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What ALL Men Can Learn from the Red Pill
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I'm so glad Caitlin has finally covered this topic, I used to be on the side that found this stuff to be amazing but now it looks dangerous and unfortunately certain Influencers know that this kind of stuff can be used for their gain so they target the most downtrodden, lonely, vulnerable young men and shove this rhetoric down their throats. Most of the young men this stuff targets are the ones who may have not had good father figures, maybe been a bit neglected or just not been in the right environment, it's a very harsh reality that young men face these days but channels like Caitlin's and Danny Morell are some of the best things I think can help educate and undo the toxic side of all this stuff.
yeah … were all individuals. let's forget about pattern behavior, psychology, studies, sociology.
I totally agree what you said about the Red Pill, but the true is that this is just a symptom of a bigger problem, which is the feminism. The feminism movement is the root for all bad behavior in relationships
8:16 incredible the feminism movement are the specialists in generalization
4:55 well you could say about the misandry on feminism movement. They say much worse things about men for decades
This is the first time I heard of the red pile. Sounds like weak minded guys want a Stepford wife.
unfortunately there will always be people who believe that the "other" is bad. it's lazy thinking.
Men dont tacke red pill to be happy thay safe thier life and money
She try to tell the men always are wrang and stoped. We woman have ecry thing right we ruling the world you need woman go mgtow
You are doing it. M n….
I promis you live more happy if you live single and improve your life. And reach. Lese stres. Woman os not every thimg she is. Ad vertising for matrirarcj
If the man leveng it why you worry. Thay come back soon
She push. For the matriarchy and kep man calm ri axept evry thin g thay want
Is not mater of happy or not. Woman cant make man happy
He is. Right i beleveh
Him. Mgtow is way
Red Pill saved my life and let me get my life together.
Of course people will want red pill to go away bc it keeps the resources from women and gov.
Look. Initially when the term "redpill" was used when it came to dating, it was allegorically used to state the ugly,cold, hard, brutal truths of the unchangeable subconscious hypergamous nature/mindset of a woman.
It somewhat helped men in the beginning to better understand why women pull back, ghost, friendzone,monkey branch, the plan B guy,,, I'm not happy,. Wanting open relationship,,yada,,,yada
So, men, not wanting / tired of being on the ugly receiving end of this have only 3 options
1). Become a : Chad Pookie RayRay Tyrone ThunderC by using the tenets of hypergamy back and women are now furious,more confused, add the fact a (certain group) which has twisted it and influenced women have the audacity to cry boohoo try to shame men /blame for being misogynistic.
2. Put up with and be the "blue pill" guy: simp, nice guy , cry on the shoulder, white knight, forever friendzoned.
3. Since most men think analytically
The best logical thing for us ,as men, to do, is not even bother to get involved with relationships and all the mental/ financial coas it brings
" Real " mature men don't hate or are afraid of women as most women are claiming. No, we just don't like the end results of how all this hookup culture crap has destroyed women when comes to dating and marriage
Kaitlen, just to prove my last statement I challenge you to go watch all the YT videos of
Bridgette Teshay's
I regret being a sloot
Strong Successful Male Channel
They Did What? Channel
I'd like to see you do a video after that.
I'd like to know what about the red pill is manipulative catlyn?
The red pill isn’t about men and women, it's about society writ large.
Taking the red pill means realizing that virtually everything you've been taught is a carefully constructed narrative designed to keep nefarious people in power. Gender relations are only a small part of it.
The black pill is when you take the red pill and just decide that everything is hopeless and don't bother trying to fix things.
The white pill is when you realize that there's hope and that the goodguys can and often do win in the end.
Girls are manipulative creatures
What a blatant misconception! First of all Caitlin V is mixing Red Pill with Black Pill, which are totally different. Red Pill is about self-respect, about not being a simp, about treating women by their actions and what they are deserved for. RP has nothing to do with what Caitlin is accusing it for. Out of curiosity I checked this channel and I could not find any video about feminism. It says a lot by itself. I just wonder why but it is more rhetorical because the answer is obvious. Red Pill was triggered and was a response to Feminism and MeToo. RP is not even close to that level of aggression and toxicity that MeToo ane Feminism have.
I'm a man who went through a divorce, and I found the Red Pill community. The things they said made total sense, but then I realized something. A lot of what they say is a contradiction. For example, "Women are experts at figuring out bullshit." Then they say "don't be yourself." ….. so I'm sitting there like "so if I'm not being myself in order to keep her around, but she's good at figuring out bullshit. How does that work exactly?" Also they never bother to cover another issue. Lets say you some how achieve everything that they are, well that's great, but unless you are the best man there is, there are still men out there who are better than you. So what happens if one of them tries to pick up your girl and gets her? Where does that leave you? Because you achieved everything they told you to do and you still had the thing you were trying to avoid happen.
Red pill = a scam that uses gender generalizations to sell easy solutions to sexual frustration and loneliness.
A woman is an expert on men. Hahahaha! Okay.
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This is the first time I’ve ever heard of this.
Men and women are NOT equal. Women are not independent we are all INTERdependent. At least men know and acknowledge this. Women say their independent but want men to pay for everything because they've gone into debt buying shoes and clothes. This conversation she needs to be having with women. Men have to become "manipulative" because it's counter measures because women say they want a nice guy but react to the bad boy. There are generalizations that are valid. Women want a man that makes more money than them, are taller than them and stronger than them and that's ok but to suggest generalizations are bad or irrelevant makes no sense. Men are also taught to not idolize women and be on their toes because they'll cheat or trade up and aren't as loyal as they pretend to be. All redpill did was take off the dreamy illusion that women must be catered to and their the prize when they actually aren't. It also taught men discipline and to not give over their power or heart easily or immediately. The ultimate goal is to teach these guys how to choose wisely and have a prenup if necessary because a woman can be a great help or the worst thing in your life. Redpill is navigating and realizing no one can save a man but himself because no one cares. Especially women. Men accept those facts and move accordingly.
That said, your attempt at navigating it is one of the more nuanced ones coming from a woman.
I appreciate the nuance in how you approach this but to think it's pain driven or they leave after they "get" a woman or that learning out women's nature so you can approach it as toxic is myopic. The general consensus about women at least the current and upcoming generations is they're hypergamous in nature, are contradictory, delusional or childish in nature that seek just the bad boys because it's exciting, make poor decisions and after being run through decide to settle for a "nice guy." Data would support that as when they get close to 30 which is known as the wall and also around the time babies rabies kicks in they start looking for the safe guy. And what the safe guy has learned is if they settle for said woman she's already been run through, thinks SHE'S settling and there's a 1 in 3 chance the child she's birthing might not be his AND that she has financial incentive to divorce him. So why would a guy who might be potentially cucked want to lose half of everything he's built up to a woman who cheated on him. Don't conflate incel with red pill. Though some concepts may overlap the intent and desired outcomes are very different.
Men today have realized that getting married is too much of a risk with women who do not add the value women previously did. The "equality" women want are on things that are advantageous to women. They don't want the draft, to pay child support of give up the children even though statistically children that grow up with their father fair much better in life.
So until divorce courts develop equality and change the divorce laws so men don't lose everything to a cheater with a child that isn't even his guys will be wary.
Find a woman who is relationship-worthy? The problem (in my experience) is they’ll play the long-game, pretending to be what I want/need until they know I’m deeply invested. Then once she knows I’m hooked, all that goes out the window. Every. Single. Time. Including right now. That’s why so many men feel we can never trust women. We think we finally have one who’s different, but turns out to be just like the others.
The Red Pill (2016) documentary by Cassie Jaye is pretty great tho… I recommend that all Men watch it.
Just want to point out the matrix is a trans story, created by two trans woman. Taking the red pill, literally means to embrace the hard truth about yourself in order to become the person you were meant to be. Which for the matrix creators, again, was being trans.
Well in the Matrix the real world was less happy than the Matrix, desert of the real 😀 many ways life is like that if u pull away the thin veil of "happiness" and glitter
I get what your saying, but what’s the difference in what women say about men. Not sure there is a lot of difference between the red pill vs feminism. Not all who think in some of these ways have been hurt. Some have just come to the conclusion that a women is a risky financial investment.
Redpill taught me that today's Feminism hates men. It is not worth being a relation with an American or Western woman. Guys, walk away and reach your own potential. 80 percent of all females start divorces. Men run society. Who fixes plumbing? Your electrical grid? Transporting food to your stores? Females treat men like shit. Females in Human Resources don't want to hire males in white collar jobs(had it happen to me). Sorry, walk away men. Go MGTOW Monk.
Lol the red pill gang is so fucken lame
After a few months listing to red pill shit I started getting misogynistic. That was enough. They do have some good points though. But they overgeneralize. Not every woman is going to divorce you and take all your fortune.
80% of men between 20-40 are invisible
Redpill saved this man’s life. We have been lied to about wahmen. They really are immoral deceitful creatures.
Caitlin, you said "talk to me" after a recent disclosure. After all the big buildup, sex was kind of a disappointment. I mean, it wasn't the transformation from unfulfilled to fulfilled I was counting on. In fact in a moment to me of stunning insight, my college flame says, "this all seems to center around sex". Sex as being kind of a mundane thing to worry about. Compared with life, for example. That's why, without leaving anyone, without hurting anyone I thought you being sex obsessed, you and I might find that “still haven’t found what I’m looking for” satisfaction together. It’s got to be sex. But today, you are confusing as I was. I mean, it's important that women be respected and that women be valued. Misogyny and objectifying that would be bad. But, if I am any kind of a good man at all, I should immediately cast away those that aren't the right stuff, don't have the needed skills, don’t deserve a relationship. Nice little bit of work you did there.
Some of that Red Pill 💊 content is good stuff. The Red Pill will open your eyes to Female Nature
But yet women preach that all men are rapists and sexual offenders right
MAGA ⚖