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You just did talk politcs
"I don't talk about politics on this channel." Well, now you do, under the cover of "individual fulfillment." The unborn, apparently, mean nothing. You are saying that their lives are easily traded for our "feeling safe," enjoying ourselves. Well, well. Apparently that is what makes us superior. Self-aggrandizement on a cosmic scale.
Ahhh. The subtext here seems to be very political. Sculpted for that. Ally-ship. I see, I see. Propaganda?
Interesting info
Uh, why no mention of Plan B??? I checked and it is still legal every where, as far as I know. One article even referred to Plan B as the "Gold Standard" in Er's for victims of rape. Odd, why don't ER's use a D&C? Abortion as birth control has its own set of psychological issues way beyond the scope of a YouTube video not to mention the health implications.
Caitlin, I love your videos, usually. I've even bought two of your courses. This one misses the mark. You posted this video on April 25th. Why so long after the Supreme Court decision? The fact is that the abortion issue will all shake out in state courts, as it arguably should.
Last, I wish you all the best but I love you as a blond! 😉
This video needs a LOT more "likes".
Amazing informative video Caitlin. ❤ your hair. Watching in 🇬🇧
BLESS YOUR HEART!
Vote biden so you get laid! Really this is the message.
Im out!
Vote Trump so you can afford that child! Not use abortion as a birth control method.
It has its place but your sales pitch sucks!
Jumped the shark with this video.
Sorry, unfollowed. I could have kept the political bs out of it.
yea I don't agree with the over turning of Roe V Wade. I can understand and respect were religions believe that abortion is not an answer. but there is no "one" religion out there, and no "one" train of thought. there are other people who will think about situations differently. and those who choose to take away peoples rights and options based on their own ideals is just flat out wrong and closed minded. if your religion and beliefs tell you a certain thing great, your choice to follow them. but to push that ideal on other people is not right. a blanket no choice approach to reproduction options is also a great way to have people not want to have relations in the first place. We should vote for more options and ideas, not on the oppression of choices.
Agreed on voting. Vote against anyone who forces vaccines upon us
Here is my preamble. I know that I am most likely the only one that is prolife in this comment section. If killing another human being is the way to a good sexlife, then I would rather be alone. I am a 22 year old man who doesn't have a good life set up yet. I still have to get a good job and do allot of work on myself before I can reproduce. Nomadder what softened language we use an abortion still kills a life, and dam it that is how we all got here. I don't think that any of us would go back in time and tell our parents to kill us. And people who say they wish that they were never born, usually have other mental problems to work out. I am rambling here, what I am trying to say is, if waiting untill I have the means to support a family is the right thing to do, then why should women not be responcible as well. In any sexual incounter women are usually more aware ofthe possibility of pregnancy than men. The short of this is, both men and women need to be more responcible. The Lord gave us sex primaraly for reproduction, but if he didn't make it pleasurable than we wouldn't ever do it.
Please explain why, as a guy who worked hard to make women feel safe and valued, that "bad boys" were so seemingly more attractive to so many women.
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As it happens, I voted in the primary yesterday. I got REALLY pissed off when I found there was a candidate in one category, running against someone I find CRIMINALLY REPELLANT, who was running as a "single-issue" candidate. And that single issue was, ANTI-ABORTION. There was no way in hell I was ever going to vote for EITHER of those disgusting people. I might have left that one category BLANK… except there was a 3rd choice, "UNDECIDED". (The entire election process in this country has become corrupted. One of the few good things going right now is MAIL-IN ballots. So easy to do, and a drop-off box happens to be directly acorss the street from a doctor's office I go to regularly. Mail-ins also make it very easy to do WRITE-INS… though, with a party primary, that was never going to work right now.)
I've been saying for more years than I can remember, we need more sex education in this country, and a change in attitudes. People need to realize there are multiple ways to avoid unwanted pregnancies, and no matter how much religious LUNATICS insist, celibacy is NOT the only way.
I’m all about gr8 pleasure & I support safety but thinking abortion is good in any way is selfish and not considering the destruction of a human life. Either use a condom take birth control which I don’t find appealing for women with side effects but the day after pill isn’t the same as abortion so I encourage other options rather than just claiming “choice” to undermine the fact it’s a life you’re destroying to seemingly save your own self centered preferences. It’s a tough subject but pleasure should never overlook an innocent life form such as a child in the womb. Anyone alive seeking pleasure should respect that they wouldn’t be here to enjoy it if you were aborted. See both sides not just a me first attitude. I’m fortunate no girl I was with had to get an abortion it’s disgusting in my opinion. I know girls who strongly regret getting an abortion so do your best to prevent that from ever being necessary. Pro life people can have amazing sex and avoid pregnancy that’s not intended. Try harder that’s smarter in my opinion. Anyway, I still love your information on sex in general otherwise. Happy gasms to everyone and keep safe.
Is it any coincidence her hair's dyed blue and she's wearing blue? 🙄 I love your videos, caitlin, but I'll take my chances with my boy, Trump and anyone red. Use condoms, ladies. That's the simple answer.
long before this issue became relevant, I made my own choice & had a vasectomy "w/no regrets"… unfortunately, politicians use anything to sway a vote along w/untold half truths & outright deception that people actually fall for, I cannot agree more, use your voice, wake the ** up & vote people! the future of the country is not a spectator sport… well said Caitlin!
I'm from Northern Europe, and it sounds strange to me how it seems like many places in the US are going backwards into the future regarding abortion. There are many reasons why someone chooses an abortion, and having that option is a good security. And as Caitlin says, you can be unlucky, even if you use contraception, and it may not always be easy to get hold of emergency contraception.
There is no such thing as unattractive natural hair colour . Natural beauty wins every time .
This video solidifies just how awesomely smart and well spoken our friendly and attractive host truly is. 🫶🏻
Caitlin’s point that fear of an unwanted pregnancy is a stressor that can negatively affect female enjoyment of sex is unassailable. That’s kind of stating the obvious. But, using it as a springboard into the abortion debate is an un-winnable proposition just as much as would be to launch into a debate about religion – and for the same reason. Because both come down to deep held personal BELIEFS.
Beliefs, by definition are not subject to rational examination or factual proof. It’s the same in the religious context, it’s impossible to prove whose religion is “right”, or whose God is the “real” God. In the context of abortion, the debate gets hi-jacked, into a debate about “rights” – and in particular – women’s right to control what they do with their bodies. A point that is indisputable. Such a basic and inalienable right is as indisputable as life itself and is protected by the full force of the law.
However… what if that absolute right to life is in conflict between two individuals? That, of course, is the moral core of the anti-abortion position. To their point of view, they are protecting a human life just as if were a 2 year old child. The state certainly has standing to protect a child even over and against the wishes of the parent, if the parent’s action endangers the child – even up to including terminating their parental rights. No one serious person would argue against the necessity for such child abuse laws. Under the laws of jurisprudence, the state has the right, indeed the obligation, to determine whose rights take precedence when they come into direct dispute. That is legal justification for abortion laws – both pro and con.
But the legal balancing of rights between parties only begs the real question that lies at the heart of the issue’s most fundamental premise: who qualifies as a “party”. Under the law, and in the context of civil rights to life, “a party” is always defined first and foremost as a human being. Which finally gets us down to the real point of contention in the abortion rights debate. How do you define a human being? Or more specifically, when does a fertilized egg become a human being. At conception? Heart beat? Brain waves? When a soul attaches? Physical movement? Viability? The minute before the mother gives birth? The minute after?
All of these have been offered as arguments in defense of the positions on opposite sides. But This is not a scientific question. It is really a question of when life begins. And the answer, about what is morally right, comes down to the individual’s BELIEFS about what constitutes a human life. WHICH IS WHY THE ISSUE CAN BE DEBATED – BUT NEVER WON. “Morality can not be legislated”, as one Supreme Court Justice once stated.
But sadly, reality demands an answer because government will inflict consequences based on popular policy – either way. In other words, it will enforce the BELIEFS of the majority – specifically, the majorities’s belief of when human life begins.
I happen to have very strong opinions about the subject that took me years of care consideration of all aspects surrounding the issue, to finally arrive at, as have many others have. The difference is I’m willing to admit that my position, in the end, is based on nothing more than my personal BELIEFS. BELIEFS I CANNOT RATIONALLY DEFEND. Now on to the next topic. My religion is right, yours is wrong. Convince me otherwise.
Catlin, I usually like your videos. I must say I am very disappointed in this video. As a couple that wanted children but couldn't have any, we both hate the way mothers can selfishly terminate a baby inside them just because they don't want it. You say that women's choices are limited due to the restriction of abortion. Well, isn't the baby growing inside the woman's body choices limited if the woman decides to be selfish and terminate it? It didn't ask to be conceived. The mother decided to take the choice and uncross her legs knowing there is always a chance to become pregnant. The child growing inside her is not HER body. It is not just some chunk of her flesh. It is a totally separate, living human. Not a fetus, or anything else people like to call it. It is a human being. As a living human being, it also should have a choice to live.
I think it is unconscionable to think that ''I can just go and screw around and have fun. If I get pregnant, I can just kill it. No problem.''
I know my opinion my not resonate with some of your listeners. For that I am sorry. But for you to promote having sex should be free of consequences is unbelievable to me. It made me lose a lot of respect for you and your teachings.
Yes, vote Pro Choice!
If the way i vote determines whether my partner feels safe enough for sex, then she won't be my partner for long. That goes for either side, btw.
Sexual intercourse always has consequences. To expect that it shouldn't, and that as form of recreation (masking that as responsible family planning), it should be convenient and fit your "lifestyle choices", is dangerous, selfish and unrealistic. Oral contraceptives have skewed how men and women see the world. It's a fact (although largely unstudied), that the chemicals in oral contraceptives cross the blood brain barrier. Ask a woman in her late twenties, that began using oral contraceptives at fifteen years of age, what her life is like when she stops taking them. That is to say how differently she thinks, feels and perceives the world around her.
Why isn't there a male birth control pill? Because no matter what the marketing strategy, the vast majority of men would never agree to take it.
That "Better living through chemistry" rap that the pharmaceutical industry keeps laying on us (boner pills included), is a bunch of bullshit. It's the very definition of inhuman.
Thank you for everything you do Caitlin.
Women should have every right to decide what to do with their own bodies. A zygote/embryo/fetus growing inside you, however, is not your own body. It has different DNA and a different life cycle. Additionally, considering men, for the last 50 years, had literally no right to decide if we did not wish to be fathers, allow me to play for you the world's smallest violin … 🎻🎻🎻
I will vote for your right to murder babies when you vote for my right to do the same. That's how gender equality works, right?
One word: Vasectomy
One of the many problems with modern society is people wanting to live a life free of consequences. It is not possible. All of our actions have consequences, some good, some bad. If you don't want an unwanted pregnancy, then don't engage in sexual activity. I can't stand the whole my body my choice argument. You made your choice, you had sex knowing that pregnancy is a possible outcome. Once you are pregnant and a baby is growing inside of you it is no longer just your body. There is another human life to consider. People want to use abortion as a form of birth control and it is just wrong. Take responsibility, grow up and accept the consequences of your actions. Bringing life into this world and being a parent is amazing. If that is not something you want then give the child up for adoption so that baby can bless the life of someone else.
First time I've disagreed with your ideas. When a woman falls pregnant, it's through her choice to have intercourse with full awareness that it could bring a human life into the world. That human life is 50% her egg, and 50% the man's sperm. She's just providing a house for the growing baby for max 9 months, and when the baby is born, the man will be expected to provide a house for the next 18 or more years for her AND the child. Therefore, abortion is not just about her being a very temporary shelter for the growing child, but protecting a creation that is 50% the future father's. So never mind that the baby has rights, so does the father. So in conclusion, when abortion is not seen as ONLY the woman's body making a choice, but that the Father is obligated once the child is born, so should have a say in the abortion as well… THEN we can decide to vote for abortion as a form of contraception or not.
I thought it's HUMOR