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What to do if you can’t ejaculate!
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About time someone is addressing DE.
Totally unexpected, I just realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's crazy! Although what he previously talked about was pretty decent, it was difficult to follow, I just go'ogled the latest in Mario's Thunderous Erections, it's so much simpler and potent now!
What a terrible way. to start this. make fun of our problem! with friends like you, who needs enemies
you are hilarious.
Lube
The depression part hit me on this. Made me look into the side effects of my depression/anxiety meds. SSRI’s and SNRI’s are the culprit. That’s why this has become such a recent issue with men. More and more of us are being treated with these meds and they help with the depression, but take away sensation. I had to describe this to my girlfriend as she was getting frustrated that it was her. I’ve been on these meds for years and never understood why I started taking so damn long to finish. There has to be an answer or solution to bypass what happens in our brains or nervous system while being medicated for depression. I explained to my girlfriend recently, I feel half of the pain and feel half of the pleasure. As an example of pain, I don’t even realize when I stub my toe or get a superficial cut on my fingers.
Always consult a urologist too! I do bloodwork every 3 months
For me, it was porn addiction and masturbation. Gave it up for a couple weeks and I was back to normal.
Lol so than it’s not DE .. hmmmm
Fir me personally, it can be a mental thing, stress is a killer of joy. But I have discovered my partners dryness kills my pleasure & I cant go on. She seems to tske no responsibility for my finishing, which really bothers me. I am always msking sure she finishes. Ive asked & told her to seek help.
Actual causes:
Hormonal
Low testosterone
High SHBG
High estradiol
Pharmaceutical
Anti depressants
Nicotine
Alcohol
Finesteride
Pathogens
Chlamydia
Other novel pathogens that cause prostate numbness
You blabber too much and need to tie your hands also. You must get to the point. Have had this issue all my life. My marriage ended because of ED and DE years ago. Going to a doctor about the sexual issue they say it old age. It was a problem in my 20s and one time after divorce. Then the blue pill came along and it helped the ED which doesn't help with DE. Then at 60 at work was severely attacked by 5 illegals and in ICU for a month with hslf of my skull removed to monitor bleeding for 3 months. Had to learn to walk and speech also. Do not know if my equipment works even with the blue pill. Being retired there is no interest in women in my age group then the young group less than 30 then the others that are pot smoking drunk drugies. Not a smoker, drinker or drug user and never have. Now have a LDR for close to 3 tears, 40 yo no kids. No intimacy sense the head injury in 10 year. I have told about my issues and said we work it and then practice practice. We can put supports under the bed. She is a Filipina and lives in the Philippines. Most females criticize me for the age gape and her not being American. Now realize that is a correct reason to relocat there permanently. For me she is a blessing. We are able discuss anything. Here I the US the females will as it is their way or out the door. Couldn't watch the total video for your not getting to the point hands flopping around. You talking about me always me me.
Can I worship?
Y she know 2 much?
i’ve had this since my first time as a teen and it has been so destructive to my sexual enjoyment and anxiety as well as to some relationships :/
THANK YOU! Your Examples of DE makes Soo Much Sense! I'm 31M with a mix of Anxiety Issues. Porn habits and Death grip, So I'm trying to Change my Mindset and Habits, You make me feel Hopeful and Determined! Much Love <3
For the men with steel stones, that cannot be cracked .
Hey thanks so much ave had a hard time and mine is caused by porn and mustabarting so hard
If you're having psychological trouble, tell her how she can make you feel relaxed and stress free. When your entire body is ready for cumming, it makes it a lot easier. If all else fails, you can pull out and take a ten to fifteen minute break and see if that helps.
One trick that I really like to use, is to try to focus on an aspect or body part of my partner that I find really sexy or attractive; keep your focus on that, and you should get there.
Don't be drunk. Alcohol almost always makes you less hard. And please, for the love of God, don't raw-dog a partner just because you think "it's the condom's fault."
Stop watching porn, stop wanking. To increase sensitivity take a cutting Aloe vera from the garden, open the inside flesh, then add a few drops of eucalyptus oil on it and rub it on your roger.
Came here to learn more about how to please my man and how to help if "problems" ever occur, but got educated for my constant dryness (as well). 😄Thank you!
I watched this when you first put it up on YouTube. But, now I have a question about erections and ejaculation that I'm curious for an answer.
I have been going through a waxing routine, about every 6 weeks.
It's the male Brazilian. (Manzilian)
I realize it's common to get an erection during such a process. But, today I experienced something I don't recall ever experiencing before. Maybe I always have experienced it, but just never noticed.
When the esthetician was finished, she left the room for me to get dressed. Once I stood up, I noticed a patch of wetness on the paper I had been lying on. It was from me! Apparently I "leaked" during the procedure. I assume it was "precum?" I guess I always thought precut was the result if sexual arousal, not every erection. I paid and left, with a real feeling of humiliation, considering canceling my next appointment.
Is this "leakage" normal for non-sexual erections?
Love your cleavage
The surf analogy is an excellent and describes the feeling exactly!
What if you dont want to fuck but the other person does I'm Lost
One of my best friends – a few years younger than me (in his early 40s) – told me he pretty much can't get erections anymore due to nerve impingements in his lower back. He told me used to be able to have sex up to 10 times in a day! I asked him how the hell guys are able to have multiple orgasms like that because I've almost never been able to do it. Even as a young man, my refractory period was more like 2 to 5 DAYS – not minutes or hours! I never understood how other guys had sex like that.
I totally relate!! I've always had sensitivity issues where I could keep going and going and finally just get too tired to continue and lose the erection. My wife/girlfriend would be worn out and just want me to finish. It's very frustrating because I can't get the physical release I need. This happened the first time I had sex (at age 23) and was pretty confused because I thought sex was supposed to feel really good and always heard guys blow real quick the first time – but I could barely feel anything (I'm average size). I just pumped away for a while then quit in confusion. We went again the next moring and I was finally able to come. The same thing happened two years later when I had sex the first time with the second girl I was with. I've been married for 20 years, and it is a regular problem. My wife has had multiple hip surgeries and it hurts her to keep her legs up, so she wants me to finish pretty quickly when I can. I gets really frustrating and demoralizing. On top of that, she usually keeps herself form orgasm because the muscle tension hurts her injuries. Again, very frustrating. I've found I get better sensation in missionary or doggie style and will use those positions to finish. I can usually finish much easier with masturbation because that always feels better than actual sex. On top of that, I'm 51 now and have had ED issues for many years. Generally able to get it up at first but my mind and body just seem to lose interest. A half tab of Viagra certainly helps but is not a guarantee if I don't have the mental stimulation to go with it. I've had low libido my entire life, and I believe a lot of it is mental because I developed suspicion, mistrust, and hatred of girls and women at a very early age and just wanted them to stay the hell away from me. It took years into adulthood before I would start to socialize with them outside of a work environment.
I just wanted to let you know that I accidentally hit the 👎button. Love your content and I didn’t want you to think that I didn’t appreciate your work.
Premature obit brin to maintain an erecting sis what were facing
I don’t know which would be more frustrating.
I do know I spend more time with toys thAn ever before and every time I have to makes him feel less and less a man but if I don’t do it I become a monster and that will cause us to split up
It’s a heartbreaking quandary
Caitlin, I’d love to email u but have no idea how
48 year old virgin, very self-conscious about my lack of experience, which I think keeps me from fully pursuing a relationship. Also Caitlin, I have always masturbated in prone position. Never with my hand. Just learning now this could be a problem. Is it?
Catlin, I am older but still get harder than when I was younger but the delayed ejaculation is common in me even when I was younger. Quest is, now is there a position that will help with DE? I have tried certain positions but with my back operation a few years ago it did have some DE but I worked on building up my core muscle in my back so I can find please even without E. But I want to know if there is a certain position that will help me more? If you or anyone out there knows please pass it along. My partner is Asian and that alone make me excited and with the long black hair make me hard. I can grab her hair and she wants this but again no E. The only thing we have not tried is anal she has a fear as so do I. My doctor said since you can put it throug a wall you need to be real lube up meaning the two of us but its the mental block on her and we are not trying it because of pain for her although she was able to get me off with her fingers in my Anus. She rubs my prostrate and my prostrate fluid comes out. Its just like us men when the doctor checks your prostrate he gives you enough towels to clean up. But going back to my beautiful asian woman is there some position that the two of us can try to get me to E and she is worried I might leave her. The position is my question.Which one can make me have a orgasm so the two of can have release. I do not want her to think that I will leave her because of DE.
But what if she can’t?