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What’s harassment or assault? Sex Coach Advice
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To every point you said and made…. Yea, what is so difficult to understand about that!? I would definitely be more excited about someone saying “Yes!” Even offering to open a door for anyone… don’t we say “can I get that for you?”
Nice looking Guns at 4:12. Wow Caitlin hot Video from yesteryear !!
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M: "Can I kiss you?"
W: "Uhh…kkkk."
M: "Thank you for your honesty."
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I’ve recently been watching all of Caitlin’s video. It blows my mind this only had a few thousand views. I think it shows a mans paranoia that he may have not considered a women’s consent. 🤯
If I am on a date and I ask my date if I can kiss her and she said yes I would kiss her. With all due respect if a woman said yes to a kiss and didn’t want it she has to live with that not the man cause the man asked. If he just went to go kiss her that’s a whole other story. If anybody remembers the one scene from the movie honey we shrunk out ourselves.
I've known women to change their mind two days after the fact. They regret saying yes. So, according to them, they were victimized. Getting consent is only good for as long as she decides it's good. Unlike other legal situations, it's guilty until proven innocent. Or sometimes women just outright lie and say something happened when it did not. Further, an inebriated man is responsible for his behavior and that of the woman whereas an inebriated woman is not responsible for anyone's behavior. Here in San Antonio a woman came from out of town, rented herself a motel room, went to a bar and bought drinks, consumed those drinks, invited two men back to her room at two AM, and then complained to the police that they made sexual advances. A couple of months ago I turned down an offer of sex on a first date because I now consider such behavior too risky. Men, there's less risk , legally and financially, in hiring a hooker than having sex with a civilian.
I was asked if I would ever try anal. I said NO. It's not something I ever want to do. Yet I was interrogated and told I would like it. That's wrong.
Sadly a lot of men in my personal experience DO NOT care if you DO NOT want to have sex or if you are NOT ready. It's actually scary how many men disregard the words NO or they do not read your body language. They flat out do not care. All that matters to them is they have sex and get off. Not caring about what I want or don't want or that I am not ready. And it's not because I have any issues expressing myself.
I have this co worker who loves when I touch her and she told me she enjoys it because her boyfriend doesn't enjoy touching her. She even took me to the bar where we both work at . See we both work at a restaurant where there is a restaurant on one side and bar on the other side and it wasn't open yet so that were she took me and she ask me to put her up on the pool table and have sex with her. It was just us two in the morning shift and we had time before any one got there so we did have sex with her and now I worried she going to tell anyone about this.
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Thanks for this! Drugs or alcohol=no possiblity of informed consent. Substance use moves into a legally and ethically dangerous area, just like driving. Beer goggles are not an acceptable defense. Could you also do a video on legal duty of care as it relates to sex?
Hello Caitlin, I agree it is a lot better when you ask. I even sometime tell the woman that I into them and go on from there. But, I from Germany and there and a few other countries your able to hug a woman with out asking or even give them a kiss on the side of the face as a greeting. here if you did that is total observe. they might look at it has something different then a greeting…I myself love it when a woman come up to me and give me a hug or a kiss on the side. but where is the break off point. since men look at this different then a women do. I would like to hug some of the women I KNOW but not sure where this would look to them.
>>Anything altering someone else's experience requires consent<<?:) Walking in their visual field? BS. Verbal consent is nonsense. Sex doesn't work like that and you should know better.
I'd rather ask and get a no or risk spoiling the mood than not ask and end up with charges. Just say what you mean and mean what you say.
50 no's and one yes = yes
A man doesn't ask a woman for permission to kiss, a man feels when she is ready from the behaviour. It is a huge turn off for women to ask them to kiss. I think a sex coach should know that. I really appreciate and value all the information you give, some of it actually gave me some insight and help, but this video is not as useful as I though unfortunately.
Bullshit. Never ask if you can kiss her. She doesn't want to say yeah or nay. Consent comes from body language.
it does take the sexy out of it. bye.
no u