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Sperm Retention and Retrograde Ejaculation
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I have this from BPH surgery. I’m in my 60s and I have had no complaints. Much cleaner results all around with all partners.
Ever had a prosy tell you you came? That wasn't Retrograde Ejaculation, she just wanted money.
What if you don’t reach orgasm and there is pain there I am talking to a therapist, but the idea people talk about tolerance is all I every doing, and no doctor helping, for me its nothing to do with masculinity for me as I am not every man nor am I competing but its the I cannot do and been rejected by partners because I cannot for them, its not all my ego its actually part a partners ego that she cant get me there and yet talking to doctors there’s limited convo which makes me the non accepted male, the reject, the failure its not in my head its how I am treated and left, if a woman wants a baby and the man cant provide good for her she leaves to one who can but the man is left, some will say well she not for you, marine hearing that for years then so I am a cast off that’s not ok
I just started getting less volume and feels like its getting stuck only a little is coming out and more after little by little. Im only 38 and this just started happening last couple weeks. It sucks
What if I do have retrograde ejaculation with low volume semen and sometimes high? 😮
Probably the worst video I came across. No.pun ntended.
I always love your vid! Just concerned about your hair, don’t kill it girl!!
I suffer from it and I have suffered from it. First due to alphalytics, which made me feel very bad, as well as causing me retrograde ejaculation in some cases, in others, with silodosin, total absence of ejaculation and orgasm. A colleague of yours compares the suffering men experience when they lose their ejaculation to what women experience when they lose their periods, due to the removal of their uterus. I still suffer from it, even though I no longer take alphalytics, since they almost killed me twice, because I had bladder cancer and the resector destroyed my bladder neck. For some time I suffered a lot. You no longer feel like a man and reading here and there, you find many articles in which they make fun of you, ridicule you. I decided to go to a sexologist and concluded that I am still able to satisfy my wife, that I am still able to have sex, albeit with less satisfaction and above all I don't have to prove anything to anyone. And if some boorish feminist journalist writes some articles in which he makes fun of "males" – because he makes beasts like that – he doesn't recognize your right to be called a human being, therefore a man, but defines you with the generic term of sex, like an animal – suffering from retrograde ejaculation or anejaculation, due to serious health problems, it just means that the problem is his, but on a mental and social level. So I don't give a damn about your article. One day he will have to account for his own verbal bullying. She will be accountable to God, to herself, I don't know, but violence, whether physical or verbal, is violence whether it is against women or against men, always. Thanks for the video. Thank you for telling all those who suffer from it that yes, you feel impaired, but you are still able to have sex, to give satisfaction and above all, that you don't have to prove anything to anyone. Thanks for the video!!!
What happens in the body when a person blocks sperm from coming out?
Please, I m begging
Tell me how to meat and take personal instructions from you
I am 43 and got prostate surgery a year ago. I was told that my surgery went as well as can be expected, but I later found out that I ended up with retrograde ejaculation as a side effect. One thing that has helped get my organisms at least partially back to normal is sex lube, and Trojan”s “Fire & Ice” condemns also make them more intense. Another thing that has helped a little is taking herbs like safed musli and shilajit.
Thanks for the explanations. I know about retrograde ejaculation because the urologists first made the wrong diagnosis and being 50 years old, they gave me alphalytics, which, more than retrograde ejaculation, make you feel terrible and make you anorgasmic. I recommend them to everyone. Moreover, alphalytics are very dangerous, they cause early senile dementia, put you at risk of cardiac death at any time of the day and give no or ephemeral relief. Crap! Then it turned out that I had bladder cancer and had to be operated on. Retrograde ejaculation doesn't take away your masculinity, but it reduces the pleasure of sex to a tenth, yes or no, maybe even less. So my advice is to be followed by a psychologist, to resign yourself to this new, deficient condition and rediscover other aspects of sex. There is often superficiality in dealing with the thing, on the part of people. If a woman makes fun of you, even when you've explained to her that it makes you suffer, leave her, evidently she doesn't deserve anything and even less, she deserves you. Find a woman who is understanding. Just as we men have learned to respect their problems, they must respect ours. In Western society this still happens very infrequently. It is up to us men to demand it.
For this to be in my current YouTube feed only reenforces the well-known fact that AIs are even listening to us orgasming deep into our partner. I would seriously like to know when automation becomes so advanced that immediately after breaking a party favor, will my favorite retailers be teleporting a new one directly in place of said broken device without having to physically respond to anything? That my fiends is instant gratification.
Can this happen all the sudden? It just started happening
Can this be caused by drug use?
Does retrograde ejaculation end your nofap/semen retention?
I’ve been on semen retention for a week now actual longer. I went a whole week not ejaculating. I went to the bathroom one morning and had retrograde ejaculation. Does that mean my streak ended?
Man, watching how I blasted all over the "place" in less than a month was shocking, I used what I talked about the other day, and although it actually took about 5 weeks for my volume to double, I just go'ogled Jan Venstaker's Shooting Ropes and her reaction has been priceless!
I have a bladder diverticulum and after 5 years of tests by urologists they believe it is caused by the bladder neck being too tight. They want me to have surgery with a bladder neck incision. This will result in permanent retrograde ejaculation. I was only told this two days ago and I am so down and distressed by this.
Appreciate your posting for us, I am in my mid 60's and had bladder surgery about 2 yrs ago and have retrograde ejaculation and ED (Semi), would more frequent ejaculation/masturbation open and fix the issues of RE?
is this common for women
Can excessive edging cause RE? I usually fully masturbate maybe once a month or less, but when I do cum, I don’t shoot very much or very far anymore. I haven’t been on any meds or had any surgery, so I wonder if that’s something that can cause it.
I had a vasectomy some years ago does the effect of retrograde ejaculation be contributed to the vasectomy awesome blood pressure medication seminal fluid is present sometimes very frustrating
Never been a brobkem I got that Mormon seed thanks to my ancestors. Came in my baby mama once ever and now I got that crazy ass to deal w fir 18
There is a plus side to RG. It does away with the spit/swallow dilemma. 😁
I wonder if scoliosis/kyphosis or Chiari Malformation, or damage to your abs, could cause RE. Thanks for doing this video Caitlin. One thing I'd suggest for people dealing with this is prostate stimulation.. You may not be able to shoot much but you may find out that during prostate stim you are leaking thick fluids all over the place. (in my case for some reason it's completely clear and incredibly slick.. like Astroglide slick) Chiari Malformation's effects on sex are far too understood.. There's precious little info about it available for something that's a lot more common than people realize.. same with autism as an adult and how it affects our kinks etc.
I can ejaculate a little semen and always have been able to. However, it's not white in color or thick, it's more clear and liquidy. I had a botched hernia operation when I was 11 months old where both urethra tubes were severed completely in two, then reattached, although not 100% successfully. That resulted in a reflux of urine backing up into my bladder when I pee…meaning all urine is not dispelled at first The refluxes have backed into my bladder for my entire 45 years. I've never been able to impregnate a woman with no contraceptive being used whatsoever (and I've had many sexual partners that were fertile). I've spoken with my primary doctor and he mentioned retrograde ejaculation. And after I ejaculate some and am finished, I always have had a strong urge to pee. Dr says the retrograde ejaculate comes out afterwards when I do pee. What are anyone's thoughts on this and have any other men here experienced this? Also, I've never done a sperm count with a Dr or Urologist. I guess I was too afraid to find out the truth. It has interfered with my sex life and caused an ex to break up with me because I couldn't impregnate her. Any thoughts, tips, or advice? Are there any safe, suggestions to improve this without some supplements advertised on the web? I drink lots of water, never have smoked, don't use recreational or illegal drugs, and haven't drank alcohol for almost a year now. I've accepted it to a degree, but I'm curious as to know exactly why this is and has happened to me. Thanks!
What about age and also drinking enough water ?
Thanks for all of your videos. Happy Valentine's day 💐💝
So what's the difference between this and when men have a full body orgasm without ejaculate from using tantric methods of breathing to control ejaculation and move the energy?
Love from Belgium
I took Rappaflo once for a kidney stone issue (didn’t help). It was interesting because it caused a “dry orgasm”. Felt totally normal, but “zero” comes out. Weird.
Caitlin! I found your videos good to practice in English, I mean it is very interesting to listen you, and same time practice English:)
P.S. you are the sexiest hottest youtuber I ever seen! Very charming lady! Very charming:)
Can you do a video on chastity, wife and I are interested
I’ve had this for 30 years as a side effect of lower abdominal surgery. You get used to it, and there are times my wife thinks it is a positive. Thanks for addressing this.
I don’t even know how I’d feel if that was me . Heck I haven’t had sex since 2016 and that alone makes me hate myself
Hey, have you done (or can you do) a video on PPP (Pearly Penile Papules). Curious to know more, thanks!
I had a lower-back spinal fusion recently. Because I am built like an ogre (6'5", 300 lbs.) my orthopedic surgeon determined I needed an anterior stabilzation, in addition to the "normal" posterior stabilization. The vascular surgeon, whose job was to "tunnel his way through my guts" to give the orthopedic surgeon a place to work, warned me that retrograde ejaculation was a possibility… there were a lot of structures he was going to disturb in the process.
Good news: surgery went great and I am pain free for the first time in 18 years. Bad news: I'm just a dribble when the rocks go off.
To be honest, it was a shot (pun intended) to my ego, but the trade off is sooo worth it.
Thanks for the video, Caitlin! 💛