Caitlin V., MPH, Resident Sexologist at Royal, is a sex and relationship coach who helps people gain confidence, satisfaction, and deep transformation both inside and outside the bedroom.Visit for more full content www.caitlinvneal.com
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You are just wrong on everything in fhis video , delete save face
Ahh, if only someone told me this stuff years ago, my life would've been so much easier!
Sometimes the issue isn't getting to the bedroom. It's dealing with women in general. Getting them to say yes to sex can actually be easy, because women have made it easy. I apologize if that sounds blunt. And cheap and easy sex is like a fast-food cheeseburger. Sure, it hits the spot now and then, but you get tired of it really quick, and if you are dining on it for extended periods, it isn't good for you.
That's where relationships with long term partners come into play, IE the end goal. However, I've found relationships are way too expensive for the Risk/Time/Effort/Resources Vs. Reward today, for men, and where the trouble starts. Hence the modern conundrum with dating today between men and women.
This is one of the few videos on this channel I strongly disagree with that I have seen so far. So many of the videos on this channel are great and I have learned a lot from them, however this video might be inadvertently perpetuating some of the problems going on right now. There is a push for men to take on traditionally feminine roles and yet men are also still expected to take on a number of these traditional masculine roles as well. which for me isn't romantic, fun or meaningful. I only consider romantic relationships with woman that grow and evolve organically when I go out and live my life. Not based on gender roles but because we enjoy spending time going back and forth doing things for each other regardless if its considered traditionally masculine or feminine. Otherwise it just feels like a second job. Does this limit my opportunities, yes very much so! But its better than playing games and jumping through hoops for woman. Life is to short for that.
I don't know if others feel like this, I might be in the minority and I apologize if its sounds like a rant. As I said earlier I feel rather strongly about this.
I would be curious to get others opinions how they feel about this and get some feedback too.
At a point, pursuing women is like looking for a job. You go through all of the nonsense interviews, try to make a good impression, jump through hoops, and then when you finally get hired, you realize after a few hours that the place is awful and all of that effort was a waste of time and energy.
is all this the same when looking at a cat? 🐈🌹
God I love this woman
Thank you for all your videos. #4 has turned me into a pussy ninja. Thanks to you my wife tells me I should write a book on making love.
This video makes women sound like passive bystanders in the dating process.
women are exhausting man, and not (yet) in the good way lol
Hell no I’m done with women
No way I’m good and safe
I haven't had sex in over 7 years my digs useless af I might as well cut it off and become a woman
your husband is lucky
6:12 Consent is sexy……when you have a thoughtful ask in mind. One of the most eye opening insights I got from this channel.
Reading the room is often better than asking from what I have heard from women.
Asking I have heard tends to kill the vibe/mood.
Caitlin what do you think of using OF as a forum to work on communication, kind of as a training camp, if you are often to shy to approach potential partners IRL? Yes I realize a plethora of potential problems that can arise since it’s not therapy but…..
7:10 yes! Your video "better thrust" is my FAVORITE video of yours
Is the one video on the net that explains what stroke game and motion of the ocean is.
Lovely video 😊 do you have advice for someone who wants to wait for marriage to have sex?
I'm a 46 year old Virgin I've never seen a woman naked in front of me I've never touched a woman at all I am direct straight to the point guy I don't play games compete or chase after women I'm not a dime a dozen guy and I'm not looking for a dime a dozen woman or a hoe that's been ran through reamed out or someone that belongs to the streets
Modern American society, has made it far too difficult for men to naturally make sexual advances toward women.
XXX wrong answer. Asking permission isn't sexy. Most people watch you to be able to read the cues and already know. The correct answer is to State your desire and gauge the response. Instead of asking permission to kiss her. Tell her lips look luscious and you would love to taste them. Instead of asking if she's comfortable taking off clothing… Tell her you're curious what she looks like without them. In this way her words and actions dictate consent without the awkward may I hold your hand mommy vibe.
Thanks for the video. I was very unconfident and experience when i was in my early 20s. Taking to women was akward for me. Going to escorts helped me with experience. I was able to approach women confidantally. Eventually i found someone. These tips you offered are great Kate. Thanks again.
Given your professional focus. I wonder if you have any book recommendations on female psychology by a woman. Everything that I find is by men. And not to knock anyone who worked hard for a phd in that field, but obviously a woman would understand a woman’s perspective better. I.e. why I am subscribed to your channel and love your work.
In a recent survey conducted by the Pew Institute, over 53% of American men ages 18-35, have not in the last three years, had or even pursued in any way, any sort of romantic entanglement or sexual relationship with women.
When asked why, for the most part they answered, that the effort was not worth the potential benefit and, that they'd found that self gratification with porn was far more pleasurable than trying to satisfy a woman.
They didn't see any need for that to change in the near or distant future.
I have never gave you a thumbs down 👎 before but in this program to many mix couples
I'm a high value man Cait. You're wondering high value men don't have time to watch my content. That's not true and you inspire my poetry. i took time to write at night I will recite, for you are tight and make sure the words are said right. We may not always agree and it doesn't mean I shouldn't focus on where we agree!
Nothing will kill the mood faster than asking for permission. Just go for it. If a woman doesn't want to be kissed or touched, she can shy away from you.
Also, since when does a hand feel like a woman? What a ridiculous statement.
Have you ever had someone who is 20 years your senior come for advice?
What's the worst thing that can happen? She says no?
Uhh… she makes a scene out of it and you get labeled a creep? I swear, women have no clue how bad a rejection situation can get for men.