOVE IT!
I doubt you will see this message but hopefully some will.
Your "after care" statement is SO true!
My greatest love, and myself discovered 'ours' by accident … but … it's F- ing amazing!
I have never liked to just 'pull out' afterwards, my penis stays erect and VERY sensitive even after I've cum, and even tiny movements of our bodies together and can still bring great pleasure, as we bask in the calmness after.
On one occasion my partner coughed, with me still inside her, and did what I would call an 'accidental Kegel' "clench", and it was exquisite, I let out a moan that caught her off guard, which caused her to clench again, I moaned again, and then we both started laughing, and the laughing, again caused her to Kegel clench, over and over, it was MAGNIFICENT!
The best part was that we each learned something about each other, that brought us both pleasure.
After the initial accidental discovery, she took what we had learned, and with me still inside her would randomly 'clench', and drive me crazy, it was fantastic. She found a way to 'take control' and have a power over me, while giving me great pleasure, and me providing her with the intimacy she desired after completion.
The REALLY great thing was that sometimes she would get me so aroused doing this, that without pulling out, we would go into "Round 2", and on one occasion even a "Round 3"!
What with social media and the internet, I'm pretty sure she'd just get bored and go screw someone else.
Give more examples please
I think Caitlin is pretty and wonderful said by everyone ever
❤❤❤❤ love you and the information you give us!
Finally, some good f*cking food.
(Big fan 😅)
I'll let any women do what she wants to me to make her happy and for her pleasure