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Should You Be Monogamous? (CNM Explained) | Sex and Relationship Coach | Caitlin V
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31 Comments
I could never be monogamous again
In do not think that the consensual non-monogamous relationship is for me.
What if you fall in love with the other person and youre married?
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I'm not sure if consensual non-monogamy for me. I'm not sure
CNM works for us. We’re secure in our marriage and love for each other. CNM lets us explore others and other things. And after all, group play is super fun.
No
personally i am not a monogamous person. but i don't think alot of people in society have the emotional intelligence to deal with that kind of relationship. thats why i choosed to be monogamous cuz i believe when u love someone u should be ready to give them a really special place in your life. though i have not met anyone who appreciates me making them that special person i am happy i get to make that choice. No, non monogamy is not for me
This was a great opportunity for me to think in a new position of this topic because I thought I was a men who would not want this but I'm having several new revolution about it thank you so much
Have you ever had a person that doesn’t believe your relationship is consciencial nonmanogamous that you have made contact with that your interested in, and if so, what have you done for them to believe you if anything
yes and yes
Real talk!
I want all the smoke. An Asian wife . Carribian wife . And a Hispanic wife. And have them as bisexual
I haven’t been with a with a woman
Caitlin , I have been faithful for 28 years. I need to have a contact with you or with another open wo an
Nonmonogamy we can do that just make sure it’s not on my hardworking money and I’m not obligated to take care of said woman financially
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Nope.
Can you explain the term cuckold I'm not even sure I'm spelling it right??? This term is always baffled me and nobody can explain it to me
Caitlyn I'm doing the best I can I just exited Mormon church 42 sill haven't had sex I am working on it.
Yes… we've thought about it.
I rarely if ever comment on videos but I have to ask how to actually introduce this to someone. I feel like it is condemned the way being gay or trans was, 50 years ago. The term “coming out of the closet” to me, means that it’s taboo. It means that you’re hiding. Polyamory or CNM is something that many people look down on. I do feel like CNM/Polyamory will become more mainstream and acceptable in due time, but right now it’s still “in the closet”. My question is: How do you discuss this with someone in a way that they won’t think: He’s not satisfied with me; He just wants to f*ck everything or can’t control himself enough to make that commitment to me?
I imagine this is a common thought in monogamous peoples minds. If I’m wrong, I’d love for someone to comment
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i am interested but my wife is not. its not even about sex with another person. i would just like to see her & another girl go at it. of course im gonna want to have sex with my wife while this is going on. but i dont want another woman. she is all the woman i need. it just drives me nuts seeing her go nuts lol. she has been cheated on quite a bit in the past and so have i. so i understand the insecurities involved. i dont think i will ever experience it. but its fun to think about lol
Very very interesting topic. when I was married, I live in an upscale gated community where everybody was married and most good looking,. All the couples were between thirties and forties. Attractive money makers, and professionals. On Friday nights, everyone would get together at one of the couple's houses for drinks, I would say there were at least eight to ten couples. towards the end of the evening, everyone would throw their car keys into a little straw basket. The wives would go around grabbing a set of keys out of the basket and who ever they had randomly selected, they would have to go home with that man and sleep with him that night, it was very exciting! It was all consensual. Over a short period of time, partners were meeting other prefer partners during the the day for interludes.. People began to get more attached to certain other people and started to get in a pattern of having sex on a regular basis, After a while jealousy started to form even though things were originally consensual. It turns out that 7 out of the 10 couples got divorced I think it's only natural that you will start creating a bond with the person that you're sleeping with and want to do it more and more regularly. After doing a little bit of research I found this interesting fact "One study says that 92 percent of open marriages end in divorce, supporting a common notion that marriage without exclusivity is doomed to fail." As much as it's very exciting to do this, our brains are programed to release oxytocin and other chemicals that Bond you to the person you're having sex with which will create a problem in the long run. I am not here to judge anyone, but I do believe you cannot sleep with somebody over a period of time without creating some sort of a bond with them and if you're married to someone else that is going to infuse toxic emotions into the relationship that we're all programmed to have.. Very few people have the ability to hold a marriage together well having sex with other people. This is my own personal opinion and I don't judge anyone I just don't see how it can work in the long term maybe just for a few people that may not be emotionally involved with a partner. It's a lot of fun but may not be good for most people
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I don't think so. I don't think I have the emotional intelligence.
My wife and I have been practicing consensual non-monogamy for about five years now. Your videos have helped us enormously with our communication. Recently I got enough courage to tell my wife about my overwhelming cuckold desires. It turns out, that she knew all along and is excited about the possibilities! Thank you so much for helping us better communicate our needs to each other without shame.
Other people? It's hard enough to find one.
Yes! I’ve done it and loved it.
I feel trapped by my partner because I am polyamorous but he isn’t, and I feel it’s more important for me to respect him and not the other way around. This is a difficult thing for most people to understand.