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Porn has Become Mainstream: Pros and Cons | Sex and Relationship Coach | Caitlin V
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Dear Caitlin, I also wish to have known earlier many things that many have the oportunity to learn from you.
But about porn: At least35% of porn is brutal showind practically what amount to rape of sometimes less than 18or sadistic showing role play looking real real rape or torture victimising girls who accept by urgent need of money to signe discharge before without understanding . Young people seeing that are sometimes stressed maybe ar far as ptsd and then disgusted, avoiding sex alltogether many recover from it but come to thing as "normal" and some develop a sadistic or brutal criminal tendancy.
Most of the rest of the porn show men fucking without forplay or any show of love and so no surprise that many boys and also men to havevery bad sex with their partner, no wonder that so many married women don't enjoy sex.
The only good porn don't represent more than 5 % max. of the total : Educational porn, women friendly porn, porn maked by women. All the rest is just poison for the mind.
A decent analogy for the comparison between porn and real sex could be wrestling vs real fighting. Both are staged for the entertainment of the audience, and intentionally amplified. A real fight isn't likely to resemble a wrestling match, just like real sex isn't likely to resemble a porn scene.
Porn is a dangerous thing. I was addicted to porn for 13 years. I couldn't stay away 2 weeks from porn, that started feeling anxious and depressive, so I always went back to porn. I was slowly getting out of porn, and anxiety crisis and depression was just increasing, when I finally get out of it, the anxiety crisis turned into generalized anxiety and depression even worst. I sought help from a neurologist. He said that I destroyed my dopamine receptors with porn, like other drugs do. I couldn't feel pleasure and satisfaction in normal things in life, just with porn I could have this. This explains the depression. Anxiety was a symptom just like other drugs withdrawal. The good news is that our brain can heal because of its neuroplasticity. I started to take some medication and acquired some healthy habits. The first 6 months were horrible, hell on Earth. I didn't know a human could suffer this much. Then it was slowly getting better, until all depression and anxiety went away. It took 1 year and 5 months. I noticed a lot of good differences. I became more productive, like, reading more books, caring better about my health, more organized and disciplined. Little things like watching the skies and the trees reacting to the wind feel more pleasuring. It's a new and a lot better life now.
I've gotton bored with most mainstream porn and gravitate more towards erotica, and amateur porn.
90% of mainstream porn is trash. It's become so manufactured.
all the performers look the same, and act the same, Every scene plays out the same way, Always some hung guy (who is not good looking because in mainstream porn it doesn't matter what the guy looks like as long as he is hung) Driling a girl in positions that look totally unsexy and not fun, alll while she pretends to enjoy it. (and she is pretending I guarantee it) The scenes always end the same way with the guy pulling out and either nutting on her face or nutting on her stomach, her tits etc. A lot of the time there isn't even any foreplay or even kissing, It's not erotic and sexy at all. and it looks so damn fake and unnatural. and it's BORING.
and then there is the totally unrealistic body standards. The performers don't even resemble real people at all. A big reason why people watch porn is that they can live vicariously through the performers. They want to pretend THEY are the ones in scene. and when the performers look totally fake and not even like real people it just kills the immersion for me.
Lack of diversity is another one, the porn industry is notorious for being very racist. ask any performer who is a POC.
POC are treated like crap and forced to do performances that reinforce very racist, problematic tropes and stereotypes.
Awesome video. Thanks for sharing!
Hope you never get censored… love your channel
4:20 bingeing from scarcity
Nice looking Guns at 5:29.
Caitlin You would make a good Armwrestler!! 💪💪👍👍
Incredibly positive and anti-shaming 7 minutes and 50 seconds. Along the way making some very important points, including a short but essential message to the generation brought up with ubiquitous porn and no proper sex education (like half the US – what kind of world are we living in?). Comparisons with cookies, Jurassic Park and circus acts are all so true and well-delivered. As is pointing out the misguided care in social media and media in general, conflating sex-ed with sexual stimuli. Many thanks!
Talk about dating a porn star! How each person would feel.
Caitlin, I gotta say it: you're sexy as fuck, part of which is your intelligence, and I love watching your videos. That is all. 😍🤤🧠👌🏾🔥
Don't compare sex and porn
Porn is deadly and poison
I fuck hooker rather than watching porn
Because watching porn causes lot of phychological dis orders
Every human being will suffer that
Until that enjoy the show
Wish u where my wife your beautiful inside and out
Thnx Caitlin 🙏🥂
Meet 100 girls before internet porn , become insecure with porn addictions during 6 years. And now free again
Shagging. Smash the doors off it. Toad in the hole. Rogered. I can't think of more, I've been smoking and drinking the night before.
Porn can be bad or good. It's how you view. Thank u for making sex noy as sin
I love porn. I eat the whole bag, every day. God bless porn. And Caitlin.
An honest to goodness real quote from my buddies wife. "Pornhub saved our marriage". I'm not promoting that specific site, but that was what she said.
I've seen news articles get posted on they say millennials are having less sex than previous generations or that guys today are having less sex than guys in the previous decades and they say porn is a contributing factor
I feel like porn makes people feel really insecure, coming from a guys perspective it can really mess you up. I know you’ve talked about this before countless times. But you can never really say it enough. It really messes you up and brings your insecurities out in such a way that you’ve never experienced before.
As a therapist, I see a considerable share of parents bringing children under 10 in and saying an older sibling or neighborhood kid exposed my child to porn or I caught my child viewing porn on his/her gaming console. They don't, generally, take responsibility for setting boundaries, monitoring their children's viewing habits, nope; it's usually 'here's my kid, fix my kid, I'll be back in an hour.' It's never, my kid was watching a sex positive educator. Why people promoting any kind of peer-reviewed medical/mental health/sexual health information/education is beyond me. Everyone has a right to their own views but not to dictate what I or anybody should like/not like, wear/not wear, watch not watch. If you don't like something, don't do it, keep moving. I guess some people just don't have enough going on in their lives (read as, they lack control in their own life so they want to control others)..
My wife loves it
Gave up porn for a few months and my libido was higher than ever! But I went back to it with a different mindset and it what you say about the mindless consumption aspect is 100% true! Enjoy porn, but don't sit there with your eyes glazed over while you spend hours skipping to the "good stuff" or you'll never be stimulated by normal sex.
…Also, consider changing your grip, stroke speed and even body position to better mimic that of real sex.
This advice kept me from having to resort to medication and I'll happily volunteer myself as Caitlin's case study if needed 🙂
3:24 best sex meme ever!!🤣🤣🤣
Perfect timing, Caitlin. Savoring makes things last longer, taste better, with deeper and more complex flavors. Thoughtfulness in life is the key to savoring. Love the cookie analogy… Thanks for this and that and the other things. Love you!
I really enjoy your videos and find them both educational (and yes, at 71, I still have a lot to learn) and fun. I wonder if you could do one or more videos on sex and the aging. I realize that covers a lot of territory, but it could give you some great opportunities for "continuing education" for us in the 70 is the new 65 category.