Caitlin V., MPH, Resident Sexologist at Royal, is a sex and relationship coach who helps people gain confidence, satisfaction, and deep transformation both inside and outside the bedroom.Visit for more full content www.caitlinvneal.com
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Quality or Quantity in the Bedroom?
Last longer in bed, have more sex in your relationship, become an amazing lover. Watch Caitlin V as she shares sex tips, relationship advice, and personal insights here on YouTube.
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38 Comments
What about a guy that knows his own sexuality inside and out but keeps not finding a partner that actually wants sex. That actually appreciates her own sexuality as much as I appreciate my own. It seems like a concept that only a select few people will ever get to experience. It sucks not ever having that.
Benefits the way until marriage stability 22% better Stability 20% better sex 15% better
dear Caitlin, I already commented a while back but I have another question I would like to ask you: what's your opinion on consuming/ creating NSFW fanfiction or fanart? and what do you think about having sexual fantasies about a real person in general? would it be considered one hundred inappropriate, okay, or something in between? I know the topic can be more about morality than sexual knowledge, but I would like to hear your opinion on this and how would you feel about it if you came across seeing that. thank you
You're looks so sexy in that top🤘
It's true 👍
Wow! I get sex once a week, and all I have to do is give up half my income, listen to concerns about concerns that the roof is unlevel, the toilet sounds funny, and the furnace blows air that is both too hot and too cold simultaneously! What a deal!
Caitlin, my wife and I started a sex streak! We’re on day 535 of sex every day. If you’d like to hear more about our journey, please reach out!
Caitlin V… like Henry VIII?
If she’s not getting you off daily are you even in a relationship?
Pretty sure my wife’s erotic blueprints got burned in a fire. So I focused on my own needs like you said. Stopped acting needy for sex.
Still nothing BTW. For four years now.
Reality is one tends to cultivate the other. If quality is good you’ll want more quantity.
Quality does matter more but there is also a quantity baseline. Amazing sex once a week or mediocre three times? I’ll take amazing once a week.
However at some level, quantity matters when it’s been months or years.
My wife and I have been married for 17 years, and we still blow the roof off 3 times a week. Not really a question, just bragging a bit.
"Once a month for 20 years" ???? WHAT KIND OF "MARRIAGE" is that??? "Of convenience" ??
Why not both?
Again what makes you an expert
I've been watching your videos for last couple weeks and one question I have what makes you an expert about sex you a doctor do you have any sexual health background it doesn't count if you had sex a lot
There are many reason why silicone sexdolls getting populair nowadays
Can you imagine how terrible women have to be to make this industry possible?
What if I’m not in a relationship and a girl who is having crush on me will take help from her friends to convince me to meet her somewhere on an empty spot and she will end up having sex with me at that empty spot and I will lose my virginity to her. Then what will be your response to this Caitlin?
Quality over quantity?
If your good you can have both.
I have sore hands, so it depends how sore they are.
Wow. Great message. I sure wish I lived near you. You are an awesome advocate!🤩🌹
Obstacles for some people who struggle with severe anxiety can be a never ending list. Infinite obstacles are almost impossible to deal with.
Calling out Caitlin on her claim that women want "help with the dishes" in order to have more sex. Perhaps the reason that many men don't believe it it is that the data says otherwise.
While women often claim that they want men to do more traditionally "feminine" household chores in order to feel more "in the mood," a study was published in the February 2013 issue of the American Sociological Review whose results showed that married heterosexual couples whose distribution of the household chores most often done by women (as opposed to those usually done by men such as maintenance, repairs, and yard work) was more egalitarian had notably less sex thsn those where it was not. Other research trends have supposedly demonstrated similar findings.
Now, to be fair, this is complicated by higher reported levels of overall happiness in the more chore-egalitarian marriages, which does perhaps support Caitlin's quantity versus quality distinction here—but the frequency data is definitely contrary to her assertion that men doing more chores like washing the dishes will get them laid. Science says it won't–but it also says it may still make his marriage better in other ways.
Never get married men! Who wants the same pOA for the rest of your life, if you can even get that! Hell no!
Quality has much more of an impact.
We are fortunate in the fact we are intimate closer to 5-7 times a week. Some days are nothing then some days its twice but not to make up for missed day lol.
In the end the quality of the connection during the intimate times is where the entire relationship flourishes…
hmm once every 1 to 1-1/2 years i must be full of quality 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🙃
So they're all average stuff for lovers in the world, there's marriage certificate and some divorce papers to trade in next.
As a man I masturbate daily. If I had a girlfriend, I wouldn’t expect anything less! Sex is very important for me and my happiness.
I think it's best to build up the foreplay longer and longer.
Quantity has never been a good quality
Good advice… Till your sex life ended on your honeymoon. Pregnency hormones, post partum depression.. And a partner that is too embarrased to let the doctor know. I was to!d that sex should never be needed again. I cant afford the court system, so here we are today. When i told her she was nothing more than a bad roomate, and was ready to finally walk, is when she got treatment. No shame from the doc, and two weeks later, feeling much better. But still sexless. Looks like i ruined my life by choosing wrong. If i could only go back 25 years ago…
Totally prefer QUALITY would rather have deep intense sexual encounters with my partner when the moment is right rather than average quickies all the time. My perspective though lol
We've just celebrated 30 years of marriage and thanks to following your tips and ideas our sex life has never been better. After kids and with work/financial pressures things had slowed down in the bedroom. We started with text messages and loving/sexual suggestions during the day. Introduced toys and lingerie along with better techniques by me (from your vlogs) and now our sex life is better than ever and improving everytime. We have sex 3-4 times a week incorporating oral, vaginal and mutual anal. The post sex perod of cuddling and talking is especially fantastic.
Thank you.
All about her. Find a woman that likes it like you do or pay for it. Jumping through all those hoops is silly. Chad and Tyrone never have to jump through hoops.
fck, youre gorgeous
Still making love 3+ times a week, and we've been married 41 years. I can't imagine once a month. Torture. Great video.
Caitlin lookin GOOD (jus saying)