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The REAL cause of Delayed Ejaculation (and how to cure it)
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You hit it on point with it ruining relationships. I have been accused of cheating some many times over this. And it is hard to find a partner that understands it.
What difference does it make to women if a guy cannot cum? Why would a woman be conserned about it? |How is it a letdown? If it only a psychological disappointment, surely, she can find ways to deal with it so it does not become a problem for her.
I did not have that problem but I can sustain for up to an hour and half. I did that with control of it. I wanted to last longer and that was amazing to me. My orgasm was greater and it was amazing to feel. I never had any problems with it and can normally go off in the normal times. I just can control it and last that much longer. Also my record is three hours and I came twice without going limp. And no this was not due to my age. I was able to do that even when I was young. Infact I was able to do that as young as 12.
I’ll take “problems I wish I had for $1,000, Alex”
Yeah, I think I have this. I am a 52 yr old male whom historically never really had a high libido to begin with. I am good with 1-2 x per week and I’m also good with 0-1x per week. It has always been a problem with all of my relationships. I always sited “Quality over Quantity “ but that gets old after a while. In the last 3-5 yrs I’ve had an issue with “starting the car”. My wife use to give me some nice foreplay head and I was on my way. But that was taken off the menu. More on that later. I was diagnosed with hypertension and I believe that the meds I am on is affecting my erections. I’ve discussed this with my wife at length but she has not complied. No head, she won’t even touch it. She only wants me to do everything and she is guaranteed and orgasm every time by me. We/she has had some struggles in her life. She struggles with obesity, we have lost one of our children to lupus, she has lost her Grandmother, she has had sexual molestation in her past by a close relative, and now her teeth are falling out. I believe that this was a heavy contributor to the No head issue. Her solution was to purchase a electronic flesh light that spins. We tried it but it’s “too big” for me and I prefer sucking and jerking up and down this thing only spins. She should have consulted me before she purchased it but I don’t want to hurt her feelings. So I sucked it up. Another issue that I occasionally have is the delayed ejaculation . This happens mostly when we don’t have intercourse right away and my member is like yeah, no, your not teasing me again. I also have gotten use to my nipples being played with to induce my orgasm but she wants to change it up and play with them early on rendering that reaction null. I really long for a good Blow Job and I’ll even take a hand job from her but it seems none of that is in the cards. Married for 22 yrs.
Thanks for the advice, And yes, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest by Greyzar Drinbo and now she keeps dragging me back lol
Great job! It's thrilling to make her eyes roll back while she uncontrollably quivers with pleasure, I went with what I mentioned last week and now she can’t have enough. I did it go’ogling the latest by Merle Winestol and now she’s the one dragging me back for more lol.
thanks for the video, still
it takes hours, the effort is not worth it, gave up on sex years ago.
the winning move is not to play.
Thanks for this, age, porn and masturbating technique is my problem. I can ejaculate but takes quite a while. Great advice 👍
Microwaved banana peel! 😮
Tentacles can be represented by ropes and binding. Do you have an episode on discovery of the BDSM elements of sexual congress?
56 and just got this after a >1500 shot of testosterone. Downside is it takes about 45 minutes if at all. Upside is you should see my abs! Better than when I was 18..
Yup it’s the pornography. Thank god it’s fixable. Use an app blocker to reset. It helps. Finish for your relationships not by yourself.
Don’t watch porn either way guys it’s so bad for you in so many different ways
From Paul I have delay ejaculation thanks for doing this video about it
Good advice
I have a spinal cord injury, since 1988,at first thru years that had no problem of ejaculation ,but the last ten years ,none existing, just like discharge here and there,now I'm 54,been married since 1993,but still get a orgasm here and there, I know people with sci have problems ,and I stop taking amitriptyline and Sertraline, for about a month,, I'll see that would help , praying 🙏🙏🙏
This became a problem after I received radiation treatment for an intestinal cancer in 2013. I split up with my wife shortly afterwards fir reasons unrelated to my issues (I got sober and she didn't want to stop drinking).
My girlfriend of 6 months has been completely patient and supportive. After I had the radiation treatment, ejaculation was uncomfortable.
My beautiful GF has been increasingly successful at helping me orgasm, which is almost entirely only possible via oral stimulation. She is more than okay with it, as am I.
I am 56 so perhaps I would have had problems anyway, but hard to say. I am just thankful we have awesome sex. The orgasms are returning to their enjoyment status pre-radiation. It is just difficult to get there, as I believe many pleasure feeling cells on my penis were permanently damaged by the radiation.
Well, I tried what I read the other day and it was mind blowing to see her writhing with pleasure and ready for anything. It all started when I learned to last at least 30 minutes go’ogling the latest by Greyzar Drinbo and now she just can't have enough
Many times the woman or women aren't tight enough!!
I THAILAND U CAN HIT NEXT, TIME FTER TIME, WITHOUTH ISSUES, WHY U KEEP UR MAN IN THE BASEMENT? IS THIS SOME CCP +LGBTQ TRICK/? U D BE HAVING A HARD TIME HERE EVEN AS A LADY BOY I GET IT, BUT STIL KNOLEDGE ITS KNOWLEDGE GOTTA SHARE IT
Caitlin you are spot on. It’s about rewiring. I never mastabated until I was ‘18!’ I could never ejaculate as a teenager (thanks to the Catholic Church) with girlfriends because I had no idea what it ‘felt like.’ This nearly destroyed me to the point that I would avoid sex and even fake it using condoms. I often had up to three wet dreams a night so I knew it wasn’t biological. At 18 I read a book on make sexuality and I began to masturbate one morning half way from waking up during a wet dream! Bingo! I had a new toy! 🤩 But I also was finally able to allow the connection and communication between my brain and my dick to connect. Next time I had sex with my girlfriend I came because I learned what sensations lead to ejaculation. I’ve just subbed and thanks for sharing!
you crack me up. i love how open you are. definitely made some guys blush. not me though. im open to anything my wife is open to. but love your videos and your advice
Thanks, after watching you I am now able to ejaculate-vuala!
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LOL, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.
This video is insanely long
I have had this before but one day that all changed and now i ejaculate way too fast. I'd love to go back to not coming in 5 minutes, if anyone has advice for me I'd appreciate it
I think this is the reason I don't have a strong labido. Have never been able to finish inside of a woman. When I was a kid my sister got pregnant she was a teenager, a very young one at that. I over heard my mom tell my sister, your pregnant because you've had sex, and now your father is going to have a heart attack. The fights that ensued after that were very traumatic for me. My dad threatened to leave my mom, and he threatened to kill the guy that got her pregnant. Guess I've always equated sex with pregnancy, and pregnancy is bad, so sex is bad. Now im a 38 year old straight dude, that has only had 4 sexual partners, no kids, and I haven't been able to cum inside of any of the women I've had sex with. Although none of them could get pregnant the first one she had medical issues, she had a hysterectomy, early on in her life, we knew each other our whole lives. The other three were in there 50's, so they couldn't get pregnant even if they wanted to. They just wanted some D.
I'm a paraplegic and trying to make me orgasm is a long frustrating workout for my partner. Sometimes I can sometimes I can't. Always flaccid.
I only ejaculate when I masturbate or my partner gives me hand job
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What if you’re single? I’m on the spectrum and dating is difficult and rare.
Try not being circumcised. Then you have more penis feeling.
I find it hard to cum when I'm on an empty tank….that's the only reason.
Ty so much
Drugs for depression ruined my friends sex life.
He had to withdraw from them gradually, a week at a time. It took 3 months to be off those in a safe manner.
A little bit later he was okay.
I appreciate you discussing this in a lively, informative manner. Many thanks.
Help I have been struggling with this for two years and I use to going but now I'm not?
I used to have this problem. I solved it by giving up porn and masturbation completely for one month. Then I was fine and am still fine.
I there were three words that stood out in this whole presentation that I never thought of before. "microwaved banana peel" I love this entire presentation, and one very bananas idea to explore. Love thyself before loving others. .
My meds for OCD fucked me up. Even before that though I had issues