Caitlin V., MPH, Resident Sexologist at Royal, is a sex and relationship coach who helps people gain confidence, satisfaction, and deep transformation both inside and outside the bedroom.Visit for more full content www.caitlinvneal.com
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Secrets Men Don’t Want Women to Know
Last longer in bed, have more sex in your relationship, become an amazing lover. Watch Caitlin V as she shares sex tips, relationship advice, and personal insights here on YouTube.
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I’m zoned out 99.9 percent of the time, I’m insecure because no women really want to talk to me( except my 77 year old mother )
Not in the mood? Is that even possible?
GREAT video, Caitlin. THank you
Caitlin, love your content. However, your'e constantly pimping your High Performance Male program. I've clicked on the link a couple of times after you've played it up. I think it would be more honest to tell folks that there is a waiting list when you mention it. Otherwise no complaints on your advice. Thanks for the constant flow of informative stuff, it's always helpful.
Pro tip guys: If you're caught looking at another woman and your wife is a little insecure of it like mine because she has a POS for an ex husband. Just say to her, "I'm so glad you don't dress like her" or "I'm so glad (insert observation here) like her." She'll love it!
moon in scorpio, dark moon in lillith in scorpio, plus 8 more planets in pluto…yeh i do…but after i will do anything for her..
Giving a compliment is a science. Too many compliments are given but they are mostly patronizing out of place and the compliment doesnt suit the previous actions. Just like women, you dont want to complimented on things she cant control its objectifying on both sides of sex.
Iam a woman and i have to say that for me the most attractive thing at a man is when he shows or admitts his insecurities…i love that!! In my eyes it makes him so attractive…wow
I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of compliments I have received over the years. Even worse is the lack of “thank you” comments. It would be a miracle if my wife ever said “thank you” for anything. Ever.
Merci de nous comprendre Caitlin…
Do you have a video on withholding
It's damn hard to be a man. We provide, and we do things that our families don't understand we are doing to keep them fed and taken care of. I will say it's hard to come home and have to be immaculated because
Feeling confident and in charge 100% of the time all day everyday. I can guarantee not a single man on this planet experiences this. But we're all supposed to be confident all the time. Lol so unrealistic. I'm glad you pointed this myth out.
having an partner on same level.of thinking behaving is important.
Very vanilla, even for YouTube!
Fairly generic and not always applicable, some are not secrets at all. Being validated, complimented, etc. is a human desire, not a sex defined one. I never zone out. My mind never stops thinking about multiple things at any given time. I envy those who can zone out. Luckily I have no secrets at all. One of the few benefits of being an alcoholic and getting sober: You've faced every demon, insecurity, etc. you have and you're use to being very open and laying it all out there in front of strangers (AA) and for some of us, regularly therapy. Accepting yourself for who you are and being emotionally aware makes it very easy to not have secrets. Of course this can backfire on you if you're too open, too soon. On the last bit, it's good that I have a therapist because nope, I don't have any male friends, just acquaintances. My friends were all heavy drinkers that I had to cut out of my life and who the hell wants to start over making friends in their 40s? Even though this is again what I would largely call common sense, it's certainly a video women should see.
One secret women don’t want to hear about: we get turned on by semi f*t women : ) Dont confuse fashion magazines with real men…
Ah, my wife used to point out attractive women to me (in the before times) like at a restaurant or walking around, but that's nothing compared to the time she AND her daughter made me turn the car around so they could both get an extra eyeful of a shirtless jogger.
For real, I own that exact same outfit.
Amazing how I don't know how much I didn't know
So true thank you for the video
I would love to have some fun with you
This is the first utube vid that I’ve ever ever ever commented upon. Normally I’m just a looker. But… gotta say…. This is an excellent vid. Many home truths here. It’s great to hear this from someone else. 🥂
yes women, send us a compliment once in a while.
I'm in the UK. you are in the US – is the course still good?
Quite a common secret is using viagra and not letting on.
Thank you for all your videos Caitlin. My wife and I have been married for near 24 years and have always had great sex. We're watching your videos both separately and together. I just found you a few weeks ago and decided to confess to my wife that I was following a sex coach. So, I shared a few videos with her and she loved them! My sex life is exploding into a new realm! Thank You! Thank You! Thank You! We're learning so much I can't even explain it. Also, we are communicating better and laughing together feeling new connections…
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yup, youre on to us
Oh, I always thought if a woman complements a man that it would give them the wrong idea behind the complement.
What she is saying are so true!
Hi:)) you are such a cool woman, you are an inspiration for me:)) if I might ask frankly, you said, that you live with two men. For years, I have thought about this concept and have talked to people who have both others partners, but I think of your concept as more appealing. A question, that has veen burning on my tongue: how did you communicate with hin/them? Did you know you wanted tonlive with two men early on? Fo they have other women besides you? How did you manage the bedrooms, one or two? Do you all live together? How does one feel if he knows you sleep with the other? How did you get to know the second one? Did he know you lived with one man? How do you communicate that you want two partners, if you want them to be "monogamous" with you, so you are their only woman? Maybe you can make a video on how to live functionally with two men and is it possible that you as the woman have them, but they don't date others? Or do you date other men as well? :)) thanks for your inspiration 😁😁
I don’t know that this qualifies as a secret but most guys would like women to take more initiative: not just in the bedroom but even things like starting conversation (like when you’re getting to know someone) and choosing things to do on a date or what to do when we hang out. It gets exhausting always having to be the one to have cool things to say, plan fun things to do and initiate sex.
I know it feels great to have someone take care of that stuff, but the least you could do is return the favor every once in a while.
You touched on Great topics but can we expound on number 7 ! Not only do men look at other women but if I can be 100% transparent, men look at other men as well. As you said looking can be for a bunch of different reasons. It's not always about sex. Why is It such a double to say it's okay for women to look at other women but a guy is labeled Gay or undercover for looking at another man? Answer that one!