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Why she won’t have sex with you
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How does this interaction work out when your partner discovers their asexuality?
good breakdown of the toxic partner playbook – and yes, that's a playbook habitually used by both male and female.
I thought it was all me. He has withheld from me A LOT by going to bed by himself when I thought we were going to bed to make love. He will start a fight over something insignificant and blow up, then I’m left with my head spinning. He accuses me of cheating, which I am not so I’ve been sleeping in another room for five months. He mentions wanting sex and I tell him I’ve been ready but you knock yourself out of it by being a jerk. I feel like I have no desire but I think it’s because he killed it. Your video was eye opening. I want connection, intimacy, and sex and I’m being deprived of all of it.
My wife has withheld sex all the time for the past seven years and it has seriously affected our relationship. I’m sick and tired of it and have started entertaining the idea to see prostitutes, which really doesn’t appeal to me, but what can one do. Tried talking, seeing therapists, nothing helps.
Some call it withholding, some call it intimate partner abuse. Tomato tomahto.
Thank you
Will appreciate if your videos had subtitles. Tnx
You are the koolest sex coach! Be great if you did a video on FWB open friends w/ benefits & how to make it succeed and how it can fail. Just an idea it would help thanks! You are awesome Caitlen !!!
You are a absolute savior or hero or Goddess or something to me.
Thank you thank you thank you incredibly beautiful woman!❤
Seems like if a guy isn’t getting sex from one woman, then he is free to get it from someone else, regardless of how anyone feels about it. Am I wrong about that?
Caitlyn you're the best
Love that you include both sexes as being at "fault" with the title did too. The popular conception that withholding is a female thing is unhelpful as it undermines women who want intimacy and provides a false narrative for women who withhold.
There should be a “Reason # 7”: possibly due to any of 1-6 or a combination thereof—they’re giving sex to someone else, and therefore are disinterested in having sex with you.
<Me to wife of 23 years> "Go ahead and withold it…. I'm still gonna have sex…just not with you!"
I want to marry you❤
Americans are very very confused. If I am in a sexual relationship with a woman….she is 100% Obligated….to provide me with sex OR I AM 100% ALLOWED TO CHEAT ON HER…. YOU SEE WE ARE BOTH IN CONTROL OF ……OUR OWN…. SEXUALITY….SO bend over
Oh wow!! You have NAILED all the issues I experienced in my last relationship.
She came with a sack of demons from her past failed relationships so heavy that I'm surprised that her knees didn't buckle.
Sex didn't happen for 9 months on her terms .
Very narcissistic and cruel at the end. I walked away and I'm sure that she considers herself a victim
Question – I love to touch my partner when we're making love, however my partner isn't very touchy or Feely other than us making love. What do I do to get her to touch me?
Happy new year! I have been married for 17 years and my wife has stop having sex wife the past 3 years! Has not be easy at all! Very frustrating or I go out do my own thing keep it of my mind!
This is totally my ex-wife. Used the book, step by step guide to divorce your spouse and gain custody of your children.
+caitlinvictoriousx As an autist whom the school systems o' the late-20th-Century United States failed due to immature resources, who also saw the disastrous effects o' controlled substances firsthand — but not before I played the fool o' Proverbs 7 — I'm dogged by Legalistic Perfectionism: I therefore always withhold sex from — ME. Found Guilty of 3 counts adultery (I only found out after the fact that Other was separated but not divorced from an apparently abusive spouse somewhere in the Indian Subcontinent): The 3 STRIKES rule therefore applies as self-punishment for an alleged felony.
Unless it's for a very valid reason, HELLL NO!!! I will dump her faster than she thinks… Every girlfriend I had I told them, don't even bother trying, you're going to lose!
Wife is rude, maybe she had health issues,
May be you confuse about this message but it is clear.
instead of solving that, they simply fight to hide those problems, instead
Solving with a loving husband. Husband is crazy for having sex but wife never allowed husband to express his desire and Excitement before her. Though do more house work including kitchen work and cooking. She made husband to felt guilty about his sex needs. Now the situation is so much worse that husband stop sex going near to wife because of her repeated behaviors.
I understand you explain nicely, I was very crazy about sex but it became nightmare. Now they stay together but separate rooms. Ages in 65 plus now, but husband desire are still there but useless. Suggest me
passed so many years